Do you plan to marry before 30?

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   EinsFloWposted 13 years ago

   Do you plan to marry before 30?

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   divacratusposted 13 years ago

   I already am It all depends on when you feel ready.

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   pandathefuriouposted 13 years ago

   Probably not. I was engaged very young and when the relationship ended I felt like I had dodged a bullet. I feel like you are still developing in your twenties. Figuring out your personality, goals, aspirations. You are loosing old friends and gaining new ones. Depending on your career you may be looking to move or change jobs.
   
   I feel like this day in age most people peak in performance in their mid twenties, and I would like to be able to reach my maximum potentials before settling down.
   
   Also cohabitation is something that I am not ready for. I like my space and time to myself. Shared time would be difficult for me if it was on a constant basis.

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   TheRaptorClawposted 13 years ago

   No, i plan to go through college first. I don't know when i will get married but it will sure not be before 30.

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   Smaridge01posted 13 years ago

   I didn't plan on marrying before I was 30. I had no plans about marriage at all back then. But I did get married before 30, way before 30. I am long since divorced from my first wife.
   
   I didn't realize until way too late that I married her for all the wrong reasons... emotional baggage and all that.  If I was doing it again, I would wait until at least closer to 30.
   
   That being said, I don't think the number is as relevant as a person's emotional maturity, expectations, and so on. It's great to wait until you are older and wiser, but it's also nice to share more years with the person you love.

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   Karonherposted 13 years ago

   At 48 the answer is clearly no. I don't feel ready now let alone nearly 20 years ago.

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   fayehelenposted 13 years ago

   I've been with my boyfriend since I was 15 and I am 21 now. I think I'll kill him if he doesn't marry me before 30, it seems to long already!!! Though, I love him so much, and although I moan about it, he knows I could wait forever...
   awww. sickening i know! lol.

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   Sullen91posted 13 years ago

   30 is slightly too old. No one wants to be a single bum out of the youthful twenties.

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   Donna Janelleposted 13 years ago

   I already am married...way before 30 I think it definitely depends on the people who are getting married...their maturity levels and how they grew up. Everyone is different.

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    QudsiaP1posted 13 years ago

    Probably, nothing is for certain, however if the right person comes along, than probably.

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    macalabaposted 13 years ago

    i don't know.. hehehehe
    
    we don't know what's gonna happen in the future but i think YES..!
    before 30 i am already married..

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    Abbasangelposted 13 years ago

    I already am. When I got engaged my head was spinning, I was so excited. It took me a little while to flesh out what the idea of marriage was for me. But I did that before we got married.
    
    I also wrote a hub about my marriage... the men in my life. I would hope that this reflects that I made a good decision.
    
    Marriage is about being able to be 2 people who have chosen to follow the same path not choke the life out of each other by not letting the other do things separately or acheive separately and in thier own right.

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    TopManagementposted 13 years ago

    yes i want to marry before 30 because everybody can get good job before 30 so before 30 stage is good .......

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    mylifeiswhoaposted 13 years ago

    no, the reason why is because I don't believe in love just sexually love

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    medicfrogsposted 13 years ago

    Well.....that's the plan at least....but the clocks ticking

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