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My ex- girlfriend's grandma died,and my ex really hates me and she told me not t

  1. rezwanur profile image54
    rezwanurposted 6 years ago

    My ex- girlfriend's grandma died,and my ex really hates me and she told me not to contact?

    2 days my ex girlfriend's grandma died, and I was trying to get her back and suddenly this happened.and somehow I knew her grandma died. and she doesn't want me to contact her.and she didn't wanted me to know about the death.Also her best friend really likes her.So he maybe will advantage so that she could fall for her? so what should I do. should contact her? or wait for 1 month and send her a letter to her home?

  2. duffsmom profile image60
    duffsmomposted 6 years ago

    Leave her alone, you can't force someone to want you - nothing you do will work and it will make you look pathetic.  Send a general sympathy card to the family about the grandmother's death and just move on.  If she wants you, she will call you.

  3. Matt in Jax profile image69
    Matt in Jaxposted 6 years ago

    Gotta agree with duffsmom here. She seems to not want anything to do with you at the moment and especially needs to focus her energy towards this passing in her family. Respect her space and if she would like to get closer, she'll contact you in one form or another.

  4. stricktlydating profile image81
    stricktlydatingposted 6 years ago

    I agree with Duffsmom. You need to respect her wishes and leave her alone.  If you knew the grandmother send a sympathy card to the family, and leave it at that.  It really sounds like she needs to have some space from you. Give her that space and she may decide to come back on her own free will without you having to try "To get her back".  It's your best bet anyway.