In all seriousness, on a subject that could go anywhere , to really and truly be good at sex the woman needs to learn how to love through her skin and totally indulge in the act. In doing so, the man is putty in her hands, which can happen anyway! But the experience is immensely more internal. There are no thoughts about how to please, you just know how without thinking.
So, big key - don't adore him, adore yourself and in the process he gets the best. And the experience is out of this world, literally.