Does a couple in love try to save a relationship riddled with secrets, or is it

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  1. dream_wilder profile image60
    dream_wilderposted 8 years ago

    Does a couple in love try to save a relationship riddled with secrets, or is it best just to move on

  2. ultracutebot profile image78
    ultracutebotposted 8 years ago

    If you're really in love, there probably shouldn't be too many secrets between you.

  3. moncrieff profile image78
    moncrieffposted 8 years ago

    There should be a mystery and unwelcome secluded places in a relationship. You can't and don't have to strip a person to his/her bare self.

  4. sugz profile image73
    sugzposted 8 years ago

    a relationship should be based on, honesty, communication and trust.. & integrity!
    if there are a multitude of secrets then....

    neither are contributing any integrity in your relationship..
    there's no honesty among you by keeping things secret...
    there's not enough communication to air the secrets that are being held against the other..
    there's obviously no trust to enable each other to share a secret openly and feel the love & trust from the other..

    If you truely love each other, you'll find that level of trust and still be yourself, it's not about losing ones identity to be themselves, it's about mutual consent to be honest and loving without the demanding.

    A relationship is a two way street, it must consist of many elements if it is to thrive, it must be based mainly on trust, because trust is not given or taken, it is earned through your own integrity!

    so.. sorry to say, unless ya get rid of the secrets.. build the trust, by comunicating and being honest with each other you're doomed. completely on all levels.

    True love needs no secrets, it is open, honest and communicates feelings of security with no bounds.

  5. MickS profile image70
    MickSposted 8 years ago

    We all have some secrets; mainly because they're just to complicated and/or painful to tell; however, a relationship riddled with secrets has nothing to do with love.

  6. stricktlydating profile image82
    stricktlydatingposted 8 years ago

    If there is really love from both sides, it is possible to overcome the secrets kept in the past and move forward in your relationship, making it all the stronger...

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