What I have learnt from life is to stay happy, live happy and keep happy your dear ones.
Why to bother about taking revenge from those who don't care about how you feel? At the end, I will waste time in planning how to take revenge and keep myself upset and stressed by thinking about the loss happend to me. Is this valuable to others? of course no!! So why waste your time and life by thinking about such things... I spend my most of the time by planning how I can live happy and how I can give a smile on other's face
Taking revenge makes you no better than the person who harmed you. There is a quote somewhere, it might be a Chinese proverb, that says "when embarking on a journey of revenge, start by digging two graves. One for your enemy, and one for yourself." Acceptance and forgiveness are the only way to personal peace.
I agree with MT for sure
Two wrongs do not make a right and just adds fuel to the fire.
It keeps going back and forth. Its the same situation when 2 guys want to fight, the better person should walk away and take being called names as they will be, but so what, the further they get they wont hear them calling you chicken any more , lol. However if the fight goes on it not only will spiral but may add friends in as well or should I say foes.
God says "Vengeance is mine I will repay. So leave it to the one who can take the sun and darken it if he wants.
Thats a good question as younger people may answer a bit differently or those that have been there. So it would be very interesting to hear the answers.
No buddy it's like the others have said, it's not okay.
What your supposed to do is learn from it, that's why these things happen.
Believe me buddy life is a learning curve, & the sooner you start learning the better.
The way to get over the feelings of wanting revenge, is to see that without "their" help you wouldn't know what you needed to work on.
For instance the next time someone wants to argue with you, you don't stand there arguing back.
You listen to what their saying, but you try to see where your feelings come from instead of arguing back.
This will eventually lead to you being able to control your feelings, & also your emotions.
However if some one we're to beat you up, well that would be a sign saying you need to learn how to fight better.
Look at who you want to take revenge on, and then see why it happened in the first place.
Did you somehow allow these things to happen to you?, & is there something you can do to avoid the same thing happening in the future.
If there is then you've learn't a valuable lesson, & you should thank them for showing it to you.
You don't literally thank them, but you thank them by not seeking any revenge.
Keep doing that, but don't ever let anyone walk all over you buddy.
Revenge is ego speaking. Ego does not take responsibility, but is great at placing blame. Ego does not love, but is happy to wallow in lust. Ego can never be humble, but will sometimes commit suicide just to show the rest of the world who is right. Ego can never be perfectly confident, but will sometimes be arrogant and fearful of being discovered, just as any bully would do.
Forgiveness is freedom from the ball and chain of resentment. When you take 100% responsibility for what someone else has done to you, you can no longer be a victim. How empowering is that!
by froch 4 years ago
Revenge - pros and consWhat are you thinking about revenge? Is it ethic? Is revenge way of justice and preventing evil facility or revenge is evil itself? What do you think about it?
by Nikki Khan 9 months ago
Sometimes you want to take revenge but you just ignore it or sometimes you just go for revenge.Which is the best option?
by Peeples 23 months ago
Why does society try to make us all equal when we clearly aren't?This mentality is odd to me and I'm confused as to why we want to make everyone equal. Drug dealers, rapist, child abusers are not equal to honest people who try to live a moral life. There will always be some who are better and worse...
by Shwetha Shetty 6 years ago
Which one is better to take revenge or forgive some one??
by earnestshub 9 years ago
Today in Australia a woman who lost her daughter to a car accident did not want jail for the defendant in the case, she wanted him at home with his family, as she could see no point in hurting his family too. I am so proud of her! That is the action of someone who understands how life really works.
by Grace Marguerite Williams 6 years ago
If a person commits a trangression against you, are you more likely to forgive him/her or do you seek revenge aginst him/her? Why? Why not?
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