Will my husbad trust me again and want me back?
My husband wants to divorce me after finding out from a letter I wrote him that a so-called friend of mine had his way with me. I'm not at all attracted to him and he is so not my type, but he got me extremely drunk and took advantage of me. I wrote a letter to my husband not explaining what happened but told him I had an affair because I felt guilty for allowing myself to be in a situation like that. It has been 8 months since he left and he says he wants to divorce me but still loves me and says he forgives me, but when we did argue he always through it in my face. Will he ever trust me agai
Well, I feel very sorry for you. It sounds like you made a terrible mistake, but that you acknowledge it and feel very bad about it. It sounds like you have definitely learned your lesson and will not do it again.
It also sounds like your husband is very hurt. But despite being hurt, and taking a strong stand, he still loves you and wants to forgive you. I think that your best bet is to listen to him. Perhaps you can also entering into some kind of marriage counseling with him.
Thank you Ari, but I have mentioned counseling, but he refuses. He keeps saying he wants s divorce but hasn't taken any action towards getting one. He comes over now we talk on the phone everyday. I'm begining to have hope, but I don't want to hurt more after I think it will work then it's s fail. But I do want him to be happy, so if it's the divorce he truely wants I will have to respect his wishes... I'm still lost. Any advice?
Can I be honest with you? Your husband will probably never trust you again for the rest of your marriage. Its a hurtful process and it is something that can't be forgotten even though he loves you so much. Not saying that it couldn't work out at all and perhaps counseling can help. Trust is something that you really have to earn. Here is the consequences that you will face. Your husband will always worry when you go out with your friends and it may cause arguments. If you can deal with that kind of lifestyle for a long time then most likely it will work out. The guilt for you is probably the worst feeling in the world and it is eating at you everyday. I'm sure you learned a lesson and I really hope you and your husband can makes things work. I don't want to seem negative just trying to be honest.
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I am not an expert but I have been through the ringer and back with my own husband who has Intimacy Anorexia. He never went to counseling but I did--2 years of it. You find a counselor that does Intimacy Anorexic counseling and you go by yourself if you have too. You will learn more about yourself and how to set boundaries and that will help you make better decisions and coping skills. Do not hem and haw anymore. Just do it. It is really hard at first but then it becomes better.
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