Who believes there is a sole mate out there for them?

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  1. kmackey32 profile image66
    kmackey32posted 9 years ago

    I always hear that someone has met there sole mate! Well where is mine?

    1. kmackey32 profile image66
      kmackey32posted 9 years agoin reply to this

      oops i mean soulmate. lol

      1. earnestshub profile image88
        earnestshubposted 9 years agoin reply to this

        Yesterdays soulmate, todays sole mate... after the boot!

      2. profile image43
        shawn michalesposted 9 years agoin reply to this
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          shawn michalesposted 9 years agoin reply to this

          i think your soul mate is somewhere around or it is me only

      3. k@ri profile image90
        k@riposted 9 years agoin reply to this

        I believe in soulmates, but I also believe we may have more than one, we need to know our worth, and we must want to connect.  I feel it is more of finding someone who shares your values and working hard...very hard to enrich and enhance each other's lives. 

        Even if you find him, it still takes time and work.  Nothing worth having is easy in this life, or at least that is how it seems.  I find Pete's answer holds the most truth for me.

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        dennisemattposted 9 years agoin reply to this

        lol  I think there are tons of people right for you (or, someone in general) it is all about the timing...

      5. onthewriteside profile image60
        onthewritesideposted 9 years agoin reply to this

        LOL!  You women...always losing shoes!  lol

    2. Davinagirl3 profile image59
      Davinagirl3posted 9 years agoin reply to this

      There are a lot of souls out there.  I am sorry for your pain.  I know the pain of your frustration.  Personally, I do not believe in one soulmate. You just needs to find a man who deserves you, and you need to accept the love you deserve.  I loved men, who didn't love me back, for years.  I found my husband when I decided to step outside my norm and date a NICE guy.  I haven't looked back since.  You will find love.  First, you must find your worth.

    3. Lady_E profile image65
      Lady_Eposted 9 years agoin reply to this

      Kmackey, I thought you are married.

      1. kmackey32 profile image66
        kmackey32posted 9 years agoin reply to this

        Yes I am married. I will divorce him for my soulmate!

        1. profile image63
          logic,commonsenseposted 9 years agoin reply to this

          What are you missing? What is your idea of your soulmate?

  2. Benjimester profile image93
    Benjimesterposted 9 years ago

    Yep, I'm a believer.

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    fierycjposted 9 years ago

    Of course I do. But Brad Pitt already married her!

  4. Mac Mission profile image59
    Mac Missionposted 9 years ago

    I too believe ............ do you have

  5. James S. Thornton profile image56
    James S. Thorntonposted 9 years ago

    Just one globally?

    What are the odds of finding that person?

    By believing in the soulmate concept, you are setting yourself up for disappointment.

  6. Pete Maida profile image60
    Pete Maidaposted 9 years ago

    I don't believe that there is one person for everyone.  I do believe that soul mates are developed and that a deep understanding of a mate comes from wanting to understand.  If people click from day one it comes from a great desire to click. I think the same two people could meet on a different day under different circumstances and have no spark at all.

  7. kmackey32 profile image66
    kmackey32posted 9 years ago

    lol

  8. Lady_E profile image65
    Lady_Eposted 9 years ago

    I used to but I've given up now. Think he might be on another planet  smile

  9. jenblacksheep profile image83
    jenblacksheepposted 9 years ago

    I don't believe in soulmates the way you seem to. I don't think you only have one soulmate (although you can only hav one at one time) and I don't think you soulmate is the person you're destined to spend the rest of your life with. A soulmate could be a sibling, a friend or a partner, it's not a romantic thing. I love my boyfriend more than anything, but he is NOT a soulmate.

  10. Will Apse profile image90
    Will Apseposted 9 years ago

    Shakespeare said

    We are such stuff as dreams are made on; and our little life is rounded with a sleep

    Soulmates dream together but about different things.

  11. LondonGirl profile image83
    LondonGirlposted 9 years ago

    I don't believe in soul mates. Fortunately. Seems a miserable doctrine to me.

  12. waynet profile image72
    waynetposted 9 years ago

    Yes I am always friendly with fish and quite often get scraped off the end of someones shoe...quite soleless actually!!

  13. LondonGirl profile image83
    LondonGirlposted 9 years ago

    This is neither the time nor the plaice for that kind of joke.

  14. waynet profile image72
    waynetposted 9 years ago

    Right that's it!!....I'm off to sleep in my haddock!!

    1. LondonGirl profile image83
      LondonGirlposted 9 years agoin reply to this

      Floundering off like that, I don't know........

  15. Beth100 profile image72
    Beth100posted 9 years ago

    We are all connected somehow, some way.  A soulmate is not necessarily the person who you fall in love with and spend the rest of your entire life with.  For me, a soulmate is someone who has the same philosophical outlook and has the same spirit. I have several soul mates and we are bonded closely.  (I also have a few sole mates too... big_smile)

  16. LRobbins profile image56
    LRobbinsposted 9 years ago

    Hang in there, as cliche as it sounds, he'll show up when you least expect it.  I met mine on a scuba diving trip and we've been doing over 8000 km of long distance for the last year.

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    Nelle Hoxieposted 9 years ago

    I married the Love of My Love. But would I call him my soul mate? Probably not.

 
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