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How would you handle a continuously carping wife?

  1. gmwilliams profile image86
    gmwilliamsposted 5 years ago

    How would you handle a continuously carping wife?

  2. duffsmom profile image61
    duffsmomposted 5 years ago

    Find out what is bothering her.  Is she unhappy with you or herself?  Sit down and talk talk talk and find out what is going on.  Sometimes people just get into a habit of complaining and criticizing their partner, but ignoring it won't stop it and in fact enables it.  Maybe talking it out would will cause her to see what she is doing and that it is unkind and disrespectful to treat the one person who loves her more than anything in this way.

  3. Linda MS Enos profile image75
    Linda MS Enosposted 5 years ago

    Surprise her with cute quick quips that make her laugh and have her agree with you while thinking how clever you are for coming up with such intelligent method of communicating...
    If you can't do that um... remain silent nod and ask questions that make her draw conclusions on her own...if you can't do that... then go back to nodding and smiling... at this point give up and act like a good puppy... lol! At this point smile happy like a dog wagging it's tail... big_smile

  4. shivanchirakkal10 profile image56
    shivanchirakkal10posted 5 years ago

    dear gmwilliams,
    It is the general habit of woman to go for arguments, carping,crying, keep moody etc.It is because they have to get attention of others, or to get fulfilling of their wishes.While close watching, it can easily find out.
    In some housewife,  who sit in home alone, will get boring due to their loneliness. When the husband come after his work  or tour, she will start carping.
    Same action will show by some others when they feel that her husband is neglecting  her.
    Some will all\ways carp with her children, parents etc.
    Before guilty her, think are you not guilty on her. Are you a best or good husband. Are you attending her needs.
    If your answer is YES. I can say you are wrong.
    Get her for a outing. Give her loving hours. Talk her,understand her, give her some presents. Make her happy.
    Let her know your love and affection.Mingle with her. Ask her view,idea for every thing.Possibly accept some.
    Make her a responsible and respectable. Appreciate her cooking, congratulate her for other domestic work etc will give her a new look in her life
    She will slowly to start  to dream on you. She will become the lovely Dove to you
    hi gm,what present today you give to your wife.
    Don't tell. It is for her..only for her.

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    Garifaliaposted 5 years ago

    DIVORCE---No, just kidding. For anyone to nag there's got to be a snag.
    Which brings us to what have you or haven't you been doing to the poor thing?

    1. gmwilliams profile image86
      gmwilliamsposted 5 years agoin reply to this

      Not me, I know some people who have carping wives and/or significant others.    Sometimes, a carping wife and/or significant other is just TOO much to bear!