Who believes there is a sole mate out there for them?

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   kmackey32posted 16 years ago

   I always hear that someone has met there sole mate! Well where is mine?

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      kmackey32posted 16 years agoin reply to this

      oops i mean soulmate. lol

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         earnestshubposted 16 years agoin reply to this

         Yesterdays soulmate, todays sole mate... after the boot!

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         shawn michalesposted 16 years agoin reply to this

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            shawn michalesposted 16 years agoin reply to this

            i think your soul mate is somewhere around or it is me only

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         k@riposted 16 years agoin reply to this

         I believe in soulmates, but I also believe we may have more than one, we need to know our worth, and we must want to connect.  I feel it is more of finding someone who shares your values and working hard...very hard to enrich and enhance each other's lives. 
         
         Even if you find him, it still takes time and work.  Nothing worth having is easy in this life, or at least that is how it seems.  I find Pete's answer holds the most truth for me.

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         dennisemattposted 16 years agoin reply to this

           I think there are tons of people right for you (or, someone in general) it is all about the timing...

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         onthewritesideposted 16 years agoin reply to this

         LOL!  You women...always losing shoes! 

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      Davinagirl3posted 16 years agoin reply to this

      There are a lot of souls out there.  I am sorry for your pain.  I know the pain of your frustration.  Personally, I do not believe in one soulmate. You just needs to find a man who deserves you, and you need to accept the love you deserve.  I loved men, who didn't love me back, for years.  I found my husband when I decided to step outside my norm and date a NICE guy.  I haven't looked back since.  You will find love.  First, you must find your worth.

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      Lady_Eposted 16 years agoin reply to this

      Kmackey, I thought you are married.

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         kmackey32posted 16 years agoin reply to this

         Yes I am married. I will divorce him for my soulmate!

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            logic,commonsenseposted 16 years agoin reply to this

            What are you missing? What is your idea of your soulmate?

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   Benjimesterposted 16 years ago

   Yep, I'm a believer.

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   fierycjposted 16 years ago

   Of course I do. But Brad Pitt already married her!

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   Mac Missionposted 16 years ago

   I too believe ............ do you have

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   James S. Thorntonposted 16 years ago

   Just one globally?
   
   What are the odds of finding that person?
   
   By believing in the soulmate concept, you are setting yourself up for disappointment.

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   Pete Maidaposted 16 years ago

   I don't believe that there is one person for everyone.  I do believe that soul mates are developed and that a deep understanding of a mate comes from wanting to understand.  If people click from day one it comes from a great desire to click. I think the same two people could meet on a different day under different circumstances and have no spark at all.

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   kmackey32posted 16 years ago

   

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   Lady_Eposted 16 years ago

   I used to but I've given up now. Think he might be on another planet 

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   jenblacksheepposted 16 years ago

   I don't believe in soulmates the way you seem to. I don't think you only have one soulmate (although you can only hav one at one time) and I don't think you soulmate is the person you're destined to spend the rest of your life with. A soulmate could be a sibling, a friend or a partner, it's not a romantic thing. I love my boyfriend more than anything, but he is NOT a soulmate.

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    Will Apseposted 16 years ago

    Shakespeare said
    
    We are such stuff as dreams are made on; and our little life is rounded with a sleep
    
    Soulmates dream together but about different things.

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    LondonGirlposted 16 years ago

    I don't believe in soul mates. Fortunately. Seems a miserable doctrine to me.

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    waynetposted 16 years ago

    Yes I am always friendly with fish and quite often get scraped off the end of someones shoe...quite soleless actually!!

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    LondonGirlposted 16 years ago

    This is neither the time nor the plaice for that kind of joke.

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    waynetposted 16 years ago

    Right that's it!!....I'm off to sleep in my haddock!!

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       LondonGirlposted 16 years agoin reply to this

       Floundering off like that, I don't know........

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    Beth100posted 16 years ago

    We are all connected somehow, some way.  A soulmate is not necessarily the person who you fall in love with and spend the rest of your entire life with.  For me, a soulmate is someone who has the same philosophical outlook and has the same spirit. I have several soul mates and we are bonded closely.  (I also have a few sole mates too... )

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    LRobbinsposted 16 years ago

    Hang in there, as cliche as it sounds, he'll show up when you least expect it.  I met mine on a scuba diving trip and we've been doing over 8000 km of long distance for the last year.

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    Nelle Hoxieposted 16 years ago

    I married the Love of My Love. But would I call him my soul mate? Probably not.

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