What do women find sexy in a man?

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  1. greencha profile image66
    greenchaposted 5 years ago

    What do women find sexy in a man?

    Whats the main immediate attraction of a woman to man.

  2. peachpurple profile image84
    peachpurpleposted 5 years ago

    ahh... a good question... In my opinion, there are a few factors to consider.
    Gentleman gesture, six pack muscles and white long kegs! I love my man white long legs even he is a chinese. Chinese people are more or less have tone color skin but my man has white skin and legs that is similar to a model. He should do cat walk!

    1. greencha profile image66
      greenchaposted 5 years agoin reply to this

      ...similar to a model! --interesting  thanks peachpurple...

  3. ExpectGreatThings profile image84
    ExpectGreatThingsposted 5 years ago

    Immediately attractive? For me, that is someone who looks me in the eyes and listens with undivided attention smile

    1. greencha profile image66
      greenchaposted 5 years agoin reply to this

      Good one---'focus'.... thanks    ExpectGreatThings....

  4. janshares profile image96
    jansharesposted 5 years ago

    Really? Okay. Muscular arms, well-proportioned body, height.

    1. greencha profile image66
      greenchaposted 5 years agoin reply to this

      Yes I can see that being an initial eye catcher... thanks janshares

  5. lisasuniquevoice profile image73
    lisasuniquevoiceposted 5 years ago

    It's sexy when a man can show his feelings without being afraid of being hurt.
    Lisa

    1. greencha profile image66
      greenchaposted 5 years agoin reply to this

      Yes some chaps definately have probs here..

    2. adorablebaby profile image60
      adorablebabyposted 5 years agoin reply to this

      so true! people just dont get it..!

  6. profile image0
    mrsbaker02posted 5 years ago

    Every woman is different... However, if we are talking immediate attraction, like from across the room...

    An air of confidence...NOT cockiness, but confidence is very sexy.

    1. greencha profile image66
      greenchaposted 5 years agoin reply to this

      Yes I suppose that counts for alot. Thanks mrsbaker02

    2. A Driveby Quipper profile image60
      A Driveby Quipperposted 5 years agoin reply to this

      They love a man in uniform.

  7. MissJamieD profile image70
    MissJamieDposted 5 years ago

    That's a tough one. I love nice hair, a bit muscular, nice smile, nice eyes, they have to be able to look into your soul. They need to be a good listener and communicate openly and honestly.

    1. greencha profile image66
      greenchaposted 5 years agoin reply to this

      That seems sensible thanks MissjamieD..

    2. kyawnaing profile image54
      kyawnaingposted 5 years agoin reply to this

      wow!! very honest

  8. greencha profile image66
    greenchaposted 5 years ago

    Thanks ladys,right-back to the drawing board!!!...Gym etc...

  9. Neinahpets profile image86
    Neinahpetsposted 5 years ago

    Depends on the woman you're asking.  If I've never spoken to the man and I can only see him, then it would likely have a lot to do with his hair followed by his body type, then teeth.  If it's after speaking to them, it would be sense of humor, and intellect... and if it's like literally immediate, the tone of their voice can be a huge factor.  Actually definitely the voice can be the root of an instant attraction or not.

    Great question!

    1. Neinahpets profile image86
      Neinahpetsposted 5 years agoin reply to this

      Not a problem.

    2. greencha profile image66
      greenchaposted 5 years agoin reply to this

      Thanks -all very important

  10. BeccaBunnyBoo profile image60
    BeccaBunnyBooposted 5 years ago

    Hum...I would have to say his eyes.....I am a real sucker for baby blues,like the ocean. I love it when you can get lost in them. And then the heart ....I love to see the passion in a man and I find a man who is religious attractive as well. Especially when you see his heart for the Lord. Oh and romance....sweet gestures..

  11. AussieTreeChange profile image73
    AussieTreeChangeposted 5 years ago

    That is a difficult question to answer.  But I think for me its a mans smile.  I also love strong looking shoulders and arms.

  12. Aakashaashish profile image38
    Aakashaashishposted 5 years ago

    Man's eyes and his way of speech attracts woman a lot

    1. A Driveby Quipper profile image60
      A Driveby Quipperposted 5 years agoin reply to this

      Cash!

