Well, yes. Marriage is a HUGE deal with God. Its the union of two bodies becoming one in God's eyes. People don't understand how important it is. If you get married and find yourself unhappy try EVERYTHING you can to fix this. The only reason you should get a devorce is if abuse is present and even then you must first try to work thru this.
And in response to ii3rittles:
Marriage vowels are MAN-MADE, not God-made sweetie. Marriage is a commitment to another human being, not to God. Don't get confused. Once you really get to know God you will come to realise that he represents TRUTH. And there is absolutely NO truth in deceiving your heart and another human being..
If someones unhappy in a relationship and feel they can no longer maintain that commitment, be true to your heart, your Self and your spouse and leave.
you are unhappy because you have harden you heart and a hard heart make all heart around them harden to. work on forgive by both of you, soften your two hearts and enjoy one another and life. bring God in you life and forgive like God did for us.
You shouldn't stay in a pair of shoes if they hurt your feet.
I'd say get evidence based marital counseling and connect with a good faith community before giving up, - in most cases.
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