I should weigh in on this too. My greatest fear is having no control, or being subdued in some way where I can't control what happens to me. When I see TV shows and someone is handcuffed or they put duct tape on someone's mouth--the very idea freaks me out--I'm getting edgy right now thinking about it.
Ever since I was pregnant with my second son I have had dreams of him drowning. It has been reoccurring for the last 8 years now. I get so anxious when he gets around water I almost have a panic attack. I started giving him showers as soon as he could stand up and I don't allow him to take a bath now. He doesn't know how to swim yet and I really want him to, but I think I'm going to have a heart attack while he is being taught. I also have a phobia of fish.