What do women find sexy in a man?

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   greenchaposted 10 years ago

   What do women find sexy in a man?
   
   Whats the main immediate attraction of a woman to man.

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   peachpurpleposted 10 years ago

   ahh... a good question... In my opinion, there are a few factors to consider.
   Gentleman gesture, six pack muscles and white long kegs! I love my man white long legs even he is a chinese. Chinese people are more or less have tone color skin but my man has white skin and legs that is similar to a model. He should do cat walk!

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      greenchaposted 10 years agoin reply to this

      ...similar to a model! --interesting  thanks peachpurple...

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   ExpectGreatThingsposted 10 years ago

   Immediately attractive? For me, that is someone who looks me in the eyes and listens with undivided attention

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      greenchaposted 10 years agoin reply to this

      Good one---'focus'.... thanks    ExpectGreatThings....

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   jansharesposted 10 years ago

   Really? Okay. Muscular arms, well-proportioned body, height.

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      greenchaposted 10 years agoin reply to this

      Yes I can see that being an initial eye catcher... thanks janshares

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   lisasuniquevoiceposted 10 years ago

   It's sexy when a man can show his feelings without being afraid of being hurt.
   Lisa

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      greenchaposted 10 years agoin reply to this

      Yes some chaps definately have probs here..

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      adorablebabyposted 10 years agoin reply to this

      so true! people just dont get it..!

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   mrsbaker02posted 10 years ago

   Every woman is different... However, if we are talking immediate attraction, like from across the room...
   
   An air of confidence...NOT cockiness, but confidence is very sexy.

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      greenchaposted 10 years agoin reply to this

      Yes I suppose that counts for alot. Thanks mrsbaker02

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      A Driveby Quipperposted 10 years agoin reply to this

      They love a man in uniform.

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   MissJamieDposted 10 years ago

   That's a tough one. I love nice hair, a bit muscular, nice smile, nice eyes, they have to be able to look into your soul. They need to be a good listener and communicate openly and honestly.

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      greenchaposted 10 years agoin reply to this

      That seems sensible thanks MissjamieD..

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      kyawnaingposted 10 years agoin reply to this

      wow!! very honest

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   greenchaposted 10 years ago

   Thanks ladys,right-back to the drawing board!!!...Gym etc...

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   Neinahpetsposted 10 years ago

   Depends on the woman you're asking.  If I've never spoken to the man and I can only see him, then it would likely have a lot to do with his hair followed by his body type, then teeth.  If it's after speaking to them, it would be sense of humor, and intellect... and if it's like literally immediate, the tone of their voice can be a huge factor.  Actually definitely the voice can be the root of an instant attraction or not.
   
   Great question!

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      Neinahpetsposted 10 years agoin reply to this

      Not a problem.

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      greenchaposted 10 years agoin reply to this

      Thanks -all very important

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    BeccaBunnyBooposted 10 years ago

    Hum...I would have to say his eyes.....I am a real sucker for baby blues,like the ocean. I love it when you can get lost in them. And then the heart ....I love to see the passion in a man and I find a man who is religious attractive as well. Especially when you see his heart for the Lord. Oh and romance....sweet gestures..

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    AussieTreeChangeposted 10 years ago

    That is a difficult question to answer.  But I think for me its a mans smile.  I also love strong looking shoulders and arms.

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    Aakashaashishposted 10 years ago

    Man's eyes and his way of speech attracts woman a lot

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       A Driveby Quipperposted 10 years agoin reply to this

       Cash!

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    AmandaLBrantleyposted 10 years ago

    What I look for in a man is not looks because that will fade. He will lose his hair, his six pack abs will turn to a keg. He will lose inches and gain some wrinkles. The way he dresses does not matter because you can always change the clothes he wears. I find that honesty and a great personality make a man sexy. the best looks in the world fade but a funny personality will keep you laughing all the days you are together. Open communication with honesty at the helm will only enrich the relationship. Honesty is definitely sexy.

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    jojoluvsjonposted 10 years ago

    loyatly! a married man who wears his wedding ring with pride.  salt and pepper hair and a nice smile don't hurt either

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    mizwoodyposted 10 years ago

    The way he approaches and interacts. It's the connection that is made.

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    Mega overposted 10 years ago

    Abbs lots and lots of abbs. Why do you think so many lady's ( and me ) love it when Taylor laughter is on tv ( with his shirt off ) ?

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       A Driveby Quipperposted 10 years agoin reply to this

       I've got a six pack, but it's in the cooler, now.

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    iamvijayposted 10 years ago

    I think now days most of the woman gets attracted by the ways the men Dressed up.
    1.Most of the women see the height of the men and slim fit
    2.Mainly the Character of the men plays a vital role in the attraction of a women and his way of Speech,Kind and Care towards here.
    I think this will help you lol.
    Thank you,
    Have a great day.

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    inthethirdpersonposted 10 years ago

    The ability to provide them a comfortable lifestyle.

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       greenchaposted 10 years agoin reply to this

       Oh!

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    Edliraposted 10 years ago

    I guess I will go anytime for brains, sense of humour, and manners. For inital attraction my eyes would fall on a tall man, with a warm smile and a well-groomed appearance . Doesn't take much to make me happy, does it

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       A Driveby Quipperposted 10 years agoin reply to this

       If it's not much you want, I'm your guy!

