Do you ever wonder what happpened to your first High School love?

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  1. glmclendon profile image60
    glmclendonposted 11 years ago

    Do you ever wonder what happpened to your first High School love?

  2. Sandra Tribioli profile image74
    Sandra Tribioliposted 11 years ago

    Found me on Facebook... not a good thing! Past is the past...

  3. Dave Mathews profile image60
    Dave Mathewsposted 11 years ago

    glmclendon: I  was shattered and devastated ath the loss of my first High School love. While I was away on holidays at a cottage with my family, my sweetheart was raped and became pregnant. Her parents, ashamed to deal with this problem sent her to live in Germany with some members of her family and I never saw her again.
    There isn't a year passes by without my thinking about her and about our plans together for the future.

    1. Mmargie1966 profile image87
      Mmargie1966posted 11 years agoin reply to this

      I am so sorry that you and she had to experience that!  That is so sad. sad

  4. brewskitimeguy profile image60
    brewskitimeguyposted 11 years ago

    had a high school crush on this older she was hot...years later when I went back to work in my hometown...she had divorced...she was still just a beautiful...what a awesome time we had for a year...then it was over...

  5. lbramos profile image59
    lbramosposted 11 years ago

    I still talk to her, we're good friends smile

  6. sadie423 profile image87
    sadie423posted 11 years ago

    I don't have to wonder...I married him.

  7. Ramsa1 profile image63
    Ramsa1posted 11 years ago

    Yes, I've wondered. However, I don't want to re-connect with her as it could create problems I don't need. I'm very happy with my life as it is.

  8. Sunshine625 profile image87
    Sunshine625posted 11 years ago

    I did wonder, but he found me on Facebook. Our friendship has been a nice blast from the the present smile

  9. SantaCruz profile image70
    SantaCruzposted 11 years ago

    I did, until Facebook took the wonder away. If you're looking for an old sweetheart, check there & on LinkedIn.

  10. Mmargie1966 profile image87
    Mmargie1966posted 11 years ago

    I actually married my first love.  We have two children (now grown).  Unfortunately, the marriage didn't work out.  I do, however, know where he is and the extent of his happiness, which is nice.

    Great question!

  11. profile image0
    msorenssonposted 11 years ago

    Crush you mean? I did not fall in love till much much later in life. No, I don't wonder.

    1. self absorbed profile image59
      self absorbedposted 11 years agoin reply to this

      I'm in the same boat as you, I was very shy when I was young. I don't wonder either.

    2. profile image0
      msorenssonposted 11 years agoin reply to this

      I am glad you could relate self absorbed ..few people do..

    3. JKenny profile image89
      JKennyposted 11 years agoin reply to this

      Yep, I'm the same, I was never really infatuated by anyone at school. Its only recently that I have the experienced the feeling of being in love, and its awesome smile

  12. Angelme566 profile image60
    Angelme566posted 11 years ago

    No i don't mind it anymore hence i am still very young during that time..all things done on that stage are nonsense and silly..

  13. Jynzly profile image63
    Jynzlyposted 11 years ago

    Hmmm, such a romantic question; I have a first love...and I wonder how his life has been 37 years ago but feelings of a first love is perpetual, never die.I was 20, no not in High School...I was too in love with my books to be bothered with "stupid guys"

  14. sroberts9 profile image79
    sroberts9posted 11 years ago

    No, no, no... He was a bum then and still is now.  I don't know what I was thinking when I fell for him.  I  think about how much time I lost of my life fooling around with him.  So, my answer is NO.  Hope others stories are much better than

  15. Kathleen Cochran profile image78
    Kathleen Cochranposted 11 years ago

    No.  I married him.  But everyone is not so lucky!

  16. c1234rystal profile image59
    c1234rystalposted 11 years ago

    I didn't have anybody in high school, but there was a boy in elementary school who I called my, "boyfriend." Pretty funny now that I think about it. But, one day he just wasn't at school anymore. I lived in a Navy town so I assume that his family got stationed somewhere else. But, yeah, I'd love to see who he grew up to be.

  17. somethgblue profile image74
    somethgblueposted 11 years ago

    No, because I know . . . she ended up a high priced call girl in LA what she is doing now is anyones guess, if she is still alive.

    She was a beauty, strawberry blonde of Spanish decent, drop gorgeous with a body too match! A knockout!

    Definitely not the marrying type and as I recall I never did bring her home to meet Mom & Dad.

  18. bernard.sinai profile image78
    bernard.sinaiposted 11 years ago

    She's married and has a couple of kids.

