Why there are single people.

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   omenwindposted 13 years ago

   you'd be surprised men at how women really think about you.
   you might want to check out my hub. <snipped link - do not promote your hubs in the forums>

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      Cagsilposted 13 years agoin reply to this

      Why there are single people? Too many reasons and the one that stands out the most is by choice.

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   Pearldiverposted 13 years ago

   Of Course there's a Vast Difference between Water and Air signs.. so you may well find that your omen is off the mark completely! Have you considered that point?
   
   For those of us that actually do communicate well with real (non-cyber) women.. There are no surprises to be found in a hub on the subject... You appear to be completely ignoring the fact that many men and women, actually prefer by choice to be single.
   
   I have just noticed that you are promoting your hub in an open forum - Instead the Extreme MakeOver forum.. which is generally the forum that you use when you want other writers to peruse your work. I guess that you didn't want your hub critiqued objectively... so sorri if my post offends you

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      cashmereposted 13 years agoin reply to this

      Is this person new to hubpages???

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   blondepoetposted 13 years ago

   I totally disagree with this hub. Oh good grief!!!!!!!
   Totally off the mark.
   Most women have sex before they marry these days.
   They don't stay virgins to trap a guy into marriage.
   They find sex a chore????????
   Oh god no!!!!!!!!!!!!
   Pink Umbrella have you read this nonsense???
   Gosh us single ladies either choose to be single,have been left that way or we just have not met the right guy yet. Simple but true.
   
   

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      the pink umbrellaposted 13 years agoin reply to this

      haha, i just came on to see where everyone was.... hubpages seems to me to be a ghost town today! So, im going to save omenwind from my comment, and not visit her hub on this one, lol. How can you not have sex before marriage anyway....what if you and your fiance are totally sexually incompatable. And tricking men into marriage by wotholding sex?, is that what she says??? that sounds very old school to me.   Sorry omenwind...nice name, but i think your off the mark by about 70 years or so....lol

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         the pink umbrellaposted 13 years agoin reply to this

         Someone start a new post tonight, something fun!!! Blondepoet, any thoughts on a new post topic?? <3

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            omenwindposted 13 years agoin reply to this

            No, the hub says that 'if' she does demand marriage before sex, it's just because she's like a lot of women who don't feel up to having sex regardless of the male's needs. And in the event she DID give in, before marriage or after, and learns that sex is actually pleasurable, she'll feel doubly obligated to the male now that he knows she enjoys it, obligation being something she is trying to avoid. And for this reason women shut down after bouts of sex or turn it into a type of reward. So before or after a woman's initial sex experience, she has an attitude about it either way. And this is why males leave at the first sign of this nonsense, even if they remain neglected virgins their entire life, because they 'detect' that something is wrong. I just was able to ascertain and break it down into details.

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               the pink umbrellaposted 13 years agoin reply to this

               ummmmmmm...... I have never in my life experienced the withold of sex as a reward. I have also never felt obligated to anyone when it comes to the giving of my own body. But, there were times in my last relatioship (currently on hold) that i did not feel up to having sex, and guess what, my boyfriend (on hold) never once tried to pressure me for sex, and never felt the need to argue about it, either. Sex is only great when both parties are totally up for it. I think most men know that. And really, how long do these women shut down for? i think th elongest i ever went without wanting sex was a little over a month, and it was because of certain problems within the relationship at the time. But, it didnt make my partner run away. I just dont know where your getting your information, i mean , unless you have first hand experience.

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                  blondepoetposted 13 years agoin reply to this

                  Agreed. Yes Omen I am very interested what you base your findings on.

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                     the pink umbrellaposted 13 years agoin reply to this

                     Im just not sure i know alot of women who clam up like that.

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               Pearldiverposted 13 years agoin reply to this

               What 3rd world cell block are you living in mate?
               Why are you expecting us to agree with this sort of content?
               You demonstrate that not only do you have a limited knowledge of the opposite sex in such matters... but also that with writing like this; your pen seems to be badly affected by your overly vigorous hand movements!

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               Teresa McGurkposted 13 years agoin reply to this

               WTF????>??>?
               
               No, really--sex is pleasurable?
               
               Why didn't anyone tell me?

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                  blondepoetposted 13 years agoin reply to this

                  Oh this is outrageous Teresa no-one told me either.
                  Oh I will just have to go try out this new found theory.

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                     logic,commonsenseposted 13 years agoin reply to this

                     I know just the volunteer to help you verify this theory!

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            blondepoetposted 13 years agoin reply to this

            Mmmmmm I am thinking hard. I can feel my brain tensing considerably. Agreed we need fun Pink, we need it fast.

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            Elpasoposted 13 years agoin reply to this

            Oh come on!!!
            U 2 just dont know anything about women!
            Stay around and learn something about the female animal.

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               blondepoetposted 13 years agoin reply to this

               Who us.
               So you have read his hub and agree with it not what he is saying here.
               I base my comments on his hub.

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                  Elpasoposted 13 years agoin reply to this

                  What do you mean He?
                  
                  No Way!

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                     blondepoetposted 13 years agoin reply to this

                     Is Owen a woman.