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    MisterShivesposted 10 years ago

    Not a female, but I love mens eyes. Facial hair is a huge plus.

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       Mega overposted 10 years agoin reply to this

       So I'm guessing you have facial hair don't you

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    Livingtwentyfirstposted 10 years ago

    i like a strong man..abs shoulders,height not a problem.i also find a man who can communicate his feelings

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       iamvijayposted 10 years agoin reply to this

       Ya good opinion.

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    josephbarrettposted 10 years ago

    Dark eyes and long lashes. This one may sound a little metro-sexual but in my opinion there is just something about a guy with a beautiful set of thick, long, full lashes and deep dark brown eyes that seem to tell their own story. Nice eyes and nice lashes can make up for guys that have that “rough around the edges” look to them, it tends to soften them up a bit.

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    lissa ann11posted 10 years ago

    In my opinion his gestures and first impression. Or might be its his attitude or way to impress people that influences a women.

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       greenchaposted 10 years agoin reply to this

       Thanks lissa ann11 interesting

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    Sarniah Samonposted 10 years ago

    the way he talks as in politely to women..his smile

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       iamvijayposted 10 years agoin reply to this

       agree with you

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    Lilbittybettyposted 10 years ago

    His scent, his eyes, his laugh, his comical side, his take charge nature, his strength, his sex appeal, his body, his muscles, his smile, his cuddling, his attentiveness, his intelligent conversations, his protection, his companionship, his way of expressing his good and vulnerable feelings to you only, his walk, his way of providing for you...

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    kidnappedkidsposted 10 years ago

    The sexiest thing to me about a man is when he takes care of his responsibilities. He has an income, fixes things around that house that are broke, and works on his relationships. A man who is responsible for his life is the sexiest thing I know.

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       A Driveby Quipperposted 10 years agoin reply to this

       I bet I can change your mind.

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    Santiniketanposted 10 years ago

    Charming Personality,  Good Look ,Good Look, Good Look

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    lercellposted 10 years ago

    There are so many ways to answer any question. Each woman is unique and has different desires, people are like snow flakes in their minds and their physical attractions. Best way to get a woman to notice you is to learn who she is in her mind and appeal to her desires. Also, it doesn't hurt to pay attention to what guys she gives the most attention to and start looking like them. lol. Generalizations of types of people would greatly help you, types like straight edge or athlete, just different niches. And, there's no reason to feel guilty about using these methodologies, if all people are just people and they want to keep proclaiming their tolerance, they should acknowledge that it doesn't matter if you adopt culture, there are no posers. A lot of women like skinny men, some like muscular and some want to cuddle with Mr. Lovehandles. If you want raw sexual desire, work out, meet people at a gym who are more likely to want that kind of thing. Or... if you're looking for a life partner, meet a cute girl at a blood drive, show her how brave you are when taking needles. lol.

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       greenchaposted 10 years agoin reply to this

       thanks lercell interesting

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    SarahBrookeposted 10 years ago

    I am most attracted to a man with confidence.  Nothing is sexier than confident guy who is comfortable with every part of himself.

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       kyawnaingposted 10 years agoin reply to this

       wow!!!
       such beautiful writing

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       greenchaposted 10 years agoin reply to this

       Thanks SarahBrooke thats great point, important for both sides  I suppose.

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    kyawnaingposted 10 years ago

    for me I going to answer is " FUNNY " ha ha ha

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       iamvijayposted 10 years agoin reply to this

       lol

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    themusa7posted 10 years ago

    Of coutrse, the looks at first, but then his attitudes towards relationships and life in general. Sence of humor is a must. And his kindness and sweet personality will attract me even more then his looks. Speaking of looks, i like the broad sholders, big expressive eyes and a sweet smile.

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       greenchaposted 10 years agoin reply to this

       Thankyou,thats interesting..regards C..

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    Markie Wposted 10 years ago

    I think this is different for every woman, so I'll just speak for myself and maybe that will help. The main immediate attraction I have towards a man is the way that he holds himself. If he has a confident and cheerful demeanor then it's normally an instant attraction for me. Don't mistake that for arrogance though, because that's a deal-breaker for sure. Hope this helped you out greencha!

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    David Morrisonposted 10 years ago

    I'm not a female, but I noticed from experience that girls like me for my 6 pack abs and athletic built body. Also, it's the way I carry myself with confidence.

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    DexisViewposted 10 years ago

    The first thing that draws me to a man is a great smile.
    What I find the most sexy is a man that is proud to tell the world that I am his!

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    CBartelmeyposted 10 years ago

    The way he presents himself.  The way he walks, the way he interacts with people, his demeanor, his dress - all goes a long way.

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    emilynemchickposted 10 years ago

    I find a man who is caring and confident sexy. He has to be self-assured, but not selfish or arrogant. If he cares about his family and friends, there is nothing more attractive.

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    fpherj48posted 9 years ago

    I would never presume to speak for any woman but myself.....on this topic, or most other topics of such an individual, personal nature.
    In terms of "Sexy,"  I'm definitely into a man's smile,(dimples?) his build, his voice....and sense of humor.....if he has an accent, that's a bonus point! 

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