As an agnostic, and one who wrestles with "why" and "faith" questions literally every day, I cannot focus on God's timing, because if God, as I understand him to be defined, has such a timing or "plan" for each of us, we being human "aren't allowed to eat that apple" and know His plan.
As for my own timing and focus - straight up and uninteresting answer. My executive functioning and organizational difficulties are such that I either cannot, or am not willing to spend normalX10 energy/time to manage such long perspective.
I literally don't have the time to manage my time. Ugh - somebody channel my (late) neurosurgeon Dr. Shillito for me and ask him to beam down and tell his successors Heaven's answers!