Suggestion for partners interested in a more total intimate, rather than sexual, experience: a modernized take on the sensual massage.
For either men or women, begin by giving your partner a more or less full body massage, but at each nerve point ask a harmless question
at collarbone and pectoral, ask what's your favorite ice cream?
at side of ribs ask who was your first crush?
at lower abdomen, ask what's your dream vacation?
at thighs (top) ask what was your most embarrassing moment?
at thighs (inner) ask what's your favorite texture?
at knees, ask what's your favorite scent?
at ankles, ask who do you admire the most?
at thighs (back, after rolling partner over), ask what's your favorite taste?
at buttocks, ask what's your favorite sport?
at lower back, ask what was the best holiday you remember?
at ribs (lower back), ask where would you live if money were no object?
at shoulder blades, ask who do you trust the most?
at back of neck, ask what's your favorite color?
roll partner back over after finding their most responsive area and gently massage the area, move hands down to area just above the front of the pelvis, and work from front of pelvis to inner thighs
the rule is, if it gets overtly sexual, the partner cannot initiate a sex act, he/she can only receive it, depending on what the massaging partner is comfortable doing/giving
the rule is, the passive partner may not inhibit his/her response or that of the partner's and must reciprocate (no rolling over and going to sleep)
I realized your comment in this forum site about the topic of the The Dao of intimacy its a really nice information,
This is awesome - where is the link to the actual hub?
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