the Dao of Intimacy

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  1. kalixao profile image60
    kalixaoposted 8 years ago

    Suggestion for partners interested in a more total intimate, rather than sexual, experience: a modernized take on the sensual massage.

    For either men or women, begin by giving your partner a more or less full body massage, but at each nerve point ask a harmless question

    at collarbone and pectoral, ask what's your favorite ice cream?
    at side of ribs ask who was your first crush?
    at lower abdomen, ask what's your dream vacation?
    at thighs (top) ask what was your most embarrassing moment?
    at thighs (inner) ask what's your favorite texture?
    at knees, ask what's your favorite scent?
    at ankles, ask who do you admire the most?
    at thighs (back, after rolling partner over), ask what's your favorite taste?
    at buttocks, ask what's your favorite sport?
    at lower back, ask what was the best holiday you remember?
    at ribs (lower back), ask where would you live if money were no object?
    at shoulder blades, ask who do you trust the most?
    at back of neck, ask what's your favorite color?
    roll partner back over after finding their most responsive area and gently massage the area, move hands down to area just above the front of the pelvis, and work from front of pelvis to inner thighs
    the rule is, if it gets overtly sexual, the partner cannot initiate a sex act, he/she can only receive it, depending on what the massaging partner is comfortable doing/giving
    the rule is, the passive partner may not inhibit his/her response or that of the partner's and must reciprocate (no rolling over and going to sleep)

    1. the pink umbrella profile image78
      the pink umbrellaposted 8 years agoin reply to this

      dude, write a hub...a forum is for discussions, questions, or debates.

  2. kalixao profile image60
    kalixaoposted 8 years ago

    It's on its own hub now: daochii

  3. profile image51
    mafaldatimmerposted 8 years ago

    I realized your comment in this forum site about the topic of the The Dao of intimacy its a really nice information,


    1. kalixao profile image60
      kalixaoposted 8 years agoin reply to this

      Try out the suggestions and report the results here and maybe we can foster a good discussion thread here. There's a reply from someone who followed the steps and his personal experience on the hub daochii.

  4. SuMos Party Place profile image58
    SuMos Party Placeposted 8 years ago

    This is awesome - where is the link to the actual hub?

    1. kalixao profile image60
      kalixaoposted 8 years agoin reply to this

      The hub is "daochii" (two i's). I hope people reading this will try the technique and talk about their impressions here in the forum, or comment on the hub page.

  5. saleheensblog profile image60
    saleheensblogposted 8 years ago


  6. profile image0
    klarawieckposted 8 years ago

    Where do I press to ask for his credit card?

    1. kalixao profile image60
      kalixaoposted 8 years agoin reply to this

      ??? LOL Uh, I wouldn't know. I hope you don't use this for phone sex!! wink


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