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                        Elpasoposted 13 years agoin reply to this

                        I dont know, now that you mention it.  What would a man know about how a woman thinks and feels?

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                           blondepoetposted 13 years agoin reply to this

                           Exactly!!!!
                           Terrific point.

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         blondepoetposted 13 years agoin reply to this

         LMAO thanks for coming Pink Umbrella. Wow that was super fast.
         Oh this person basically says that women trick guys into marriage by saying they will have sex with them when we don't give two hoots about his needs and it is a chore and it goes on and on and on.......................................
         WTF!!!!!!!!
         Just had to drop in here and state my opinion as I am an advocate for women............
         Gosh wonder what the second hub will be about?
         Gee you and me Pink Umbrella must not be real women, because we actually enjoy making love...........
         OH BOY OH BOY OMENWIND YOU NEED TO GET WITH THE TIMES.
         However I guess everyone is entitled to their own opinion.

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            the pink umbrellaposted 13 years agoin reply to this

            haha , well, opinions are fine just as long as your not putting words in the mouths of all womenkind! Yea, maybe were not real women, but sophisticates sex robots sent back in time...lol  My god, making love is a chore,,,whooo i needed a good laugh tonight. I guess she didnt read my previous post!!!

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               omenwindposted 13 years agoin reply to this

               Many women in their marriages feel like sex is a chore. Even virgins outside marriage. All you have to do is look it up or look around, and I think even you yourself know this.

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                  the pink umbrellaposted 13 years agoin reply to this

                  yea, but then their partner is to blame for not careing if they want to have sex or not, , or they need to find someone that has the same drive as they do. You cant just marry someone who wants it every night if you are a once a week kinda gal, it just wont work out. The problem in that is not sex, its communication.

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                     omenwindposted 13 years agoin reply to this

                     are we sure there's not two classes of women; the natural one who doesn't feel like having sex and the one who was initiated by her husband/bf then found a way to repeat the pleasure on her terms and timetables (seduction, etc), to avoid an image of responding to a male?

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                        Pearldiverposted 13 years agoin reply to this

                        Amazing
                        
                        Blissful Ignorance
                        
                        Can't see the girls for the burkas

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                           omenwindposted 13 years agoin reply to this

                           It's ignorance that study after study concludes women do not really desire sex? We're not talking about the ones who were worked into it by their boyfriend and seek to repeat its pleasure on her terms and timetables to avoid an image of submission.
                           
                           If guys knew the truth about women it would devastate.

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                              the pink umbrellaposted 13 years agoin reply to this

                              what? i dont mean to bum you out or anything, but the friends that i do have that are women,,,we like sex. Sure, there are times where we dont feel like it, but i dont know any chick who was coaxed into it, and now just does it when her man wants it, and she feels like being nice. I dont even know what your saying.

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                                 the pink umbrellaposted 13 years agoin reply to this

                                 you know what, im going to go check out your hub...i gotta see this warlock in action

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                                    the pink umbrellaposted 13 years agoin reply to this

                                    "All her behavior comes out in the dating activity and leaves men alone and mentally ill, and causes chaos in marriages. I am not going to stick the problem with the male; not after the discoveries I made."
                                    
                                    That has to literally be the most bias thing i have ever heard. I feel like such a woman when spencer (the on hold boyfriend) seduces me and treats me like a woman. Seriously, its his desire that turns me on. What the hell are you talking about? Why should women bein charge of the sex life in their relationship? Him and i have both done our fair share of initiating sex, but he does more of it, and 8 times out of ten, im right on board. Your crazy

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   Elpasoposted 13 years ago

   Looks like you ladies got the comedy corner after all.
   
   See Ya!

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   blondepoetposted 13 years ago

   Oooo good on you Pink you read it, so now you fully know how bizarre it is.
   Heck as a woman I would never claim to speak on behalf of the male population as Owen has done for the women.
   
   My goodness if having sex for someone unmarried is a chore imagine what it would be like after. Aghhhhhhhhhhh!!!!
   
   Owen honestly you need to let your hair down and relax a bit.

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      the pink umbrellaposted 13 years agoin reply to this

      seriously, im wondering if this is a joke, because if its not, someone seriously messed with this person's mind.
      
      i kinda wish i didnt read it...how can anyone speak of women so generally?

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      the pink umbrellaposted 13 years agoin reply to this

      seriously, im wondering if this is a joke, because if its not, someone seriously messed with this person's mind.
      
      i kinda wish i didnt read it...how can anyone speak of women so generally?

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   blondepoetposted 13 years ago

   Great point Pink I know I won't be losing sleep over it. There is only one thing that I lose sleep over and it is not what Owen recommends.

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      the pink umbrellaposted 13 years agoin reply to this

      lmao. those women who are in relationships and dont wanna have sex cant be too atracted to their man, thats all i have to say lol.

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   skyfireposted 13 years ago

   1. Choice
   
   2. Money - because gals marry with money/resume these days.Nothing wrong with their concern about money but if you don't earn enough to keep a family -you remain single anyway.
   
   3. Looks- men think about this area more than women i guess or Maybe it's just my opinion.
   
   4. Sex

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