I have been sleeping with a married man. We are away for 6 months working togeth

Jump to Last Post 1-9 of 9 discussions (9 posts)
  1. profile image51
    vivian1073posted 8 years ago

    I have been sleeping with a married man. We are away for 6 months working together and became...

    very attracted to each other. We have an amazing time together and have a lot of fun. I do not plan on being with this person, nor does he plan on being with me. We are just having an amazing time. However, I am not the type of person to do something like that to another woman. Am I a horrible person for doing this? Should I just stop, or enjoy the remaining time we have left out here together?

  2. bujes profile image60
    bujesposted 8 years ago

    I believe you should stop doing it because your plan about not being with this person can gone wrong and you will start being emotionally attached to him. You can still have good time but be careful about it...

  3. Liberate profile image57
    Liberateposted 8 years ago

    Yeah; Just Break Her Heart; Both Of You Seem To Be Worthless; If You Want A Good Time; Go Drinking; Not Sleeping With Another Woman's Husband; You're Just Selling Yourself Short; And He Found Pleasure In Using You For A While; While You've Taken A Good Person; Who Doesn't Belong To You; And If You're Asking If It's Wrong; Then You Seriously Need To Go Back To School; And Learn Maturity; How Would You Feel If It Was Done To You? Think Before You Speak; Not Every 16 Year Old Wants To See People Cheating Then Asking If It's A Bad Thing...

    Honestly; How Old Are You? 18?

  4. katkin profile image60
    katkinposted 8 years ago

    I believe that you can have fun with a member of the opposite sex without sleeping with them. What on earth possessed you to sleep with him! I think you should explain to him that yes its been fun but it has to stop now, no more sleeping with each other. And no you're not a horrible person - just maybe a little silly.

  5. nightwork4 profile image60
    nightwork4posted 8 years ago

    what your doing is called selfish. it is as easy as that.

  6. sofs profile image88
    sofsposted 8 years ago

    Breaking a marriage is the easiest thing to do, do you realise the consequences. would you like your man to cheat on you?
    Please stop it for your sake for the sake of the man his family and the heartache you are causing someone.
    Do take time to think about your action and find a way of changing the way you life your life.
    This is said not as condemnation but to help you be a better person.

  7. krishubpages123 profile image34
    krishubpages123posted 8 years ago

    I do not know why most the women are opportunitic person they uses chances if they get, but men are not that way, I never go for it unless it comes to them, you might feel happy bodily like eating honey every day, it adds insult in to your mental healthiness, you are making wound in your mental strength by doing these things, it will happy bodily for mentally it is insulting others, it might go up to susicide sometimes because you did not morally behaved it remains in your mind even when you sleep with your husband and it pops up and kill you, be care full, do indulge in unwanted and illegal sex like this, please stop, you are making mentally hurting yourself but you are telling you are happy.

  8. MickS profile image68
    MickSposted 8 years ago

    The only thing we can truly claim ownership of is our own honour, once you give away your honour, you really possess nothing.  You're not a terrible person, but you have nothing, and your partner in this matter is just the same.

  9. breathe2travel profile image79
    breathe2travelposted 8 years ago

    STOP!  You are not helping anyone, but hurting everyone involved.  You may not be able to see the consequences now... but they will come. 

    How would you feel if you were betrayed?


This website uses cookies

As a user in the EEA, your approval is needed on a few things. To provide a better website experience, hubpages.com uses cookies (and other similar technologies) and may collect, process, and share personal data. Please choose which areas of our service you consent to our doing so.

For more information on managing or withdrawing consents and how we handle data, visit our Privacy Policy at: https://hubpages.com/privacy-policy#gdpr

Show Details
HubPages Device IDThis is used to identify particular browsers or devices when the access the service, and is used for security reasons.
LoginThis is necessary to sign in to the HubPages Service.
Google RecaptchaThis is used to prevent bots and spam. (Privacy Policy)
AkismetThis is used to detect comment spam. (Privacy Policy)
HubPages Google AnalyticsThis is used to provide data on traffic to our website, all personally identifyable data is anonymized. (Privacy Policy)
HubPages Traffic PixelThis is used to collect data on traffic to articles and other pages on our site. Unless you are signed in to a HubPages account, all personally identifiable information is anonymized.
Amazon Web ServicesThis is a cloud services platform that we used to host our service. (Privacy Policy)
CloudflareThis is a cloud CDN service that we use to efficiently deliver files required for our service to operate such as javascript, cascading style sheets, images, and videos. (Privacy Policy)
Google Hosted LibrariesJavascript software libraries such as jQuery are loaded at endpoints on the googleapis.com or gstatic.com domains, for performance and efficiency reasons. (Privacy Policy)
Google Custom SearchThis is feature allows you to search the site. (Privacy Policy)
Google MapsSome articles have Google Maps embedded in them. (Privacy Policy)
Google ChartsThis is used to display charts and graphs on articles and the author center. (Privacy Policy)
Google AdSense Host APIThis service allows you to sign up for or associate a Google AdSense account with HubPages, so that you can earn money from ads on your articles. No data is shared unless you engage with this feature. (Privacy Policy)
Google YouTubeSome articles have YouTube videos embedded in them. (Privacy Policy)
VimeoSome articles have Vimeo videos embedded in them. (Privacy Policy)
PaypalThis is used for a registered author who enrolls in the HubPages Earnings program and requests to be paid via PayPal. No data is shared with Paypal unless you engage with this feature. (Privacy Policy)
Facebook LoginYou can use this to streamline signing up for, or signing in to your Hubpages account. No data is shared with Facebook unless you engage with this feature. (Privacy Policy)
MavenThis supports the Maven widget and search functionality. (Privacy Policy)
Google AdSenseThis is an ad network. (Privacy Policy)
Google DoubleClickGoogle provides ad serving technology and runs an ad network. (Privacy Policy)
Index ExchangeThis is an ad network. (Privacy Policy)
SovrnThis is an ad network. (Privacy Policy)
Facebook AdsThis is an ad network. (Privacy Policy)
Amazon Unified Ad MarketplaceThis is an ad network. (Privacy Policy)
AppNexusThis is an ad network. (Privacy Policy)
OpenxThis is an ad network. (Privacy Policy)
Rubicon ProjectThis is an ad network. (Privacy Policy)
TripleLiftThis is an ad network. (Privacy Policy)
Say MediaWe partner with Say Media to deliver ad campaigns on our sites. (Privacy Policy)
Remarketing PixelsWe may use remarketing pixels from advertising networks such as Google AdWords, Bing Ads, and Facebook in order to advertise the HubPages Service to people that have visited our sites.
Conversion Tracking PixelsWe may use conversion tracking pixels from advertising networks such as Google AdWords, Bing Ads, and Facebook in order to identify when an advertisement has successfully resulted in the desired action, such as signing up for the HubPages Service or publishing an article on the HubPages Service.
Author Google AnalyticsThis is used to provide traffic data and reports to the authors of articles on the HubPages Service. (Privacy Policy)
ComscoreComScore is a media measurement and analytics company providing marketing data and analytics to enterprises, media and advertising agencies, and publishers. Non-consent will result in ComScore only processing obfuscated personal data. (Privacy Policy)
Amazon Tracking PixelSome articles display amazon products as part of the Amazon Affiliate program, this pixel provides traffic statistics for those products (Privacy Policy)