Thoughts

1. 60

   Darkrose808posted 12 years ago

   I have been having thoughts of what to do with the relationship I'm in with my boyfriend.  I just don't know what to do.  I don't know if he would want to share the same wants that I have in mind towards of our future.  So far it's not looking good.  Should I go on and try to find the one who want the same thing as me or stick it out and stay with my bf and see where we would go?  Advice is surely welcome.

   replyreport
   1. 40

      omar ismailposted 12 years agoin reply to this

      nice. i have too thoughts , lets share us to develope this thoughts

      replyreport
2. 61

   knolyourselfposted 12 years ago

   " I don't know if he would want to share the same wants that I have in mind towards of our future." Ask him then you will know. If you are afraid to ask him, then the whole thing will only end a mess.

   replyreport
3. 61

   tobey100posted 12 years ago

   Two things:
   
   First, you been "having thoughts"
   Second, you don't know.
   
   Speak up then you won't have to worry either way about the thoughts you're having and you'll know where your boyfriend stands.

   replyreport
4. 60

   Darkrose808posted 12 years ago

   I have said something countless of times.

   replyreport
   1. 61

      tobey100posted 12 years agoin reply to this

      Good for you.  Evidently his answers aren't putting you at ease with the relationship.  I would cast him off though.  There are alot of reasons such as insecurity, fear, reluctance to share, etc.  Doesn't make him a bad guy or the wrong guy.

      replyreport
5. 60

   neeta chauhanposted 12 years ago

   If you ask me do not waste your time with this person
   the reason being that if he does not share your thoughts towards
   the future of you then why are you giving him extra time and for what?
   Search for the one who has mutual thoughts which can relax you when alone
   rather then getting upset about his not sharing your thoughts how can such
   a man become a good partner in your life who is not with you mentally?
   
   "I love you, not only for what you are, But for what I am when I am with you." ( Roy Croft)

   replyreport
6. 56

   microlifelineposted 12 years ago

   Talk to people you have never talked to before, and actually listen. Hold your head up because you have every right to. Tell yourself you are a great individual and believe in yourself, for if you don't believe in yourself, no one else will believe in you either.

   replyreport