LOVE OR STUPIDITY?

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   bekybouncyboobzposted 14 years ago

   This is a topic many of you avoid. But truth be told, This is something you NEED to hear whether you "want" to hear it or not. Women you have power, but you sometimes seem to forget that when you're in a relationship because you tend to be so vulnerable that you blind yourselves with your very own emotions. Sometimes love isn't love. It's stupidity. As our mothers would say it's being young and dumb. Now I know relationships will have it's ups and downs but really, ladies where do "you" draw the line? How many times are you really going to your spouses get away with things.  Sure we've all been cheated on, lied to, deceived but how many times?, How often? Aren't you tired? If you knew better you'd do better.  And as much women say " I'm done", "it's over" how come you never leave? Don't get me wrong I don't fault any woman for trying to keep her family together and making her relationship work, but sometimes you have to stop being "stupid" and naive to the things going on around you, and stand up for yourself. Because the minute you settle for less than you deserve,  you get less than you settled for. So don't ignore that fact that your man stays out all night, or cheated a couple times. It's okay to forgive people but when you look at your relationship and it's like a reality show or soap opera filled with drama you need to learn to let go. I get so tired of people saying "I can't, I'm in love"......So tell me what is love? Because if your relationship is like a CD that keeps repeating it self, you need to stop trying to play it. You can get a cotton ball and swab it with rubbing alcohol ,you can blow your breath on it and smear it with a shirt,  you can wipe it with water and tissue. Doesn't really matter cause no matter how many times you try to clean that CD it will always skip & you know it. So quit being cheap and go buy another one, a new one. You get the point. Ladies stop being stupid and weak, because as long as you allow him to do what he wants and take him back he'll never change. Learn to let go. Don't be afraid to be alone, don't be insecure, and most importantly don't be stupid. Because who ever you are with, God didn't stop making men when he made him. If you knew better you would do better. You only have ONE life to live. Why would you want to live it being stressed out and miserable . Sometimes you have to stop being so damn stupid, let go and move on. It's his loss not yours. And sooner or later, someone you deserve will come along and appreciate you

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   ralwusposted 14 years ago

   This shoulda been a hub. an' quit preachin', yer scarin' 'em away from me.

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   Justine76posted 14 years ago

   thanks, i feel better now.

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      Justine76posted 14 years agoin reply to this

      ps you spelled boobs wrong

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   ralwusposted 14 years ago

   Why do people talk about ‘girlie’ things but never ‘boyie’ things?

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      Justine76posted 14 years agoin reply to this

      boyies dont wanna hear it

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   ralwusposted 14 years ago

   Where'd I miss boobs?

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      Justine76posted 14 years agoin reply to this

      her name

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         Justine76posted 14 years agoin reply to this

         they are bouncy....

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   Flightkeeperposted 14 years ago

   Beky, you should write a hub in this week's hubmob. The topic is all about men.  Maybe you can turn your post to a hubmob topic for this week.

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   lyricsingrayposted 14 years ago

   I want bigger boobs

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      lyricsingrayposted 14 years agoin reply to this

      I'll just go get some - I'll be back - great thread 

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         Justine76posted 14 years agoin reply to this

         go get some where?!

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      Justine76posted 14 years agoin reply to this

      i want bouncy boobs.

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   Flightkeeperposted 14 years ago

   I just want mine to be perkier.

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   lyricsingrayposted 14 years ago

   Great forum indeed    

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      Lady_Eposted 14 years agoin reply to this

      It is. It tickles me when the topic changes in the thread.

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    EYEAM4ANARCHYposted 14 years ago

    Does that work with the rubbing alcohol and the cotton ball? I've got a DVD that I've been having a lot of trouble with.

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       Justine76posted 14 years agoin reply to this

       try mild detergent for dvds 

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    bekybouncyboobzposted 14 years ago

    Thank you all! I really appreciate all of your comments. And I did make this a HUB. Become a fan to read all my HUB posts. Thanks again :-)

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    Lisa HWposted 14 years ago

    bekybouncyboobz, sensible thoughts for women who stay in rotten relationships.
    
    (I do have to say that your name has made me wonder if I'd be wise to think up a better name for myself on here.  )

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