  13. AmandaLBrantley profile image73
    AmandaLBrantleyposted 5 years ago

    What I look for in a man is not looks because that will fade. He will lose his hair, his six pack abs will turn to a keg. He will lose inches and gain some wrinkles. The way he dresses does not matter because you can always change the clothes he wears. I find that honesty and a great personality make a man sexy. the best looks in the world fade but a funny personality will keep you laughing all the days you are together. Open communication with honesty at the helm will only enrich the relationship. Honesty is definitely sexy.

  14. jojoluvsjon profile image60
    jojoluvsjonposted 5 years ago

    loyatly! a married man who wears his wedding ring with pride.  salt and pepper hair and a nice smile don't hurt either wink

  15. mizwoody profile image58
    mizwoodyposted 5 years ago

    The way he approaches and interacts. It's the connection that is made.

  16. Mega over profile image56
    Mega overposted 5 years ago

    Abbs lots and lots of abbs. Why do you think so many lady's ( and me ) love it when Taylor laughter is on tv ( with his shirt off ) ?

    1. A Driveby Quipper profile image60
      A Driveby Quipperposted 5 years agoin reply to this

      I've got a six pack, but it's in the cooler, now.

  17. iamvijay profile image60
    iamvijayposted 5 years ago

    I think now days most of the woman gets attracted by the ways the men Dressed up.
    1.Most of the women see the height of the men and slim fit
    2.Mainly the Character of the men plays a vital role in the attraction of a women and his way of Speech,Kind and Care towards here.
    I think this will help you lol.
    Thank you,
    Have a great day.

  18. inthethirdperson profile image60
    inthethirdpersonposted 5 years ago

    The ability to provide them a comfortable lifestyle.

    1. greencha profile image66
      greenchaposted 5 years agoin reply to this

      Oh!

  19. Edlira profile image64
    Edliraposted 5 years ago

    I guess I will go anytime for brains, sense of humour, and manners. For inital attraction my eyes would fall on a tall man, with a warm smile and a well-groomed appearance smile. Doesn't take much to make me happy, does it tongue

    1. A Driveby Quipper profile image60
      A Driveby Quipperposted 5 years agoin reply to this

      If it's not much you want, I'm your guy!

  20. MisterShives profile image60
    MisterShivesposted 5 years ago

    Not a female, but I love mens eyes. Facial hair is a huge plus.

    1. Mega over profile image56
      Mega overposted 5 years agoin reply to this

      So I'm guessing you have facial hair don't you

  21. Livingtwentyfirst profile image78
    Livingtwentyfirstposted 5 years ago

    i like a strong man..abs shoulders,height not a problem.i also find a man who can communicate his feelings

    1. iamvijay profile image60
      iamvijayposted 5 years agoin reply to this

      Ya good opinion.

  22. josephbarrett profile image58
    josephbarrettposted 5 years ago

    Dark eyes and long lashes. This one may sound a little metro-sexual but in my opinion there is just something about a guy with a beautiful set of thick, long, full lashes and deep dark brown eyes that seem to tell their own story. Nice eyes and nice lashes can make up for guys that have that “rough around the edges” look to them, it tends to soften them up a bit.

  23. lissa ann11 profile image57
    lissa ann11posted 5 years ago

    In my opinion his gestures and first impression. Or might be its his attitude or way to impress people that influences a women.

    1. greencha profile image66
      greenchaposted 5 years agoin reply to this

      Thanks lissa ann11 interesting

  24. Sarniah Samon profile image60
    Sarniah Samonposted 5 years ago

    the way he talks as in politely to women..his smile

    1. iamvijay profile image60
      iamvijayposted 5 years agoin reply to this

      agree with you

  25. Lilbittybetty profile image60
    Lilbittybettyposted 5 years ago

    His scent, his eyes, his laugh, his comical side, his take charge nature, his strength, his sex appeal, his body, his muscles, his smile, his cuddling, his attentiveness, his intelligent conversations, his protection, his companionship, his way of expressing his good and vulnerable feelings to you only, his walk, his way of providing for you...

