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How can I make him come back?

  1. Missy1992 profile image58
    Missy1992posted 6 years ago

    How can I make him come back?

    how can I have my boyfriend back after I told him lets be friends ?nd how can I make him not to ignore me?


  2. TheSloneGal profile image61
    TheSloneGalposted 6 years ago

    Well you can tell him this tell him that you wanted to see if the feelings that you were feeling were true and that is why you wanted to try and just be friends but the feelings are strong and that you love him that being friends is not enough.

    If you have a hard time talking in words and getting every thing out that you want to say then set down and write him a letter and in that you will have the time to get out all that you want to say instead of being face to face and then after words you say oh man if I would have just said that or this. take your time writing a letter telling every thing and pouring your heart out and if that does not work any more then for get him.

  3. Dave Mathews profile image60
    Dave Mathewsposted 6 years ago

    You cannot ever make someone do something they do not want to do. Say goodbye girlie you lose.

  4. Missy1992 profile image58
    Missy1992posted 6 years ago

    thanx for answer (the slone gal) and (dave mathews)..
    i tryed to called him  but he didnt answer the phone i even message and  he said that im busy and blah blah ...but why does he ignore me ? nd should i try for last time because i want to know his answer!!!

  5. Cathy I profile image76
    Cathy Iposted 6 years ago

    Everyone I know who has gone back into a relationship they ended, had to walk out a second time.

    If your gut instinct initially told you to end it, keep moving on....don't look back.  There are many other fish in the sea.
    To get rather graphic with you, it would be like a dog eating its own vomit.

  6. The Dirt Farmer profile image96
    The Dirt Farmerposted 6 years ago

    I sort of agree with Dave. Why should he trust you? Another bus comes along every 10 minutes. He may already be on another ride--one that won't throw him off.

  7. craigsparks profile image59
    craigsparksposted 6 years ago

    since you're satisfied with the answers on your first question, i would like to answer your follow up question.

    i dont know why did you two broke up but since you're the one who told him to be just friends, i guess his pride was hurt when you dumped him..i mean, "ok, you dont want me as your boyfriend anymore, so let it be and i dont wanna talk about it anymore." something like that.. so if i were you, dont force him not to ignore you.. give him time to forget everything about your break up.. i'm sure when time comes he'll not ignore you..

    coz in every relationship there is always valuable memories to be kept..i'm sure he'll keep some good memories you gave him that would lead him to treat you as a true friend..just give him time.

    i hope you'll like my answer..i dont know if he dumped you or you dumped him..but this is my answer..Good luck and Godspeed!