  19. kj force profile image60
    kj forceposted 11 years ago

    We dated until 2nd year in college..then went our seperate ways..he stayed in touch with my parents though for 20 years..he is divorced and remarried and very successful..but it would never have worked as we had two very different opinions on life...I married my college sweatheart..years after graduation..we've been together 47 years..interesting question...

  20. wychic profile image79
    wychicposted 11 years ago

    First crush -- nope, don't have to wonder. He got married and just had his first kid, and is very happy several states away. I haven't talked to him for years, but I'm still very good friends with his mom and sister, and I still regularly talk to his brothers as well. There is not a day that goes by that I'm not thankful that it didn't work out the way I'd hoped then, because now I know what it feels like to be madly passionately in love with someone who loves me back just as vehemently...and with whom I am now raising three kids smile.

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    ExoticHippieQueenposted 11 years ago

    I know what happened to mine!  I received various messages for about 6 months that a man in Missouri was looking for me, but I couldn't find out who it was.  Finally, I received a direct email from my first love who had been looking for me for several years, after having a bad dream about me that I was in trouble.  It was great to hear from him and learn that he was happily married, a father and grandfather.  We still keep in touch occasionally...........

  22. Sparklea profile image59
    Sparkleaposted 11 years ago

    Yes, I have wondered.  I have no idea where he is or what he does.

    We dated exactly 2 years,(from age 16 to 18) and we planned to get married. 

    He broke up with me, and I was devastated.

    At that time I was not a Christian, and I knew nothing about the peace of God. 

    We had so many arguments, and I regret, to this day, my negative and immature behavior, plus a lot of nasty words were spoken.

    I have wanted, since then, to apologize, but I have no way to contact him.

    About 2 months ago, it was in the newspaper his sister had died.  I knew her well back then.  I learned from the obituary he currently lived in Georgia, (it did not mention he had a spouse) and her visiting hours were a short drive from where I live.

    I agonized all the next day about whether or not I should go to the funeral home to the visiting hours. 

    I discussed it with my husband, who knows everything about my past. 

    My husband is so wise!  He said he was willing to drive me to the funeral home, if I wanted to go, see my former boy friend and apologize.   He also added these words:

    "I will take you there, but I will not go inside with you.  However, I do not believe it is the right time or place for you to go there to talk about it."

    That settled it.  He was right.  I went online, and I offered my condolences on his sister's obituary, signed my married and maiden name.

    I believe in my heart that if God wants it, He will give me the opportunity to see my former boy friend and apologize to him - at the right time and place.

    I pray to God every day that He will not take me into eternity without the opportunity to tie up any loose ends in my life.  I trust completely God will not let me down.

    Blessings, Sparklea smile

    1. messy marshella profile image62
      messy marshellaposted 11 years agoin reply to this

      we have almost the same story! But I was able to apologize. I only had peace after pouring out on him all the issues that I have kept after the break up. I recommend you to do the same, only then can you completely move on.

    2. Sparklea profile image59
      Sparkleaposted 11 years agoin reply to this

      messy marshella THANK YOU so much for your note.  I pray for the opportunity.  He is not on Facebook, and I have no idea how to reach him.  It's up to God.  Blessings, Sparklea

  23. Anjili profile image66
    Anjiliposted 11 years ago

    I always wondered after I had broken off with her. She was a bit cold. I heard she was looking for me, but I already had a warm one by my side to whom I got married later on, and she is warmer. I don't regret having made the decision;)

  24. messy marshella profile image62
    messy marshellaposted 11 years ago

    We dated for 3 years. We were best of friends, and I even thought that we'll end up marrying each other. Our relationship ended because of my immaturity. In a fight, I said that we better break up (even though I don't really mean it), and he agreed unlike before. It was his lowest moments since I broke up on him 2 days after his grandpa has died.  When it dawned on me that he took the break up seriously, I begged for him to come back and promised him that I will change, but he did not. I was depressed and devastated. It took me almost 2 years to move on completely. I was only able to move on and have peace after pouring out on him all the issues and apologies that I have kept after the break up. Though he had a new girlfriend, we remained as good friends. 2 years after, he broke up with his girlfriend and asked me out. He told me that he missed me and that he wanted us to have a chance again. It was too late, I have moved on completely. I realized that everything happens for a reason, and that God has a greater plan after all the pain. I don't regret that he didn't agree to have me back after the break up, because that first real heartache has taught me a lot and made me a better person. Now, I am happily engaged with my current boyfriend, and we are expecting a baby girl. smile

  25. michememe profile image60
    michememeposted 11 years ago

    I did, until I ran until about three weeks ago. He's doing well, and it was great to see him.


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