Any suggestion on how to save a marriage that that involves online cheating

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  1. kimberleyj profile image60
    kimberleyjposted 7 years ago

    Any suggestion on how to save a marriage that that involves online cheating

  2. JsHumminBird profile image62
    JsHumminBirdposted 7 years ago

    My suggestion would be counseling for both parties. The guilty party should consider looking into a support group.

  3. duffsmom profile image62
    duffsmomposted 7 years ago

    Does the person that did the cheating want to save the marriage and if so I would want to know why they did it in the first place.

    It is such a complex issue, I think a counselor that specializes in marriage would be your best answer.

  4. kimberleyj profile image60
    kimberleyjposted 7 years ago

    i just found out this morning, we have been married 22 years and just less than 1 month he began to act strange. He says he wants to be friends, but does not want counselling. I am in shock can't think what to do, say, how to react.

  5. wonderful1 profile image84
    wonderful1posted 7 years ago

    Unfortunately, you can't "save" a marriage if the other person is not willing to do the same.

    If he refuses counseling, and is emotionally detached from your marriage, then it's rather pointless to chase after him. They call that "prezeling," and it will only make him run faster.

    Take the high road, and find a good lawyer. I'm guessing that he is probably already cheating with some other woman (and probably it's become physical).

    I had this happen to me, too, so I know where you're coming from. Remind yourself that you deserve better than to be treated with such disrespect for your vows to each other.

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    CJ Sledgehammerposted 7 years ago

    1) Ask your husband what his major malfunction is

    2) Pray for your marriage

    3) Unplug the computer

    4) Insist on marital counseling for couples

    5) If hubby does not cooperate, then legal separation should be considered

    6) Continue to pray for your marriage. If all previous measures fail, then......

    7) Pray that your hubby can afford a good divorce attorney

  7. Shil1978 profile image92
    Shil1978posted 7 years ago

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