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What is being sexy?

  1. stanley3181 profile image57
    stanley3181posted 7 years ago

    What is being sexy?

    I have often heard people telling each other how sexy they think they are, i am one who has often been told that i am sexy. Today after reading an encouraging hub in relation to ''sexy'', i am left with a question. What do you mean when you address someone as sexy? what does that mean and does it really mean anything?

  2. Wesman Todd Shaw profile image99
    Wesman Todd Shawposted 7 years ago

    confidence and assertiveness along with making efforts towards looking good, hygiene, etc.  Eye contact is really sexy, so forth so on.

  3. Autumn Miller profile image56
    Autumn Millerposted 7 years ago

    Being sexy is made up of different elements.  Is a combination of being confident, self assured, and a certain je ne sais quoi. There is an element of mystery that creates an aura of sexiness.

  4. thedesertrocks profile image58
    thedesertrocksposted 7 years ago

    Stanley,If many people have told you this then you must really be 1. Good looking or 2. Exude a charming personality that lights up your eyes when you speak.( I'm sure you have heard that the eyes are the windows to our soul.) 3. You have fashion sense and know how mix and match your wardrobe to significantly bring out your best features.
    Usually, beauty is in the eye of the beholder, but since you get this often it means you have a nice aura-- you have character and it shows.
    Being sexy carries with it the added responsibility of treating your competition in the social world with respect. Don't forget those who don't find you sexy are jealous and wondering what exactly you do to arouse their interest. You may not be doing anything unusual because being sexy comes natural to you.

    1. gmwilliams profile image85
      gmwilliamsposted 4 years agoin reply to this

      AMEN to THAT, DESERT!  AMEN to that a multillion times!

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    RyanKekoufski09posted 7 years ago

    This should be common sense; it means that person is attractive to you.

  6. KristenGrace profile image60
    KristenGraceposted 7 years ago

    For me, someone is sexy when they possess three main qualities: confidence, a sense of humor and an incredible smile.  I think it's different for everyone, but if those three are wrapped in the same package, that's sexy.

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    jasper420posted 7 years ago

    being sexy is feelin sexy confadince is everything

  8. gmwilliams profile image85
    gmwilliamsposted 4 years ago


    The main ingredients in being sexy is a combination of attractiveness, intelligence, physicality, and confidence.  It is also being fiercely proud of such atttributes and being fierce in demonstrating those attributes.  Sexy people are highly self-confident.  They KNOW who THEY are and are not ashamed to show it to the world. 

    Sexy people are also highly intelligent.  They know that their minds are just as attractive as their bodies.  They are intelligent enough to keep themselves at their most optimal condition physically, psychologically, spiritually, and intellectually.   They know that intelligence is a high and powerful aphrodisiac. 

    Sexy people, of course, are physically attractive, even beautiful/handsome.  They know that physical appearance is the initial drawing factor.   They know the importance of eating and exercising correctly.   They know that their bodies are magnificient conduits; only by keeping themselves in magnificent shape, they can be at their most magnificent and optimal level in EVERY way.

    Confidence is IMPORTANT to being sexy.  If one is not confident, he/she is not sexy.  There is no room for modesty in terms of sexiness.  Sexy people are confident and bold.  However, they are not brash, brassy, or otherwise unclassy.   Sexy people have CLASS.  They know that there is a thin line between sexiness and utter trashiness.  One can be sexy with the utmost elan and panache.