what do you do if the girl you ask out says no and tells her friends about it...

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    Luke O'Neillposted 15 years ago

    what do you do if the girl you ask out says no and tells her friends about it...

    and the news reaches all your friends and they laugh?

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  2. stricktlydating profile image70
    stricktlydatingposted 15 years ago

    Just say something like "It's not like I wanted to get into a relationship with her, I just asked her if she wanted to go out to..(insert a place her)..and it was no big deal".  Shrug it off and stand proud, and don't be discouraged by it, there's probably another girl who's dying for you to ask her out!  Best wishes!

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    Sam Tatumposted 15 years ago

    Sadly, rejection is part of life. The good thing is, don't reject yourself or the confidence you had when you asked her out. Keep living, keep breathing and keep being you. There are much worse rejections than a person who does not want to go out with you. See life as a whole. We often times only see what's before us. Imagine the rejection of a job interview when your mortgage is months behind. Imagine a vital organ in your body rejecting. Imagine a judge's rejection your defense when you're innocent and you're sentenced to prison. Kind of makes that girl's rejection small, doesn't it? Love yourself, know yourself well enough to say, that nobody who rejects me, I never will. And, be your own greatest hero and inspiration. Sounds weird, but it does wonders for your self confidence.

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    dabeanerposted 15 years ago

    Tell YOUR friends to pass around some gossip that you DID go out, did the nasty, and was she ever freaky.

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