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New Hubbers Posting Intimate Questions

  1. Rafini profile image90
    Rafiniposted 7 years ago

    Am I the only one who feels awkward responding to questions about intimacy with a new Hubber?  I mean, there was a question about lack of sex between a 6-months married couple from a New Hubber of 3 hours.  No Hubs, No Followers.  It just concerns me that someone who does this is like...a predator.  yikes

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      StormRyderposted 7 years ago in reply to this

      WoW...Now I'm wondering just what everyone really thinks of me??
      I am always talking in a flirtatious and sexual way...does everyone think I'm some sex crazed woman out here corrupting men and women across the country?? Okay...I admit...thats exactly what I am!! lol lol

      1. Rafini profile image90
        Rafiniposted 7 years ago in reply to this

        lol   Nah, not you!!   

        I get the flirts & teasing & fun & such   lol   I'm just such a prude I don't join in - maybe someday   lol

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          StormRyderposted 7 years ago in reply to this

          lol Thanks!! I know you love me Rafini big_smile  smile And you are free to join in whenever you wish!!

          1. Rafini profile image90
            Rafiniposted 7 years ago in reply to this

            I'm sure I will wish upon a star in the midnight sky and find my way to join the fun.   smile

            (but not today - i'm feeling prudish)

      2. Stevennix2001 profile image84
        Stevennix2001posted 7 years ago in reply to this

        nah, i don't think that way about you.  besides, there's nothing wrong with a little playful banter here and there.  in fact, it makes things a lot more interesting.  wink lol

      3. starme77 profile image87
        starme77posted 7 years ago in reply to this

        lol

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        Kenrick Chatmanposted 7 years ago in reply to this

        Storm we know you are not a sex crazed woman but just a Big flirt. smile However, if I am wrong that is still a bonus for you.

        Rafini do you think I am a sex crazed male? smile  I believe you were the woman I was flirting with on one of the 3 word posts.

        1. Rafini profile image90
          Rafiniposted 7 years ago in reply to this

          lol   Oh, is that what you call it??   lol


          (btw - all men are sex crazed, aren't they?  lol)

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            Kenrick Chatmanposted 7 years ago in reply to this

            Yes we call it flirting...lol. You can blame it on our hormones since we cannot help ourselves. smile

            1. Rafini profile image90
              Rafiniposted 7 years ago in reply to this

              You cannot help yourselves, huh?  Maybe I need to dig into this a little further....smile

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                Kenrick Chatmanposted 7 years ago in reply to this

                It's not our fault that women are so beautiful. smile

                1. Rafini profile image90
                  Rafiniposted 7 years ago in reply to this

                  oh no, we aren't goin there!  (tis not true)

                  please try another tactic   smile

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                    Kenrick Chatmanposted 7 years ago in reply to this

                    ...and so smart, caring, passionate, peaceful, and respectful. Ah. I guess "Men Are From Mars and Women are from Venus."

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                StormRyderposted 7 years ago in reply to this

                You probably won't have to dig to deep because the majority of men are fairly shallow!! lol lol

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                  Kenrick Chatmanposted 7 years ago in reply to this

                  I guess I am in the minority. smile

          2. Mikel G Roberts profile image89
            Mikel G Robertsposted 7 years ago in reply to this

            nope

        2. Paula Foster profile image54
          Paula Fosterposted 7 years ago in reply to this

          I'M JUST TUNING IN BUT THAT WAS FUNNY KENRICK@RAFINI: NO YOU DIDN'T SAY" HE WAS THE THIRD GIRL ON THE POST"?  LOL. NO OFFENSE RAFINI.  JUST SAYING THOUGH. HEE,HEE,HEE..OH,MY BAD.

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            mega1posted 7 years ago in reply to this

            so, is that a style choice you are making?  the all caps thing?  kinda like when I don't capitalize?  hehehe

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        logic,commonsenseposted 7 years ago in reply to this

        We all think you are hot and are hoping you will pursue us! smile

        1. Rafini profile image90
          Rafiniposted 7 years ago in reply to this

          Oh I'm sure there will come a time....lol

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        foreignpressposted 7 years ago in reply to this

        Shouldn't this be in the religious category?

