When you fall in "LOVE" do you change who you are?

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  1. Lisa4 profile image59
    Lisa4posted 7 years ago

    When you fall in "LOVE" do you change who you are?

    Do you believe that when you fall in "LOVE" you change for the sake of making the other person happy? Maybe we don't even realize we do it until it's to late...


  2. Ruchira profile image66
    Ruchiraposted 7 years ago

    Making changes in one's lifestyle so that the other one can fit in...esp the person whom you love should not be torture.

  3. profile image0
    jasper420posted 7 years ago

    I would never change who iam in oder to love or be loved if they dont like me for the way iam well then thats there loss

  4. carolp profile image81
    carolpposted 7 years ago

    I am what i am and i remain the way i am. I never know what is love until i met him. Falling in Love is great...getting to know what is love, to love, and be loved make my life meaningful. I think i become more patient, learning to give more, more caring, understanding, stronger etc.

  5. Sundry profile image58
    Sundryposted 7 years ago

    I believe it depends completely on the relationship. Also, a more fulfilling relationship is that which helps a person change for the better, but at the same time neither person has to completely change their interests and passions for the sake of being with the other.

  6. KateWest profile image74
    KateWestposted 7 years ago

    It doesn't change who you are as a person, because hopefully the other person loves you for exactly who you are, but it does help you want to fulfill your potential and strive to be more. You can inspire each other that way.

  7. bestbuys4business profile image56
    bestbuys4businessposted 7 years ago

    I think it is a natural progression that some changes will occur. Personally, I think it was the kids that changed me and I feel my husband would say the same thing.

  8. padmendra profile image45
    padmendraposted 7 years ago

    Its true when in love  we are   happy and keep a positive look for others too. . But  it doesn't create any fresh  changes  in us as everyone  of us  would  prefer  to be  the  way   we are.

  9. Lisa4 profile image59
    Lisa4posted 7 years ago

    exactly, One grows ... along with your partner. I count not say it better myself. But I wonder if these changes ever affect other relationships?

  10. funmontrealgirl profile image59
    funmontrealgirlposted 7 years ago

    Absolutely no. If the person really love you he/she must acccept who you are. As the song lyrics goes"You've got to love for what i am for simply being me.Don't love of what you intend or hope that i would  be".But on a relationship there should be an adjustment both the two of you but it doesn't mean to change yourself.Just a bit adjustment  to harmonize with each other.In a long run your partner will learn to love your unchangeable behavior because of the fact that he/she truly love you


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