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What Do You Say When You Approach A Girl You Like For The First Time? How Do You

  1. ngureco profile image82
    ngurecoposted 7 years ago

    What Do You Say When You Approach A Girl You Like For The First Time? How Do You Overcome...

    The Weakness Of Wanting To Say Something To Her But The Words Just Refuses To Come Out?

  2. Dave Mathews profile image60
    Dave Mathewsposted 7 years ago

    My favorite line to use used to be: "There must be a lot of crying going on in heaven right now." When they ask why, I say,  "Because Heaven's most beautiful angel is standing right here with me." 

    Every woman needs to know that someone sees them as beautiful, and to be seen as angelic is usually the icing on the cake, they can't resist it.

  3. stricktlydating profile image81
    stricktlydatingposted 7 years ago

    Just try keep it casual, say somthing like "Hi, how are you are you having a nice day?" it just might get a conversation started, and you will come across as being friendly.

  4. WorldsLargestList profile image36
    WorldsLargestListposted 7 years ago

    You need to just man up. Pick a day and go to a mall that is crowded. Make it your mission to approach at least 30 women in 2 hours time. You are in a mall with tons of people that are moving constantly so the next women you approach wont even see that you just approached another girl. Just walk up and say 'Hi, I know this may seem kind of weird but I think your really attractive and was just hoping to get your phone number so I can give you a call and maybe take you out to dinner'  Nothing more and nothing less. It is very simple and easy to memorize. After approaching the 30 women your fear will be gone.

  5. ConstantineNguyen profile image60
    ConstantineNguyenposted 7 years ago

    Smile first...the smile can relieve us, a smile can bring us closer and in your case may give you more courage to yummy her !!

  6. Sesshoumaru2st profile image58
    Sesshoumaru2stposted 6 years ago

    Listen all the commenter tried to put in their outdated red cent,so i'm going to put in my 20 dollar bill.Listen,there is no secret to approach a girl.first dude,grow some tennis balls ok? Walk up to her and tell her you want a relationship with her. Yes,confidence works.OK lets tell u how i role.First of all dude,i wouldn't even bother trying to get this girl.If this girl isn't interested in you,then it's a fail mission before it even started.Simple,my way is get interested in the girls who already like me,not the ones who couldn't careless about me.

  7. Pintoman profile image61
    Pintomanposted 6 years ago

    It gets easier the older you get. Older women are like cow pies, the older they get, the easier they are to pick up. Just say something. The ones that make you weak are the ones that should scare you the least.

  8. Robert Erich profile image89
    Robert Erichposted 6 years ago

    Check out my article "A Flawless Way to Meet Women" - I think it will answer this question for you.


    Best of luck!

  9. aidendavis profile image54
    aidendavisposted 4 years ago

    Great post!
    Check out The Approach Coach - an iPhone app that helps men overcome their fear of approaching women they find attractive.