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Women say men are bad?

  1. Richieb799 profile image76
    Richieb799posted 7 years ago

    Think I just got mugged off for a 10 pound bottle of wine, good job I went for the cheap one..A girl chatted me up outside the local pub,  she seemed the fairly innocent type..everything seemed great apart from her over loud drunk friend who suggest I buy a bottle..
    when we went inside the pub it started going downhill, I dunno whether she was showing off to her friend or what but she slid me her phone number..but then some guy turned up, she had previously told me she got dumped..I don't know what the truth behind her situation was, I think he looked a bigger mug than me anyway..I think she maybe a wolf in sheeps clothing..
    I think the wise thing to do is to stay clear, but I have this number and I curious whether to ask her what all that was about over facebook. I am not a beginner when it comes to women, Ive had my share of girlfriends and sometimes played a few games myself.
    Ah well I guess I was just happy to be back out there on the scene and making the effort to find a new gf after a few months off, 10 pound didnt kill me for an entertaining night, I had a little extra money to play with this weekend, gotta just take it as another lesson

    1. salt profile image75
      saltposted 7 years agoin reply to this

      It sounds mean, but you didnt have to buy the bottle.. maybe be it was your expectations? Buy a girl a drink and shes yours? Umm not a healthy thought.

      Good luck on the dating.

  2. KCC Big Country profile image88
    KCC Big Countryposted 7 years ago

    What did you expect to get with a 10 pound bottle of wine?  Maybe her number was all she had to offer tonight.

    1. Richieb799 profile image76
      Richieb799posted 7 years agoin reply to this

      Im just wondering who the guy was,she slipped me the number while he was there lol they were a bit dodgy, you would think so if you were there..I may talk to her to find out what the score was though

  3. KCC Big Country profile image88
    KCC Big Countryposted 7 years ago

    Could have been an over-protective brother....LOL

    If she's not married or in a committed relationship then there's nothing wrong with playing the field. 

    Call her up and ask her.  However, who's to say if she'll tell the truth anyway. 

    Is she worth the effort?  There's an awful lot of fish in that big ol' sea.

  4. mega1 profile image79
    mega1posted 7 years ago

    yeh, lot's more fish in the sea and maybe pubs is not the right part of the sea, meaning you will get better results in a classier place - like what?  night classes? I don't know.

    1. KCC Big Country profile image88
      KCC Big Countryposted 7 years agoin reply to this

      I agree, and that's a great point!  That's one thing that always made me laugh when talking to my friends.  They always complained that the men they met drank too much, but isn't funny that they were always going to bars to find men?  LOL

      1. SomewayOuttaHere profile image60
        SomewayOuttaHereposted 7 years agoin reply to this

        yup good point...I never took meeting anyone in a bar very seriously and made a point to never hand out my no. there...you're a young good looking guy (according to your pic) and so I'm sure you'll have no problem meeting a nice person and not when you/they are under the influence of alcohol.  that's just my 2 cents.

        1. Richieb799 profile image76
          Richieb799posted 7 years agoin reply to this

          I only had 1.5 drinks..I haven't got enough money yet to go to Classy places! I don't do pubs a lot..maybe when my adsense rises I can take dates better places, its only a modest adsense at the moment lol(threshold minimum)lol

          1. SomewayOuttaHere profile image60
            SomewayOuttaHereposted 7 years agoin reply to this

            And Richie...you don't have to spend a lot of money (or any money) on a date...go for coffee....have a picnic - it's summer (make it potluck)...walk in a park...hang out....or share whatever interest you might have in common e.g. cycling or whatever...basically it's just nice talking and getting to know someone if there's an interest (especially before you spend any of your hard earned dollars - younger people would understand that I'm sure)

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              kimberlyslyricsposted 7 years agoin reply to this

              big_smile

            2. KCC Big Country profile image88
              KCC Big Countryposted 7 years agoin reply to this

              I agree.  There are tons of activities you can do together than do not require money.

            3. Anath profile image78
              Anathposted 7 years agoin reply to this

              Yes, that is a great idea.

              Actually, usually (not always) expensive dates equal boring guys.  While more original (most of the time cheaper dates) equal interesting guys, those who have the imagination to keep you going whithout all the "fiddle di-di" that you find in expensive places...

  5. Greek One profile image76
    Greek Oneposted 7 years ago

    give me her number... let me call her and clear it up for you

    1. DenverPhotography profile image58
      DenverPhotographyposted 7 years agoin reply to this

      Lol.  Do you really want to open that can of fish?  I don't think I would want to go there.

      1. Greek One profile image76
        Greek Oneposted 7 years agoin reply to this

        That's mean... I wouldn't call her a can of fish smile

  6. KCC Big Country profile image88
    KCC Big Countryposted 7 years ago

    As I wrote that last statement, I thought "I should write a hub about that"....then I remembered......I have!  LOL   I have a hub called "Date Night Activities".  It's a list of activities you can do, some that cost money, some that do not.  Some are more appropriate if you're already in a relationship with someone and you're having a night out, but something may spark some ideas.  smile

  7. profile image64
    logic,commonsenseposted 7 years ago

    I'm guessing the girl had the same expectations or she wouldn't have been there.

    1. profile image0
      kimberlyslyricsposted 7 years agoin reply to this

      logic I am here

      and have common sense

      marry me?

      1. timorous profile image86
        timorousposted 7 years agoin reply to this

        Hey, wait a minute...you said you wanted to marry me, Kim sad

        And we're not even in a bar.   Why you.... mad 

        lol lol

        Just kidding smile smile

        No Kimberly, you have uncommon sense.

      2. profile image64
        logic,commonsenseposted 7 years agoin reply to this

        As long as I don't have to spend over 10 pounds on the wine! smile

  8. Richieb799 profile image76
    Richieb799posted 7 years ago

    I wasn't expecting to get anything, I'm not desperate, but a lot of women tend to be gold diggers(not all) that was my point..It didn't bother me cause it was a cheap wine.

    1. wychic profile image91
      wychicposted 7 years agoin reply to this

      Lol, that's what I was thinking while reading through this...she was expecting to get something alright, free wine! Yes, even though I'm female I will admit that many females tend to be gold diggers, or at very least don't mind collecting a free drink here and there from willing males they will probably never even think about again. Keep trying, there are those of us out there who expect a man rather than a paycheck in a relationship wink.

    2. Sunny_S profile image61
      Sunny_Sposted 7 years agoin reply to this

      ahahaha Another victim of women looking for free booze. You can tell which ones are serious about staying with ya and wanting to talk and the ones that are a tad drunk and looking for more booze. Oh well theres plenty more fish in the sea.

 
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