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Do you plan to marry before 30?

  1. EinsFloW profile image63
    EinsFloWposted 7 years ago

    Do you plan to marry before 30?

  2. divacratus profile image76
    divacratusposted 7 years ago

    I already am smile It all depends on when you feel ready.

  3. profile image46
    pandathefuriouposted 7 years ago

    Probably not. I was engaged very young and when the relationship ended I felt like I had dodged a bullet. I feel like you are still developing in your twenties. Figuring out your personality, goals, aspirations. You are loosing old friends and gaining new ones. Depending on your career you may be looking to move or change jobs.

    I feel like this day in age most people peak in performance in their mid twenties, and I would like to be able to reach my maximum potentials before settling down.

    Also cohabitation is something that I am not ready for. I like my space and time to myself. Shared time would be difficult for me if it was on a constant basis.

  4. TheRaptorClaw profile image60
    TheRaptorClawposted 7 years ago

    No, i plan to go through college first. I don't know when i will get married but it will sure not be before 30.

  5. Smaridge01 profile image76
    Smaridge01posted 7 years ago

    I didn't plan on marrying before I was 30. I had no plans about marriage at all back then. But I did get married before 30, way before 30. I am long since divorced from my first wife.

    I didn't realize until way too late that I married her for all the wrong reasons... emotional baggage and all that.  If I was doing it again, I would wait until at least closer to 30.

    That being said, I don't think the number is as relevant as a person's emotional maturity, expectations, and so on. It's great to wait until you are older and wiser, but it's also nice to share more years with the person you love.

  6. Karonher profile image74
    Karonherposted 7 years ago

    At 48 the answer is clearly no. I don't feel ready now let alone nearly 20 years ago.

  7. fayehelen profile image54
    fayehelenposted 7 years ago

    I've been with my boyfriend since I was 15 and I am 21 now. I think I'll kill him if he doesn't marry me before 30, it seems to long already!!! Though, I love him so much, and although I moan about it, he knows I could wait forever...
    awww. sickening i know! lol.

  8. Sullen91 profile image78
    Sullen91posted 7 years ago

    30 is slightly too old. No one wants to be a single bum out of the youthful twenties.

  9. Donna Janelle profile image74
    Donna Janelleposted 7 years ago

    I already am married...way before 30 smile I think it definitely depends on the people who are getting married...their maturity levels and how they grew up. Everyone is different.

  10. QudsiaP1 profile image61
    QudsiaP1posted 7 years ago

    Probably, nothing is for certain, however if the right person comes along, than probably.

  11. macalaba profile image56
    macalabaposted 7 years ago

    i don't know.. hehehehe

    we don't know what's gonna happen in the future but i think YES..!
    before 30 i am already married.. big_smile

  12. Abbasangel profile image74
    Abbasangelposted 7 years ago

    I already am. When I got engaged my head was spinning, I was so excited. It took me a little while to flesh out what the idea of marriage was for me. But I did that before we got married.

    I also wrote a hub about my marriage... the men in my life. I would hope that this reflects that I made a good decision.

    Marriage is about being able to be 2 people who have chosen to follow the same path not choke the life out of each other by not letting the other do things separately or acheive separately and in thier own right.

  13. TopManagement profile image35
    TopManagementposted 7 years ago

    yes i want to marry before 30 because everybody can get good job before 30 so before 30 stage is good .......

  14. mylifeiswhoa profile image31
    mylifeiswhoaposted 7 years ago

    no, the reason why is because I don't believe in love just sexually love

  15. medicfrogs profile image76
    medicfrogsposted 7 years ago

    Well.....that's the plan at least....but the clocks ticking sad