Can you think of a reason where it would ever be acceptable to cheat on your spouse or partner?
This would be an additional relationship that you are keeping hidden from your spouse or partner. I am not talking about an open relationship or a swinging couple.
I think if people were living for themselves and living to appease their own fleshly desires, then, yes, there are probably plenty of reasons one could use to justify marital infidelity.
But, on the other hand, if one cares about upholding Godly standards or has a high regard for decency or even practices ethical integrity, one would restrain one's self from descending into the gutter by acting upon one's carnal desires or by giving one's self license to be dishonorable.
"As a man thinketh in his heart, so is he."
So, to answer your question directly: Yes, there are many reasons to cheat, but none of them are honorable and none of them are acceptable to God.
I believe every cheater finds it "acceptable" or "justifies" their actions for cheating. The majority of people who cheat don't think in terms of what is "acceptable" but rather in terms what they (need or want). A cheater generally is looking to keep all that is good in her or his primary relationship while addressing their other needs on the side. It takes more courage to walk away from a (known) relationship to pursue an (unknown) one. Honestly I don't think there is an acceptable reason to cheat. However I do understand that it often appears to be the easier option for a lot of folks. An unhappily married man is far more likely to cheat than run down to the courthouse and file for divorce.
I could also imagine someone who has to put their loved one in a long-term health facility feeling the need to be with someone while not wanting to abandon their spouse. However I would say getting divorced and being (free) to find the love you really wants beats having to lie, sneak around, and cover your tracks!
Absolutely not. There cannot be any legitimate reason to cheat, otherwise it would not be defined as cheating. It is like asking if there is a legitimate reason to cheat on taxes or rob a bank. No, there aren't any reasons.
Although, if the marriage is illegitimate then yes, cheating is permissable because the marriage is not recognized legally. It is similar to cheating on taxes if the government is illegititmate. But, then again if the marriage is illegitimate then the term "cheating" really does not apply.
As for a "partner" I have no idea as my moral conviction is somewhat flexible depending on the situation. A partner is not a spouse and thus there is no "legal" obligation. However, does that diminish one's moral and ethical reponsibility? Certainly if one partner is "cheating" does that releave the other partner from any moral or ethical obligations not to cheat? Has there been a verbal or implied contract engaged in between the two partners?
But when all is said and done and all the excuses made -- there truly are NO excuses. Good luck!
FYI - this is only a hypothetical question. I have no intention of cheating on my spouse.
There is never a reason to cheat on your spouse. No explanation or additional comment is needed. It is something that you just should not do. If your spouse cheats on you, that still does not give you the right to cheat on him or her. The spouse does not "owe you one."
by JP Carlos 10 years ago
How do you stop yourself from cheating on your spouse/partner?It's really sad that many couples separate because of a cheating partner. There are faithful people and there are those that are not. What suggestions can you give so that one can avoid cheating on their spouse/partner.
by Shannon 11 years ago
Why do men, (and SOME women) think cheating isn't a big deal?
by Jayme Lawley 5 years ago
How do I know if my spouse is cheating?My husband subscribes to dating sites. What would make him do this? Why would he be doing this? I don't cheat nor give him a reason to be discreet and cheat
by YeahISaidIt 12 years ago
When is there a valid reason to cheat?
by dashingscorpio 4 years ago
Is sexual incompatibility a valid reason for ending a marriage?Assuming everything else in the marriage is going fine and the kids are happy.I’m incline to believe most people would opt to cheat rather than go through the divorce process if there has been no change after communicating their needs...
by jasminayoung 11 years ago
If you cheat on your partner, is it only because they have given you a reason to do so?
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