Is fear a natural emotion for loving someone too much?

Jump to Last Post 1-7 of 7 discussions (7 posts)
  1. Krissi87 profile image58
    Krissi87posted 7 years ago

    Is fear a natural emotion for loving someone too much?

  2. daydreamer13 profile image60
    daydreamer13posted 7 years ago

    Yes! I know for a fact that it is! It can turn into disaster or it can help guide you, so listen closely to your concience if you're feeling this.

  3. noyon_ku profile image54
    noyon_kuposted 7 years ago

    may be. everything can be happen for this emotion.

  4. cat on a soapbox profile image96
    cat on a soapboxposted 7 years ago

    In a healthy relationship, a person should  feel comfortable being who he/she really is. You may be nervous but not fearful.  Is the relationship new? Is it a fear of losing the one you love, or is it a fear that you can't be yourself because you don't want to lose someone's affection?
    If you have confidence in yourself as an individual, you won't feel the need for a relationship to complete you, and you shouldn't have as much fear of a break-up. Then again, love is a powerful emotion and often irrational!

  5. ChristineVianello profile image58
    ChristineVianelloposted 7 years ago

    I believe so, because with loving someone too much, one may be scared to get hurt.

  6. dashingscorpio profile image87
    dashingscorpioposted 7 years ago

    There is no such thing as loving someone "too much".
    A mother willing to die in place of her child. Would we call that loving too much?
    A man willing to risk his life to protect his family from an intruder.
    Would we call this loving them "too much"?

    It's only when we discuss (romantic love) that we buy into the concept that it's possible to "love too much' and yet most of these people would not die for the people they "love too much".

    Usually when one believes they love someone "too much" what they're really saying is (they don't love themselves enough!) In one way or another they have given up being themselves or sacraficed their wants, dreams, and needs in order to fit into the other person's world and now they realize their mate would have never done the same for them. It's not so much about "loving too much" as it is the feeling of "inequality of the love" in the relationship.
    Having a lack of confidence and low self-esteem will lead one to feel undeserving or lucky to have someone in their life and therefore they walk on egg shells or live in fear of losing them. Once again I would say this is NOT loving someone "too much" but rather Not Loving YOURSELF Enough!

  7. Lissa2677 profile image52
    Lissa2677posted 7 years ago

    Absolutely, making ourselves venerable is a hard task not matter who you are. I have hugged and squeezed people to death because of fear of loosing them or them loosing interest. Trust me as long as you can make each other feel loved, safe and have trust it can work. But as soon as us humans become obsessive, possessive and smothering it can lead to a car wreck. When I love, I love with all my heart and after many mistakes of holding on far to tight, I am finally getting it. By the way if you don't trust them then don't be with them because it will drive you crazy and make you crazy. Love is a wonderful things when it is given just the right amount of care, time and patience. We all fear loving and loosing but it is worth taking the risks. It is always better to have loved and lost than never have loved at all. You got this, best wishes!!!


This website uses cookies

As a user in the EEA, your approval is needed on a few things. To provide a better website experience, uses cookies (and other similar technologies) and may collect, process, and share personal data. Please choose which areas of our service you consent to our doing so.

For more information on managing or withdrawing consents and how we handle data, visit our Privacy Policy at:

Show Details
HubPages Device IDThis is used to identify particular browsers or devices when the access the service, and is used for security reasons.
LoginThis is necessary to sign in to the HubPages Service.
Google RecaptchaThis is used to prevent bots and spam. (Privacy Policy)
AkismetThis is used to detect comment spam. (Privacy Policy)
HubPages Google AnalyticsThis is used to provide data on traffic to our website, all personally identifyable data is anonymized. (Privacy Policy)
HubPages Traffic PixelThis is used to collect data on traffic to articles and other pages on our site. Unless you are signed in to a HubPages account, all personally identifiable information is anonymized.
Amazon Web ServicesThis is a cloud services platform that we used to host our service. (Privacy Policy)
CloudflareThis is a cloud CDN service that we use to efficiently deliver files required for our service to operate such as javascript, cascading style sheets, images, and videos. (Privacy Policy)
Google Hosted LibrariesJavascript software libraries such as jQuery are loaded at endpoints on the or domains, for performance and efficiency reasons. (Privacy Policy)
Google Custom SearchThis is feature allows you to search the site. (Privacy Policy)
Google MapsSome articles have Google Maps embedded in them. (Privacy Policy)
Google ChartsThis is used to display charts and graphs on articles and the author center. (Privacy Policy)
Google AdSense Host APIThis service allows you to sign up for or associate a Google AdSense account with HubPages, so that you can earn money from ads on your articles. No data is shared unless you engage with this feature. (Privacy Policy)
Google YouTubeSome articles have YouTube videos embedded in them. (Privacy Policy)
VimeoSome articles have Vimeo videos embedded in them. (Privacy Policy)
PaypalThis is used for a registered author who enrolls in the HubPages Earnings program and requests to be paid via PayPal. No data is shared with Paypal unless you engage with this feature. (Privacy Policy)
Facebook LoginYou can use this to streamline signing up for, or signing in to your Hubpages account. No data is shared with Facebook unless you engage with this feature. (Privacy Policy)
MavenThis supports the Maven widget and search functionality. (Privacy Policy)
Google AdSenseThis is an ad network. (Privacy Policy)
Google DoubleClickGoogle provides ad serving technology and runs an ad network. (Privacy Policy)
Index ExchangeThis is an ad network. (Privacy Policy)
SovrnThis is an ad network. (Privacy Policy)
Facebook AdsThis is an ad network. (Privacy Policy)
Amazon Unified Ad MarketplaceThis is an ad network. (Privacy Policy)
AppNexusThis is an ad network. (Privacy Policy)
OpenxThis is an ad network. (Privacy Policy)
Rubicon ProjectThis is an ad network. (Privacy Policy)
TripleLiftThis is an ad network. (Privacy Policy)
Say MediaWe partner with Say Media to deliver ad campaigns on our sites. (Privacy Policy)
Remarketing PixelsWe may use remarketing pixels from advertising networks such as Google AdWords, Bing Ads, and Facebook in order to advertise the HubPages Service to people that have visited our sites.
Conversion Tracking PixelsWe may use conversion tracking pixels from advertising networks such as Google AdWords, Bing Ads, and Facebook in order to identify when an advertisement has successfully resulted in the desired action, such as signing up for the HubPages Service or publishing an article on the HubPages Service.
Author Google AnalyticsThis is used to provide traffic data and reports to the authors of articles on the HubPages Service. (Privacy Policy)
ComscoreComScore is a media measurement and analytics company providing marketing data and analytics to enterprises, media and advertising agencies, and publishers. Non-consent will result in ComScore only processing obfuscated personal data. (Privacy Policy)
Amazon Tracking PixelSome articles display amazon products as part of the Amazon Affiliate program, this pixel provides traffic statistics for those products (Privacy Policy)