Do you feel it is alright to look in your mates phone?

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  1. iggy7117 profile image72
    iggy7117posted 3 years ago

    Do you feel it is alright to look in your mates phone?

  2. thumbi7 profile image62
    thumbi7posted 3 years ago

    No. I don't think it is right. I feel that will spoil the relationship.

  3. Jonathan Villamor profile image60
    Jonathan Villamorposted 3 years ago

    It is not okay to do so, as tempting as it may seem to try, due to insecurities. The outcome will only show your mistrust and break the bond of your relationship

  4. clivewilliams profile image83
    clivewilliamsposted 3 years ago

    Why not, if there is nothing there, you will not find anything. And if she has nothing to hide, she/he shouldn't be upset. Now with that said lets get into her facebook, and twitter is how...........ok.....Don't Search your Mates Phone. It will never stop!!!

  5. Sumi-Main profile image60
    Sumi-Mainposted 3 years ago

    It depends on what bonding both are sharing. Anyways, it's matter of trust and always good to give some space..!

  6. Parhesh Kumar profile image75
    Parhesh Kumarposted 3 years ago

    if he/she really is your mate, and you trust him/her
    you should already know the answer to that question,
    if you don't have trust , then their not really your mate

  7. Glenn Co profile image85
    Glenn Coposted 3 years ago

    No - I adhere to the saying " If you love someone, set them free. If they return to you, they are yours; If they don't, they never were.
       I wouldn't want to be in a relationship full of suspicion, and I can't think of a better way to contaminate a relationship than by checking each other's phones without the other one knowing about it!!

  8. peachpurple profile image82
    peachpurpleposted 3 years ago

    no it is unfair, my hubby look in my phone but doesn't allow me to look at his because he says , he bought that phone for me, he has the right. It is unfair

  9. dashingscorpio profile image88
    dashingscorpioposted 3 years ago

    No, I believe phones, email, and mail are private.
    If one feels the "urge" to snoop through their mate's phone they need to ask themselves why they want to. Most people who do that type of thing either don't trust their mate or they suspect them of cheating and are playing detective. If you don't trust them dump them.
    Privacy doesn't end simply because you become a couple.

    1. Glenn Co profile image85
      Glenn Coposted 3 years agoin reply to this

      Well said!!


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