How to take revenge on the spouse who cheats?
how to deal with an unfaithful spouse?
Leave him, take your time to recover and than lead a full happy life. Being happy and showing what he has missed is the best way of revenge which is not destructive to your own peace of mind.
this might sound rude but have sex with their friend, the closet one you can. don't forgive but show them that two can play the hurt game.
The cheated needs to take action to resolve the problem, but not, revenge that is so childish.
Ms. Butterfly, there is nothing in the question that indicates the gender of the unfaithful spouse, we have no information of whether the spouse is real or hypothetical, or whether it is Vishaaa's. There is no way of establishing the real gender of Vishaaa, or yours, or mine, or uncle Tom Cobley's for that matter, so you have just presumed that this unfaithful spouse, real or otherwise, is male, making you sexist.
i figured the most cruel thing i could do to my ex that left me for aother woman, was to move on and find happiness,.. and i have
the most cruel thng i ever did to the other woman,.... i let her have him.
I could tell you what I did, but there is no way I want to put that out in the public eye...
But, the worst thing to do is seek revenge. Revenge will consume you. You are better off moving on and seeking your revenge by becoming happy and better off without them!
If you do seek revenge, it will come back to haunt you, because no matter what your actions were, they will always have consequences. The worst part, is those consequences will probably be worse for you than the person you are seeking your revenge on. Believe me... I know!
improve your self and show your spouse that you'll be better without him... that he's not a lost! make him/her realize that you're the best and nothing can replace you.... fight for your love if you still loves him/her.
In truth a cheater harms themselves more than they harm you.
My wife cheated on me just before we got married and when she told me that she expected me to hit the roof, little did she know I already knew.
Afterwards she asked me why I wasn't upset at all.
I replied, the lack of your moral fiber, integrity, honesty and self worth has no reflection of my own my own integrity and self value.
I am happy because I deserve a person better than you, it's you that should be sad and disappointed and angry not me.
People will cheat, this is a given there's no use dwelling on the fact. It's much better to concentrate your efforts developing yourself into a high value human being.
If your partner cheats on you, and you have a true moral compass and have accumulated a high degree of self value. you will undoubtedly have no problem finding someone else if the infidelity bothers you so much.
The best way to get revenge on a treating spouse is not make a big deal out of it.
The best revenge is to live a full and happy life. It's legal, you get to have fun doing it and believe me it will eat them away inside.
give me a call. we'll do lunch. but seriously, while having an affair may satisfy some feelings for revenge, it most certainly won't solve your basic problems.
Oh I wanted revenge bad and in some ways like everyone has said it sounds cliche but move on. It wasn't easy for me because when someone doesn't want you it hurts. I found out it was my ego. I always wish bad things on him. I don't care what everyone says. I do.
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