There are so many beautiful girls who are single especially in the big city of Los Angeles. My friends are models, actors and rich and yet they are single. My friends and I all noticed we are called the sweet girls and we always notice the girl with the guy is more aloof, indifferent and "bitchy" to the guy. Why is that?
Why do guys appear to be dating this bitchy girl over the nice girl. Please tell us single girls who are sweet, cute, sexy, smart and in shape!!!
Could it be because you're all liberals? Just sayin... LOL
That's just the root of all problems and unhappiness, liberalism!
I dated, married and end up divorcing a
bitchy girl. I won't wast my time with them and will take a nice girl any time!
I'm too bitcy right now, will get back to ya.
How do you know the guy is not a complete douche?
maybe because you love and believe in yourself so much??
men want to be challenged - they like them who fights and challenged them anywhere including in the b*droom??
Men doesn't want women who just say, YES LOVE, what love..??
Same attract same..
Your question reeks of insecurity... you talk about your friends being 'models, actors and rich'... but is that all they have to offer?? How about intelligence, self-confidence and other less superficial qualities??
I THINK THAT BITCHY WOMEN GET THE GUY BCZ TO ME....SOME MEN ARE ATTRACTED TO WOMEN WHO WILL TREAT THEM THE WAY THAT THEY TREAT OTHER WOMEN AND IF THE MAN DOESNT FEEL LIKE U CAN HOLD UR OWN OR UR A WEAK MINDED WOMAN THEN THEY WILL TREAT U AS SUCH.....BUT WHEN THEY FIND A WOMAN WHO IS JUST AS PUSHY AS THEY ARE THATS WHEN THEY BITCH UP AND BOW DOWN BCUZ THEY FIGURE I NEVER HAD A WOMAN LIKE THIS B4......ON ANOTHER NOTE HE MIGHT B A GOOD MAN TO U BCUZ HE IS BN TREATED SO BADLY BUT U NEVER KNW HOW THAT MAN HAS TREATED PAST GF!!!!!......realbizz88
Guys who are interested in one thing don't like brains, they want body. If a guy wants more than sex he likes intelligence. Some guys like to play games so they find a girl who plays games too which makes the challange more fun and exciting. Guys like challenges and excitement. These guys are usually loud, arrigant and boastful. The quiet ones are a better pick. If a guy can't admire you for who you are, they aren't worth it because you will always be looking over your shoulder.
Well, in my opinion maybe you gals don't know how to show a guy you're interested. Perhaps they are intimidated by your beauty and you need to smile a bit and chat to reassure them you don't bite. Most guys will reach for the apple that's easiest to get at the bottom of the tree, but they know they have to work for the good fruit at the top. I became more friendly and sweet, and talked to people more, and I got asked out all the time, still do. :-)
Some men really like women with attitude. However, no one person is ALL bad so she has to have something else she's offering besides the attitude.
Men in general would much rather date nice, sweet girls than bitchy, unpleasant girls all other factors equal.
Physical attraction comfortably trumps personality for men (I would say >90% of male to female attraction is physical) - that is how nature has made our attraction mechanism - women's attraction mechanism is different, which seems to cause a lot of misunderstanding.
The vast majority of men if not all, would rather date a physically attractive women with a bitchy personality (i.e Megan Fox) than a physically unattractive women with a gentle personality.
Men don't really care about your wealth or status in that it doesn't make us more attracted to women - in fact, if you are woman that is wealthy and high status, it will narrow your dating pool as women are by nature hypergamous and want to 'date up' (most men are at least subconsciously aware of this).
Often women will act bitchy/aloof do so because they are very attractive to men and have to deal with a lot of guys approaching them and asking them out, so they put up a bitch shield to 'test' (sort the wheat from the chaff) which men have the social smarts, power and charisma to break through their 'bitch shields' and win their attraction.
That's a generalization. Many men prefer women who are nice to them. At the same time, there is some truth to the notion that people want what they can't have, or what is hard to have.
...cuz their momma was like that?...don't know...wouldn't worry about it...wouldn't want to date a man that starts out with someone who is nasty to them...no backbone there...and not thinkin' with the big head maybe.....
Some people just crave abuse. My best friend's brother is married to a woman who's own family warned him not to marry her because she was such a bitch. He's intelligent, articulate, and attractive and could have had just about any girl he wanted. He went for the bitch. It's probably very similar to girls who go for the thrill and excitement of the "bad boy" types.
most guys like to be handle in a naughty way, and bad girls bring that to the table. Some guys get turned on by the sight of naughtiness.
same reason that men who are a$$es get the women... they present a challenge and are not pushovers
maybe because they're just a guy instead of a man. the same people play games, they're not into real relationships based on love and respect.
the bitchy girls most likely don't respect the guys, and probably don't receive respect in return, either. I'd search out different guys who're real men and know how to respect a woman.
