Men, boys. When you hear a gal say "You're really a nice guy." What is her nex

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  1. leroy64 profile image68
    leroy64posted 10 years ago

    Men, boys.  When you hear a gal say "You're really a nice guy."  What is her next sentence?

  2. dashingscorpio profile image84
    dashingscorpioposted 10 years ago

    Whatever it is usually begins with the word...(but). No matter what comes after that it all means the same: You are NOT the one! :-)

    1. viveresperando profile image65
      viveresperandoposted 10 years agoin reply to this

      You've never had a lady say, "You're a really nice guy and I would love to go out with you for a cup of coffee." ?   It could happen...

    2. Stina Caxe profile image76
      Stina Caxeposted 10 years agoin reply to this

      I don't know about that.  I've been known to say "You're a really nice guy, can I see your toes?"

    3. Winterfate profile image95
      Winterfateposted 10 years agoin reply to this

      @Stina: I've been staring at that comment of yours for like 2 minutes. The curiosity is killing me, so I'll just go ahead and ask: "Why do you ask that question?"

    4. Stina Caxe profile image76
      Stina Caxeposted 10 years agoin reply to this

      lol Winterfate!  I really like toes.  smile

    5. dashingscorpio profile image84
      dashingscorpioposted 10 years agoin reply to this

      viveresperando, Trust me on this one. If a woman starts out by telling a guy; "You're really a nice guy...(he's only seconds away from being rejected). If you don't believe me, ask any of your male friends.
      Stina Caxe, You are something else! LOL!

  3. epigramman profile image59
    epigrammanposted 10 years ago

    ...there isn't a sentence to follow ..... only one word and that word is 'but' .....

    1. dashingscorpio profile image84
      dashingscorpioposted 10 years agoin reply to this


  4. Goldieloxy profile image59
    Goldieloxyposted 10 years ago

    and your very sweet but we live two different worlds and I am very active and busy. Our schedules don't match up and you live, just so far away. Your a great person and I love talking to you. I just think we are better off being friends.... I hope you

  5. GoodLady profile image93
    GoodLadyposted 10 years ago

    It could go two ways:

    "You're just not the one for me" - (You're a really NICE guy)
    "I've always wanted one of those"  - (You're a REALLY nice guy)

    It either means you don't turn her on, enough, (You're a really nice guy), or

    it means she's had enough of the bad kind of guy and she's finally found you - someone really nice - YOU'RE a really nice guy  (YOU'RE the ONE).

  6. padmendra profile image44
    padmendraposted 10 years ago

    Mostly, a girl meeting you first time if says ' you are really a nice guy,.' would say afterwards that 'You are different from others'. This is a common attitude of girls.

  7. profile image0
    lovedoctor926posted 10 years ago

    Men, boys. In my opinion,when you hear a woman say you're really a nice guy means that you're really a nice guy and that they're really not into him. The guy wasn't that much of a challenge and didn't know how to make a woman feel attraction. He might have come on too strong giving the woman that creepy feeling.

    1. dashingscorpio profile image84
      dashingscorpioposted 10 years agoin reply to this

      Very true lovedoctor926! In fact using the word "nice" to describe anything is rarely if ever a ringing endorsement! What did you think of my meatloaf? "It was nice." The word nice means "okay" but nothing special. Most people want special! or "hot"

  8. rutley profile image64
    rutleyposted 10 years ago

    Your breath stinks, you haave B O and you just farted!   Hahahahaha   Just kiddin.   Just wanted you to have a laugh and maybe raise your eyebrow!

    1. leroy64 profile image68
      leroy64posted 10 years agoin reply to this

      Actually, that response wouldn't really bother me.  I would go get mouth wash, deodorant, and um...exercise more discretion about who I let loose around,

  9. multiculturalsoul profile image76
    multiculturalsoulposted 10 years ago

    As soon as I heard the word "nice," I usually didn't listen to the rest because I was planning my exit.

    I am so glad I found a "nice" girl to marry. In 24 years, she has never said I was nice, and I take that as a compliment.

    1. Anti-Valentine profile image77
      Anti-Valentineposted 10 years agoin reply to this

      I agree. Treat it as an insult and don't have anything more to do with her.

  10. lupine profile image68
    lupineposted 10 years ago

    How about, "You're really a nice guy, and I'm glad I met you." she smiles. This is when you haven't know each other too long and she wants to know you better. I think if you are told this, it's going to be good if she's smiling. Bad, if she'is not smiling/straight faced, then  "...but...", will follow.

  11. peachpurple profile image82
    peachpurpleposted 10 years ago

    Definitely,   the next sentence is " but you are not my type or you are the one i am looking for" The guy ' s heart sank like a titanic ship wreck!!

  12. klidstone1970 profile image59
    klidstone1970posted 10 years ago

    Definitely, BUT.  It just as bad as hearing, "You've got a such a nice personality."

    1. leroy64 profile image68
      leroy64posted 10 years agoin reply to this

      Good point; but,  I usually hear that when someone is trying to set me up on a date.  I wonder what is being said about me?  Actually, I hope my personality is good.  My looks are not my strong point.

    2. dashingscorpio profile image84
      dashingscorpioposted 10 years agoin reply to this

      Or as bad as telling an overweight person they have a "pretty face". These are compliments with a sting attached. It's like watching those daytime talk shows where one has a "secret" to confess. They start by saying: "You know I love you right?.etc"

    3. lupine profile image68
      lupineposted 10 years agoin reply to this

      leroy64 - Good personality is key...sincere words and following through with a smile will win a girl over...looks are not everything.

  13. reddview profile image61
    reddviewposted 10 years ago

    You're really a nice guy .... but I'm with Kevin


  14. Marcus99 profile image58
    Marcus99posted 10 years ago

    ...I would love nothing more than to grab a sample of your Cerebral Cortex for study?

  15. BeccaBunnyBoo profile image60
    BeccaBunnyBooposted 10 years ago

    this is probably followed by do you have a brother ??


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