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My nicest is often considered flirting. How can I change that?

  1. SilentMagenta profile image70
    SilentMagentaposted 3 years ago

    My nicest is often considered flirting. How can I change that?

    This often has others think I'm flirting. I am naturally bubbly and friendly. I can't help it. I don't mean too. Help me.

  2. dashingscorpio profile image87
    dashingscorpioposted 3 years ago

    Continue to be your "authentic self".
    People see what they want to see and believe what they want to believe. Know yourself, Love yourself, Trust yourself.

  3. old albion profile image71
    old albionposted 3 years ago

    Hi SilentMagenta. Flirting can be nice and might raise a smile. As you realise it can also be dangerous. Might I draw your attention to your photograph, is it meant to be bubbly and flirtatious? I think it is invitational and more than bubbly. Some guys really will see it as an invitation to approach you. Please think of the consequences of this.
    I hate to be an old guy giving advice but you really have to look after yourself. So be friendly and bubbly and enjoy your life, but just take care.
    Good Luck.
    Graham.

    1. SilentMagenta profile image70
      SilentMagentaposted 3 years agoin reply to this

      Its meant to be goofy and bubbly. Thank you for your response and will take that into consideration.

 
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