    2. Paula Foster profile image54
      Paula Fosterposted 7 years ago in reply to this

      I HAVE BEEN A HUBBER FOR LESS THAN 12 HOURS AND MY TOPICS MAY HAVE ALREADY STARTED SOME THINKING.  I JUST WANT TO KEEP IT AS REAL AS POSSIBLE WITHOUT GOING TOO FAR.  JUST ENOUGH TO GET THE POINT ACROSS NOT TO DISGUST OR MAKE SLIGHT OF ANYONE OR HARM THEM.

      1. mega1 profile image79
        mega1posted 7 years ago in reply to this

        here at hubpages we've already decided that unless you are SHOUTING one should not type with all caps, please!  In fact, there are a few who evidently will be mightily offended by all caps.  Me, I don't care, I think its kinda funny!

    3. Will Say Plenty profile image56
      Will Say Plentyposted 7 years ago in reply to this

      A predator?  No.  Sad? yes.

  2. Rafini profile image90
    Rafiniposted 7 years ago

    So...I take it I am the only one to feel this way?   Now I feel really awkward...

  3. Stevennix2001 profile image84
    Stevennix2001posted 7 years ago

    its very possible, as ANYONE here can be a sexual predator for all we know. I know im not and I know certain other hubbers who I call friends aren't (they know who they are too). However, I can't speak for EVERYONE here.  therefore, it's a possibility.  however, i don't think we should jump to any conclusions though as there's not enough evidence to support the matter.  for all you know, it could've been a person genuinely looking for help.  then again i could be wrong.  all im saying is, that it's kind of hard to tell when it comes to online, but i wouldn't take it seriously.  unless this person e-mails you some nasty letters for no  reason, then i'd be worried.  otherwise, i'd just ignore it.  anyway, i hope that helps.

    1. Rafini profile image90
      Rafiniposted 7 years ago in reply to this

      it does.  It's also one of the reasons I posted seperately rather than reply directly.

      1. Stevennix2001 profile image84
        Stevennix2001posted 7 years ago in reply to this

        oh i see.  well im sorry to hear it freaked you out then.  however, i wouldn't let it bother you okay.  like i said, unless this guy starts to harass you, then I would just ignore it. besides, Mikel is probably right.  it's probably a fake account another hubber created, because they were too embarassed to post it under their normal one.

        1. Rafini profile image90
          Rafiniposted 7 years ago in reply to this

          makes sense.  thanks.  smile

    2. shazwellyn profile image82
      shazwellynposted 7 years ago in reply to this

      <--------------- sexual preditor big_smile

      1. Rafini profile image90
        Rafiniposted 7 years ago in reply to this

        i'm going to run & hide now.







        lol

        I don't believe it for a minute!

        1. shazwellyn profile image82
          shazwellynposted 7 years ago in reply to this

          Only with the right man! hehehe

  4. Mikel G Roberts profile image89
    Mikel G Robertsposted 7 years ago

    I assumed that it was merely a sock puppet created to protect the identity of one of our hubbers that was concerned for their own privacy...

    1. Rafini profile image90
      Rafiniposted 7 years ago in reply to this

      didn't think abou tthat.  I'll keep it in mind if I see it again.  smile

    2. Ultimate Hubber profile image78
      Ultimate Hubberposted 7 years ago in reply to this

      The first thing that comes to my mind after reading most of these questions is the one mentioned above by Mikel.

  5. mintinfo profile image77
    mintinfoposted 7 years ago

    The (50) have people who are experts in psychologically profiling and baiting the perverts who lurk in cyber space. Or I would hope so. My daughter is 15 and I wouldn't want her being harassed by one of them.

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    SwampDonkeyposted 7 years ago

    I just got here. I will watch what I say.

 
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