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Should it be over just because people who interfer sayin so?

  1. splitpea profile image61
    splitpeaposted 6 years ago

    Should it be over just because people who interfer sayin so?

    still need an answer.if you resently asked your love one to leave hopin they'd try to work things out yet they are surounded by people who convince him it should be over, and you know you both still love eachother and its only been 2 1/2 mnths sence that day you asked SHOULD IT BE OVER JUST BECAUSE PEOPLE WHO INTERFER SAYIN SO?

  2. easycashonline profile image61
    easycashonlineposted 6 years ago

    relationships should be based on love and not otherwise. true love stands test of time. you should not abandon your loved one just because people are interfering. learn to stand your ground

  3. dashingscorpio profile image87
    dashingscorpioposted 6 years ago

    "While we are free to choose our actions, we are not free to choose the consequences of our actions” – Stephen R. Covey
    You should never ask someone to leave when you really want them to stay! It's only natural for people to spend time with their friends and listen to their opinions when someone "dumps" them. While friends and family may offer insight ultimately it's still up the person to decide if it's worth it to try and work things out. You are blaming others for a situation YOU created. Had you NOT told him to leave he'd still be there! One woman's trash is another woman's treasure.
    Clearly you were not happy with him when you asked him to go and odds are if he came back he would still be the same person. Have you changed? or Are you expecting him to change? Sometimes it's just best to wait until you find someone who "naturally" wants to give you the things you desire. The real lesson here going forward is to (say what you mean and mean what you say). Now that you've asked him to leave it's up to him to decide whether he wants to go back. However as I pointed out if no one has "changed" then you are going to have the same problems. Your only other option is to learn and accept one another as you are if you want to stay together. If you can't do that then find someone who (already is) what you want.

  4. duffsmom profile image61
    duffsmomposted 6 years ago

    The relationship is about you and this person...not other people.  But it is not a good sign that you tried to manipulate him/her into staying by telling them to leave.  Say what you mean.  A mature relationship addressed things honestly.  Sit down and tell the person how you feel, really, and find out how he/she feels.  Does he want to be with you?

    Let them know that your relationship is important to you but that you won't tolerate others interference between you.