Did getting married change your life?

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   sweetzaraposted 11 years ago

   Did getting married change your life?
   
   If so, was it for the better or worse?
   
   

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   Hui (蕙)posted 11 years ago

   I haven't got into in it, but look forward to it. I guess it will change life, either toward a glorious future, or toward a gloomy future.

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      shampa sadhyaposted 11 years agoin reply to this

      Why gloomy?
      Be positive always because it's your life. I am sure it will be a glorious future.

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   msorenssonposted 11 years ago

   Oh dear..it was so long ago..but the answer is yes..

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   petenaliposted 11 years ago

   My wife and I will be celebrating 20 years of marriage in a  couple of weeks.  Has it changed my life?  You bet it has!  It had caused me to die to self, to learn to love unconditionally when circumstances make it hard to love, to give 100% into the relationship instead of 50%, to consider the ramifications of all my actions as I filter them through my wife's eyes, to cry with her, caress her, cuddle her and captivate her. 
   My life would be shallow and empty without her.  I am literally scared to see who I would be today if she hadn't said "yes" in a small apartment in Ontario when I had travelled across the Atlantic to propose.
   It was certainly for better...

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      msorenssonposted 11 years agoin reply to this

      Oh..how romantic..

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      sweetzaraposted 11 years agoin reply to this

      Very touching.

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      Cristaleposted 11 years agoin reply to this

      Awe, congradulations. That is hard to find these days!

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   Cristaleposted 11 years ago

   Getting married has definently changed my life, just as much as having a child changed my life. It was for the better, I guess the third time is a charm

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      msorenssonposted 11 years agoin reply to this

      Wow..I congratulate you on your courage..

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   edhanposted 11 years ago

   Marriage is a blessing to couple.
   
   It is through millions of trials in life we had gone through to be blessed as couple. Having to choose your partner in marriage is the beginning of new hope.
   
   Thereafter bringing in a new born in your life will set a new chapter of parenthood. It is something where people look forward as part of their new lives.

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   Larry Wallposted 11 years ago

   If it does not change your life, the marriage was a mistake. When two distinct lives have to blend together each and every day, accepting each other flaws and faults and admiring their strengths and good characteristics, then your life has to change.
   
   My wife and I will celebrate 32 years of marriage in a few weeks. I cannot imagine being without her and we did not get married until we were 29,so we both had a lot of single years.

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      msorenssonposted 11 years agoin reply to this

      Wow..Congratulations for your 32 years together

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   shampa sadhyaposted 11 years ago

   In the last 15 years I have experienced an enhancement in the amount of my happiness which I used to experience regularly before my marriage.

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   montecristoposted 11 years ago

   Yes, it has. It has helped settle me down. Been married for 32 yrs and enjoying it!

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    Trinity Mposted 11 years ago

    I have been married for 11 beautiful years and yes marriage has definitely changed me. There is always someone there who knows me inside and out, who accepts me no matter what and who shares all the laughter, joy, tears, dirty dishes, laundry, stress, (need I go on?) with me. Marriage has changed me for the better and I LOVE being married… to my husband that is

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