It's the law of leverage. May be not leverage, something else. "Nice" guys never go with "nice" girls. You never need somebody who is "boring" like you. Not much fun in it. Even if you will suffer later, it is how it works in life. Generally, not 100%.
Some guys like the thrill of getting knocked around by the woman. I agree with what the Greek One posted.
Here's a thought: maybe the girl isn't normally the bitchy sort. Maybe the cute, hot, sexy, seems so nice guy isn't really what he appears to be. And just maybe, she's had enough of his crap and doesn't care if he stays or goes, or maybe........she hoping with enough pushing, he'll go quickly without anymore pain.
Just a thought.................
With you Terri, get to the bottom of the bitching and you'll find a bloke who squeezes the top of the tooth paste.
Can't be as simple as that. It may seem like all the "bitchy," mean girls are getting the guys, but things are always deeper. Just focus on yourself. Work on yourself and improving yourself. If you are everything you say you are, you shouldn't have a problem finding a significant other.
It may have something to do with confidence. Men are not attracted to women who seem desperate for a boyfriend, or act bitter because guys like other women instead of them.
Do your own thing and don't worry about whether guys are dating "bitchy" women or not, it just makes you sound bitter. You wouldn't want any of those guys for a boyfriend anyways who weren't interested in a woman who is kind and caring.
Um...how to put this...the "bitches" sound rather easy, factor this in to the guys being attracted to them. Maybe they know you & your friends are too good and prefer girls with low standards.
I think its root of all problems.I think boys really attract that type of girls they want only fun.
OK I'm going to ask a silly question, but is this a Californian point of view?
A 'bitchy' type of gal wouldn't be dating and would last less than 5 minutes in Australia (mind you there are exceptions)
I dated a fantastic girl who was so"get along"sweet that I wished someone would open a restaurant named"I don't care" so I'd know where to take her.Every time I asked her where she wanted to go>I don't care< was her reply.I also dated a women who wanted to pay Me back for what her EX had done to her[bitchy]as well.Neither extreme is atractive.A secure man wants a women with a little fire in her at times but Not to the extreme!My current[and possibly perminent]Lady is fire and water and she knows which to use when.We argued the other day and she finaly grabed my shirt[shes a tiny thing]and said"I Love you but I'll Kick your Ass if I have to".Now that is a Real women!
Good one! I think "real" is the operative word for a lasting relationship. Better to present your true nature than a front. I've seen plenty of nice fronts and b!tchy fronts on offer to my male friends... single is usually the end result for those girls when they become wise to it. A man might start off with a b!tch simply because it is more stimulating in the short term. Nice can sometimes equal vapid. Be a self-starter, be interesting, and be fun. And then you can pick and choose!!
Maybe because "bitchy" girls go for what they want while the nice ones want to be pursued.But in the long run, I think a real man would want to settle for someone who can be bitchy (when the situation calls for it-by this I mean who will fight back and not just be a push-over all the time) and nice at the same time.
Because man always wants to have fun when they are not yet mature or should I say they are not ready to tie their self in more serious type of relationship.
WHY THEY LOVE BITCHES?
Of course bitches is always on the go they are like a door knob that everybody knocks on. They do not have limitations in their self specially when it comes to sexual side while nice girls do have set up a limitations not to indulge to that stuff or more.
Bitches wants to have fun always so do with guys so they got always team up. But it is only for part time pleasure.
Man would always want to settle down with a girl that can he proud of a decent woman who have dignity that everybody have respect.
In fact why hurry all things while it is nice to be single and ready to mingle..
It is such an irony when a person is single they wish to be in a relationship but when they are in, they wish to be single awwwwwwww....
Don't worry about the bitches they are easily to be forgotten.
I've often wondered this myself. I'm married..but I've still wondered it (and NO, I'm NOT bitchy..at least I don't think)! Perhaps it's because the bitchy ones provide a "challenge" and men like a "challenge." Maybe the bitchy ones convince them that they are WORTH all the time, because (darn it) bitchy women often do seem to have a lot of self confidence! But honestly, for the long haul, I don't really believe men want to live day after day after day with a rip roaring bitch. That would have to be really unpleasant. Maybe for the short term it's fun for them..but I wouldn't change who you are, just because you think being a bitch will get you a guy. Look at Bridgette Jones, if you don't believe me. She is so sweet - AND she gets the guy. Okay, so it's a movie, but still...
