A friend of mine is a member of some Buddhist cults and seems to be brainwashed by some fortune teller. Telling her about the futures doom and gloom, and trying to enlighten me, saying that one only way forward is to also join.
Wouldn't this kill your friendship? Should I work on un-brainwashing? or waste of time.
The issue is, it pops up in conversatons. E.g. I took a friend sightseeing at some famous shrine in Tokyo and this girl Im talking about now freaked out when she saw the picture telling me I should erase it, as any another belief other than hers is wrog. She told me the next day that the photo I showed her made her feel sick and gave her a headache.
Depends on how important this person is to you, and how obnoxious she gets about it. Personally, I have always found Buddhism a very negative way to look at life, but the average Buddhist not much different from anyone else. The cults can get pretty wacky though.
- tell her to get back to you when she is done with the cult. Tell her you think she is being brainwashed and you want no part of it. Tell her you are serious! And stand behind your "No!" to friendship at this time.
I do not care about them, if they do not respect me or my religion. Obviously they have no respect for Christianity which is not a cult. Maybe in your eyes, so no, you would not be a friend. Why would I care about the opinion of a non-friend or a stranger?
I don't think anyone would complain about my beliefs. I come fom a Christian back and everything stays in the church mainly with gospel singing. I would never have any negative opinions an other religeons or attempt to preach and enlighten people which is very annoying.
People in these cults should keep it to themselves or within their groups
Well that's okay, I just like to avoid bothering people with religious topics unless they take an interest, which can be observed through the context of conversation. And also I subtle church invite, won't hurt.
I'm not telling people about what I hear in Church, the only thing I ever tell non-believers about church is that fact that I can play the keys (gospel) therefore can help out in bands that have an R&B, Jazz, Neo Soul flavor to them. Nothing religious ever comes into play or topic.
My initial complaint about the cults is that, every topic I discuss turns into a topic of doom and gloom which sounds like something repeated from their fortunate telling cults leader.
E.g. Her stories are very contradicting, e.g. China will attack Japan in 2014 or was it 2017 according to her fortunate teller. Japan and China have under tension for a while, and now especially with the Sengoku Islands dispute. I said to her, why don't you read the news from various sources, come up with your own personal conclusion as to what how you think China and Japan will solve this issue and have a normal discussion / debate. Her answer "My opinion doesn't matter , our mentor told us this will happen". Is that not brain washing? Next there will be a big earthquake in 2017 that will destroy everything - There are earthquakes every week here. She told me too many things can did not turn out.
If she is in a cult then a rational response of "I respect that you believe these things, but I am living by my own beliefs and they are different" will cause her to shun you. Worry if/when that happens.
If she can follow her new religion and respect your differences, you should do the same.
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