How do I get my ex back?
My ex boyfriend broke up with me 3 months ago, im still unsure why we split up. I thought I was getting over him, I started going out and meeting new people to boost my self asteem. And I thought it was kind of working. I still think about him all the time and get upset but I always tell myself that I dont love him. I saw him yesterday, just to give him something back. we had a chat and left it as that. but then he text me later saying he was really sorry for everything and that he wants to put it all behind us. I want him back. how do it get him?
Hi RhyannonDorothy, I sugguest that you think long and hard on why you left him in the first place. Then if you can put whatever it was behind you, let it go for good and start fresh....
I would set the next meeting between the two in a netural place, Get everything in the open, settle your differences (meaing no rehashing the past once it's settled)... Then start that fire back again !!!! ....With the intent on making it last forever.......
Ironically I asked a question yesterday concerning people in your situation.
Why are there so many people on Hubpages asking, "How do I get my ex back?"
When people aren't together they tend to experience "short-term" memory or romantize the past. They forget about all of the "issues" that led to the split. It takes courage to move forward in life. Going backwards may seem safe and comfortable especially if you have not found someone new you consider to be worthwhile (yet).
It's almost as if people believe yesterday is better than tomorrow (will ever be). I believe an ex is usually an ex for a good reason. In many instances their ex has already begun another relationship!
Sometimes it's best to leave a broken mirror alone rather than cutting yourself up trying to put it back together again. Our future lies ahead of us and not behind us.
You'll know you've found "Mr./Ms. Right" because THEY will also recognize YOU as being (their) "Ms./Mr. Right"! Also if you are still in your teens or 20's chances are you aren't mature enough to know who is right for you at this time.
Thankyou for your advice, i think im going to take it. i thought about all the reasons why we split up, and there are actually quite a few, and thinking about them has made me realise that he really isnt worth it. too many bad things have happened. i would like to be friends with him i guess. maybe a relationship just wasnt fo us?
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