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What do you do when you.....

  1. soconfident profile image82
    soconfidentposted 4 years ago

    What do you do when you.....

    Like someone you just don't trust them?

  2. dashingscorpio profile image87
    dashingscorpioposted 4 years ago

    I wonder why anyone would (choose) to be around someone they did not trust! It's as though they are deliberately choosing to ignore their (gut instincts) or "red flags".
    This often happens during the "infatuation phase". You want something so bad you (choose) to ignore any thought that would keep you from having it.
    These are the same people after experiencing heartache who will (blame the other person) for hurting them. When in fact they hurt themselves by NOT listening to their inner guide.
    At the end of the day each of us chooses our own friends, lovers, and spouse. Whether we end up happy or hurt it's important to remember at some point (we) said "yes" to them.
    "Never separate your mind from your heart when making relationship decisions. The purpose of the mind is to protect the heart."

  3. twig22bend profile image76
    twig22bendposted 4 years ago

    It is best to follow your initial inner thoughts. As soon as you let your guard down and ignore your first red flag ( and you will), it will be too late. Untrustworthy people have a way about them and they never stop trying to dupe you by not being honest and sincere, because that is their goal.

    Pay attention to your inner feelings.
    If you must proceed, do so cautiously, to protect yourself from what you already know or feel.

  4. DDE profile image25
    DDEposted 4 years ago

    Trust is vital in any relationship and being around someone when you don't trust them can make one feel  insecure about their lives. If  you feel a lackof trust then avoid that person