Men are attracted to Confidence, and as we all well know, the classic bitch has plenty of confidence, at least outwardly. Men are suckers for that, and often times don't realize the extents of bitchy until they are already well into the relationship.
Thanks for the post. I've often wondered the answer to this question myself. My sister is controlling and bitchy but her first husband was super sweet and her current boyfriend is even sweeter than her first husband. Don't get me wrong my sister has a lot to offer. She is cute and super intelligent plus a very successful entrepreneur so she does have some pluses, but she definitely has that controlling bitchy side and she can be downright mean at times. On a side note her ex-husband's mother and boyfriend's mother are very sweet and do not have the qualities my sister has.
"Why do bitchy women get "the Guy" over nice girls?" Maybe better than goody-two-shoes boring.
"the same reason why woman want the bad boy instead of the nice one...they are more exciting!" And in either case can be a problem. Would seem that roll playing would be a better option.
I think it's all a matter of perception. I dated a woman for a while who was beautiful, intelligent, friendly and, shall we say, endlessly untrusting. She trusted me, but didn't like other women hanging around me unless they were women introduced to her as friends of mine or girlfriends of friends.
When I met her she seemed at first like she was a total bitch. When I approached her she had a mean look and later I was told she was just completely tired of all the cheesy pick up lines guys had been laying on her all night.
A few weeks later when I noticed she had a bit of a jealous streak, a female aquaintance of mine said to me, "your gf is really pretty. But why is she such a bitch?"
I laughed and said, "she's not. She just thinks you're trying to steal me from her."
That woman who asked me that never appeared in my presence again until I was no longer in this relationship, and the woman I was dating held onto me for another two months and married the next guy she was with.
I'm just saying, it's usually alot more complicated than it looks.
Mostly I notice that the bitchy girls wind up with men who are really lost little boys inside. Just like girls have "daddy issues" men have "mommy issues." I don't care what any guy says, all men are looking at their girlfriends and wives as mommy replacements. Its just the god awful truth and well know it. So maybe their mom is kinda bitchy in real life or just really bossy and nagging so they look for girls like that. Or they are men who are insecure, kind of lost in life and need someone to tell them what to do. Either way, eventually the bitchy girl will lose most men. Just like nice guys finish last so do nice girls but last is always best in relationships :-)
Other women tend to define me as a bitchy woman but no man I ever dated did, so I think I can answer this. I'm not bitchy. I'm self confident. I am not in need of a man in order to define who I am, so there are no need for illusions. I don't play games.
I realize men enjoy flirting with girls who work to ensure they convey themselves as sweet, sexy, cute and whatever other adjectives you used. But this is an illusion you have created in order to entice a man closer. That's the yin. The yin is great, but the yang is too much trouble to deal with in a relationship.
That's the gist of what men tell me.
Trust me you will get bitchy after 20 some years of being overtly nice and worrying about what they want?, what they think?, bending over backwards.. It never will benefit you EVER.. You have to be a bitch sometimes as to not be a doormat, But a balance is essential, Just don't settle for BS NOT right for you, keep your interest, forget him if he demands only HIS dreams matter.. Be you and ONLY you and were all gonna bitches to someone when we stand our ground.. I am oh so fine with being a bitch rather than a doormat, someone has a post here on that matter of fact, there are diffident degrees of bitchiness.
You know, I have never truly understood this myself. Though I can tell you that I am treated better and my hubby seems to appreciate me more when I'm bitchy. It's really weird, especially since I am naturally a very passive person. I've been the doting gf, the sweetest woman, and yet the bitchy wifey seems to please him most. As to why this, your guess is as good as mine, lol.
Well usually those girls end up getting dumped, and when the guy finally figures out what he needs in a partner ends up going for the nice girls. He's just got to go there first to get to the best part marrying the nice girl, and the bitchy one as you called it, asks what makes her different than me, and I tried for years to get him to marry me, but he wouldn't, and he married this new chic instantly. lol
Funny, women and men have the same problem. Nice Guys vs. Jerks Nice Women vs Bitchy Women. I've seen many forums where guys complain about their trouble with women leaving them for "jerks" and then guys do the same thing. They go for the girl that is a little more "bad."
Very true, though the guy is 'usually' in the range of 50 years old before he figures out that he doesn't want a high maintenance bitchy woman, lol. Just sayin....
"Why do bitchy women get "the Guy" over nice girls?"
I submit that they do not.
That's because guys want nice girls as wives and and bitchy as girl-friends. But, but remember, nice girls keep the guys bitchy ones can't.
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