How did you find your first love?

  1. profile image40
    nitishpatelposted 3 years ago

    How did you find your first love?

    This question is really a special question in each persons life.This memories really bring the happy moments in our life.Oh let it be lovers are always mad in love.Share your madness......!

  2. dashingscorpio profile image88
    dashingscorpioposted 3 years ago

    Like quite a few people I found my "first love" while attending high school. In the USA that's normally where most people form their first dating relationships.
    Our pituitary glands are hyper active and our hormones are raging. Anything and everything seems possible without limits as most of us do not have any real responsibilities other than homework to detract our thoughts from the one we love. Life was stress free and carefree!
    It's because of this we often "romanticize" that period in our lives. As adults you have to deal with your boss/co-workers, work deadlines, pay your rent/mortgage, car payments, utilities, and a host of other responsibilities. Never again will you have that kind of (time) to obsess over someone and indulge fantasies about the future.
    After people experience their (first heartbreak) it's also common not to be as "trusting" or be willing to be as "vulnerable" as one was the first time around. Instead of simply "going with the flow" you become more (analytical) about what is said or not said, and (observe) their behavior. You learn to identify potential "red flags".
    It takes more courage to fall "in love" a 2nd, 3rd, or 4th time than it did the first time. No one wants to risk having their heart broken on the deepest depths again. We learn to hold back (something) for ourselves rather than give our all to anyone ever again.
    Nostalgically we look back on our "first love" because back then "ignorance was bliss". We really thought we had met our "soul mate" at age (16) and were going to be married and live happily ever after!
    When it comes to relationships most of us (fail) our way to success!
    If this were not the case we'd all be married to our high school sweethearts. A "first love" is usually a learning experience.

  3. DDE profile image26
    DDEposted 3 years ago

    I found my first love while working for him a great experience indeed.