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What are the benefits of getting married?

  1. dawnM profile image76
    dawnMposted 7 years ago

    Part of reality hub series, your answer may be used in the next reality hub.

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      woolman60posted 7 years agoin reply to this

      Respect, communication, trust, and a smile that’s says I love you for being you, I am very lucky to find a women who I want to spend my life with., and after twenty years, I can honestly say, I love her more now than ever.

  2. SomewayOuttaHere profile image61
    SomewayOuttaHereposted 7 years ago

    Benefits....not sure if I can consider benefits; some will.  I got married because I had a belief, felt that we were making a commitment for a lifetime to each other rather than just a legal commitment.  Otherwise just live together.  As well, followed tradition.  I was wrong...it was complicated though.  Doubt if I'd marry again.

  3. ediggity profile image60
    ediggityposted 7 years ago

    Flightkeeper actually wrote very interesting point of view on this topic:

    http://hubpages.com/hub/Save-While-Trav … -Advantage

    Lots of stuff I've never thought about.  Probably because I've been married so long.

  4. blondepoet profile image71
    blondepoetposted 7 years ago

    I am not married but and unsure whether I ever will. It all depends I guess, I certainly would take my vows very serious indeed.

    1. samboiam profile image60
      samboiamposted 7 years agoin reply to this

      You must not have met a man as wonderful as my wife did. lol

      1. blondepoet profile image71
        blondepoetposted 7 years agoin reply to this

        Oh agreed, she a lucky woman Sambo. Yahooooo!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

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      logic,commonsenseposted 7 years agoin reply to this

      I still have hope then! smile

      1. blondepoet profile image71
        blondepoetposted 7 years agoin reply to this

        Always Logic always smile

    3. blake4d profile image74
      blake4dposted 7 years agoin reply to this

      Marry me BP. I will take it very seriously indeed. Wink wink. smile

  5. Misha profile image75
    Mishaposted 7 years ago

    Hi Deb smile

    Не ходите девки замуж
    Ничего хорошего
    Встанешь утром - сиськи набок
    И пизда взъерошена lol

    1. blondepoet profile image71
      blondepoetposted 7 years agoin reply to this

      Я надеюсь так
      любите Вас Mish. xo

      http://i275.photobucket.com/albums/jj297/elisa92/206F121.jpg

  6. Rochelle Frank profile image89
    Rochelle Frankposted 7 years ago

    It eliminates dating problems.

  7. Ben Evans profile image72
    Ben Evansposted 7 years ago

    A deduction.  big_smile

    It is more of commitment to a relationship.

  8. NaomiR profile image85
    NaomiRposted 7 years ago

    Well, as I recover from my broken leg, it's been nice having my husband around to take care of me ;-)

  9. dinkan53 profile image74
    dinkan53posted 7 years ago

    Marriage life is like driving a vehicle. The certain way to be wrong is to think you control it!!!

  10. USMCwifey09 profile image70
    USMCwifey09posted 7 years ago

    Companionship, definitely. Plus too my husband's quite literally my best friend. It was easy saying "I do".

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      mohashposted 7 years agoin reply to this

      SO MANY BENEFITS -  PHYSICALLY AND  PSYCOLOGYCALLY

      PUTS YOU IN RIGHT PATH -

      GIVES YOU A FEELING OF SUPPORT

      ONLY AND ONLY IF,   YOU A  GET A GOOD & SENSIBLE WIFE

      OTHERWISE................................so many disadvantatges

      1. dinkan53 profile image74
        dinkan53posted 7 years agoin reply to this

        ................................ If you really experienced the disadvantages, please explain us.

      2. wilderness profile image94
        wildernessposted 7 years agoin reply to this

        All the wives automatically get put in the right path but men have to find the right wife for it? lol

  11. habee profile image89
    habeeposted 7 years ago

    sex
    companionship
    someone to get rid of bugs
    someone to take care of
    someone to take care of me
    home repairs
    two incomes
    tax break

    And the biggest reason of all...LOVE!!