  26. kidnappedkids profile image92
    kidnappedkidsposted 5 years ago

    The sexiest thing to me about a man is when he takes care of his responsibilities. He has an income, fixes things around that house that are broke, and works on his relationships. A man who is responsible for his life is the sexiest thing I know.

    1. A Driveby Quipper profile image60
      A Driveby Quipperposted 5 years agoin reply to this

      I bet I can change your mind.

  27. Santiniketan profile image61
    Santiniketanposted 5 years ago

    Charming Personality,  Good Look ,Good Look, Good Look

  28. lercell profile image59
    lercellposted 5 years ago

    There are so many ways to answer any question. Each woman is unique and has different desires, people are like snow flakes in their minds and their physical attractions. Best way to get a woman to notice you is to learn who she is in her mind and appeal to her desires. Also, it doesn't hurt to pay attention to what guys she gives the most attention to and start looking like them. lol. Generalizations of types of people would greatly help you, types like straight edge or athlete, just different niches. And, there's no reason to feel guilty about using these methodologies, if all people are just people and they want to keep proclaiming their tolerance, they should acknowledge that it doesn't matter if you adopt culture, there are no posers. A lot of women like skinny men, some like muscular and some want to cuddle with Mr. Lovehandles. If you want raw sexual desire, work out, meet people at a gym who are more likely to want that kind of thing. Or... if you're looking for a life partner, meet a cute girl at a blood drive, show her how brave you are when taking needles. lol.

    1. greencha profile image66
      greenchaposted 5 years agoin reply to this

      thanks lercell interesting

  29. SarahBrooke profile image61
    SarahBrookeposted 5 years ago

    I am most attracted to a man with confidence.  Nothing is sexier than confident guy who is comfortable with every part of himself.

    1. kyawnaing profile image54
      kyawnaingposted 5 years agoin reply to this

      wow!!!
      such beautiful writing

    2. greencha profile image66
      greenchaposted 5 years agoin reply to this

      Thanks SarahBrooke thats great point, important for both sides  I suppose.

  30. kyawnaing profile image54
    kyawnaingposted 5 years ago

    for me I going to answer is " FUNNY " ha ha ha

    1. iamvijay profile image60
      iamvijayposted 5 years agoin reply to this

      lol

  31. profile image52
    themusa7posted 5 years ago

    Of coutrse, the looks at first, but then his attitudes towards relationships and life in general. Sence of humor is a must. And his kindness and sweet personality will attract me even more then his looks. Speaking of looks, i like the broad sholders, big expressive eyes and a sweet smile.

    1. greencha profile image66
      greenchaposted 5 years agoin reply to this

      Thankyou,thats interesting..regards C..

  32. Markie W profile image61
    Markie Wposted 5 years ago

    I think this is different for every woman, so I'll just speak for myself and maybe that will help. The main immediate attraction I have towards a man is the way that he holds himself. If he has a confident and cheerful demeanor then it's normally an instant attraction for me. Don't mistake that for arrogance though, because that's a deal-breaker for sure. Hope this helped you out greencha!

  33. David Morrison profile image74
    David Morrisonposted 5 years ago

    I'm not a female, but I noticed from experience that girls like me for my 6 pack abs and athletic built body. Also, it's the way I carry myself with confidence.

  34. DexisView profile image73
    DexisViewposted 5 years ago

    The first thing that draws me to a man is a great smile.
    What I find the most sexy is a man that is proud to tell the world that I am his!

  35. CBartelmey profile image76
    CBartelmeyposted 5 years ago

    The way he presents himself.  The way he walks, the way he interacts with people, his demeanor, his dress - all goes a long way.

  36. emilynemchick profile image95
    emilynemchickposted 5 years ago

    I find a man who is caring and confident sexy. He has to be self-assured, but not selfish or arrogant. If he cares about his family and friends, there is nothing more attractive.

  37. fpherj48 profile image77
    fpherj48posted 5 years ago

    I would never presume to speak for any woman but myself.....on this topic, or most other topics of such an individual, personal nature.
    In terms of "Sexy,"  I'm definitely into a man's smile,(dimples?) his build, his voice....and sense of humor.....if he has an accent, that's a bonus point!  smile

 
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