How to know your partner is cheating.
Cheating has become something common among dating couples. Cheating would lead to end of a relationship. Someone could display several signs of cheating and still be faithful. How do you know that your partner is cheating? Usually, if you're asking this question, you already suspect that you're the victim of infidelity, or at the very least that something is a miss in your relationship. Here below are some signs that someone is cheating:
Improved appearance.
If your partner changes outlook appearance, the this could be a sign of cheating, especially if your significant other looks the same around you, but significantly better for work or certain social events.
Significantly less, or more, or different sex in your relationship.
Increased and decreased levels of sexual activity in you relationship can be a sign of infidelity. More sex occurs because they are trying to cover that up; Decreased sex occurs because your partner is focused on someone else.
Your partner is hostile toward you and your relationship.
Cheater's rationalize their behavior. They tell themselves that you don't look the way you did when they married you, or you don't appreciate all the wonderful things they do for you, so they deserve to have a little fun elsewhere.
Friends seem uncomfortable around you.
The cheater's friends often know about the infidelity right from the start, and your own friends are likely to find out long before you do. The cheater's friends might try to avoid you or to be overly nice to you. Your own friends may try to avoid conversations about your relationship, and they might overcompensate by being extra nice.
When you ask about cheating, your partner deflects and avoids.
When you introduce this topic in your conversation, they may try to deflect and avoid. If you've confronted your partner about infidelity and been rebuffed, maybe with a message like, " If you trusted me a little more, maybe things would be better between us, " You should not let that override your sense that something is wrong in your relationship. As said earlier, if your gut tells you that your significant other is cheating on you, you're probably right.
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by Stclairjack 12 years ago
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by Le_connaisseur 11 years ago
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by lupine 11 years ago
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