    1. optimus grimlock profile image54
      optimus grimlockposted 7 years agoin reply to this

      i WAS THINKING OF A REPLY LIKE THIS BUT YOU BEAT ME TO IT! i AGREE 100%

  12. prettydarkhorse profile image64
    prettydarkhorseposted 7 years ago

    Research found out that men who are married die older than their counterparts, and financially both are better off, insurance, joined assets, in the long run according to the study even if the marriage has ups and downs it has more advantages, and it still helps to marry

    I wrote a hub about this

    and personally "It is good to belong to someone" and feel that you are loved, somebody to be with and to feel love, and to give and share love, we are born to be with somebody,,,

  13. Spacey Gracey profile image61
    Spacey Graceyposted 7 years ago

    Being married makes it so much harder to walk away, so you are more inclined to put up with the tough times, and stay together.  So on the plus side, many couples can remain happily married for many many years, with just a few tough times. On the down side, the difficulty in walking away from a marriage makes some couple stay together when they really shouldn't- when they are really hurting each other.

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    khmohsinposted 7 years ago

    getting married solves your so many social problems and also inter-personal problem.
    its how you perceive the relationship.

  15. Greek One profile image76
    Greek Oneposted 7 years ago

    if you are close with your spouse's family, there will be more people who will say nice things about you are your funeral....

    when you kill yourself because you can't take being married abymore

  16. habee profile image89
    habeeposted 7 years ago

    Great minds, Opti!

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    askpowersposted 7 years ago

    ... so many benefits... smile

  18. megs78 profile image60
    megs78posted 7 years ago

    well, the wedding was awesome!  we will never forget it and how enjoyable it was.  thats a plus.  and we like belonging to each other.  we're a team and we rely on each other without doubting if we will be supported.  and we love each other a lot.  there is something incredible about being married to the one you love.  hard to put to words.  of course we are not immune to problems and tough times, but we get through them and we work at it.  love being married.  honestly.

  19. Devon S profile image54
    Devon Sposted 7 years ago

    The opportunity to share your life with someone at the highest level of commitment.

    Like the saying goes "For Better or Worse" smile

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    foreignpressposted 7 years ago

    Getting married is easy. Staying married is nearly impossible. Our society is too damned complicated now. There are too many expectations and the couple is bombarded with external nonsense. It always comes down to money and lifestyle. Gotta have this and gotta have that. The focus is no longer on each other but on trying to survive in a very threatening world. So the couple is beat down and, over time, is reduced to two incoherent and babbling nonentities who have no idea why they got married in the first place.
       So what are the benefits of getting married? I no longer have any idea.

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    Stephynichole0619posted 7 years ago

    The Biggest Secret about Relationships is knowing Yourselves Wholey 1st and Then *DEALING FROM THE INSIDE*. It is the Ultimate Answer. As you can see from other responses, outsiders know Nothing about Your relationship, just their own Good or Bad experiences. Other people are bias to their Own experiences with relationships. So if you Know Yourself well enough, & your spouse knows Theirself well enough, then you must be asking this question to them. Others will Always be a distraction. Focus on whats Real in Your Life, not others'. My fiance Always posts our business on Facebook, talks to his family and friends about Everything or mere Strangers. They only hear His side and Most of them have been divorced so of Course they will Always tell him to leave. This is why i will not marry him, because hes not a Strong enough person on the inside to think for himself or confront Me with his concerns. YOu will be ONE if you get married so if you dont like to think of it that way dont get married. YOu would never go to others and say, "i have scars on my right leg, should i cut it off?" You learn to live with it, and you make that decision within yourself. its a silly example but i feel as though it is a Truth. You can learn to deal with Anything but is it what you deserve. I will always be satisfied and happy single. i Love God and in Heaven it is written that we will All be single Anyway, as children of God. So its Up to You and it is Also written, that if Anyone should ASk for Wisdom from God, He will Always Answer that request within a short period of time. smile

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    John Wiggensposted 6 years ago

    There isn't any good reason to marry!

 
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