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What Are Some Tell-Tale Signs Indicating That Your Partner May Be Cheating on Yo

  1. Shil1978 profile image93
    Shil1978posted 5 years ago

    What Are Some Tell-Tale Signs Indicating That Your Partner May Be Cheating on You?

    How to tell if the husband or wife is cheating? What are the signs and red flags to look for to help determine if your partner has been cheating on you?

  2. dashingscorpio profile image86
    dashingscorpioposted 5 years ago

    I think you are better off assuming they are cheating if something doesn't feel right to you. In the end whether it turns out you are right or wrong it will not lead to you being happy in the relationship. The main reason someone suspects their mate is cheating is because of (a change of behavior they have towards us).
    It could be they are spending less time with you, not being phyiscally intimate with you, fighting over the slightest of things, showing a lack of consideration for your feelings, Not keeping their word about being where they said they were going to be, seem happier leaving you behind than when they arrive home, there is a sense of joy when they talk to friends or family on the phone that seems to be missing when they talk to you...etc Finding out they are cheating would give us the "aha! That explains it!"
    However if we found out they were NOT cheating and all of the above behaviors remained present we would not jump for joy or suddendly become happy about the relationship!
    Ultimately finding out our mate is cheating just gives many of us (permission) to end a relationship (we are unhappy in). It's kind of sad that many of us need to be cheated on or verbally/physically abused to give ourself persmission to walk away from a "toxic"  or unhappy relationship. I say if a person does not like the way they are being treated, feels neglected, or not having their emotional/physcial needs met, then that is enough to walk away whether you find out your mate is cheating or not. You don't have to wait for the (worst thing) to happen before you can walk away from (an unhappy relationship). "Smelling the smoke and leaving is better than sticking around to see if there is fire."

  3. ackman1465 profile image61
    ackman1465posted 5 years ago

    My ex- found some undies on the floor next to - but not quite out of sight, under - our bed.....  She was suspicious....

    A couple of weeks later, when she saw the lady who WORE those undies IN OUR BED, she was certain!!!

    P.S.  Don't you think it is "cheating" for a spouse to come home early when he/she is expected for a couple of more hours?????

  4. LoisRyan13903 profile image79
    LoisRyan13903posted 4 years ago

    It could be times when the spouse says he/she is working over and the paycheck is not proving it.  More time spent away from home.  Secretive emails.