What do you find important in a Soul Mate?

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  1. sassychic profile image60
    sassychicposted 15 years ago

    What do you guys find important in a soul Mate?

    1. Kelsey Tallis profile image61
      Kelsey Tallisposted 15 years agoin reply to this

      Proximity would be helpful.

    2. Pearldiver profile image68
      Pearldiverposted 15 years agoin reply to this

      Good Question!  The most important thing to find is the 'Soul.'
      Before you disconnect me from this site... Think About That.
      Personally, I have not 'found' that many people seem to have one. (I don't mean from a religious sense)  I believe that a 'Soul Mate' is someone that you connect with on all levels.  You Just KNOW.  It is an intuitive experience.  No words are required.. you Know Eachother so well and don't create expectations or ever find fault in eachover.  Ronan Keating sums it up in the lyrics to his song: You Say It Best...
      Perhaps your Soul Mate is the that you consider to be Your 'Guardian Angel.'
      If so; What lesson would you learn?

  2. LondonGirl profile image81
    LondonGirlposted 15 years ago

    I don't believe in the idea in the first place

    1. profile image0
      Leta Sposted 15 years agoin reply to this

      Agreed.  There are all kinds of connections between people.  Never 'one right' person out there for you...only very good ones.

  3. Eaglekiwi profile image72
    Eaglekiwiposted 15 years ago

    Spiritually connected

    Kind words

    Unselfish acts

  4. Profmaggy profile image61
    Profmaggyposted 15 years ago

    Great question.
    We are all soul mates.  Singling out one person because of a type of love (we know there are many types of love) doesn't make sense.
    I value honesty, loyalty, truthfulness and a sense of fun in whoever I spend time with.

    1. Gordon Hamilton profile image94
      Gordon Hamiltonposted 15 years agoin reply to this

      I agree entirely with this theory but after the way my beloved ex betrayed me in all of those respects, a mere five months on from my horrific discovery, I still have a very bitter taste in my mouth following her "betrayals." I am now sticking to dogs! Far more loyal than women (in my experience!) smile

  5. Dame Scribe profile image56
    Dame Scribeposted 15 years ago

    Is there a application we should fill out? think I need lots of paper tongue lol lol

    1. sassychic profile image60
      sassychicposted 15 years agoin reply to this

      Nice! I like that!

  6. profile image49
    badcompany99posted 15 years ago

    A good mirror because in life the person looking back is the only person who won't let you down. A soulmate is a nice thought but only in fantasy !

    1. Gordon Hamilton profile image94
      Gordon Hamiltonposted 15 years agoin reply to this

      Perhaps somewhat surprisingly, BadCompany - I agree with you!

      Which of us is most shocked! smile

      1. profile image49
        badcompany99posted 15 years agoin reply to this

        Not me as I was messin with you in the religious section but like you I am recently seperated 7 months and have learnt that in life even the most trusted people let you down. Yer ok and a good guy GH, I just like to pisstake, enjoy yer day !

  7. hnyaji profile image60
    hnyajiposted 15 years ago

    similar thinkings

  8. OddMonkeyPants profile image59
    OddMonkeyPantsposted 15 years ago

    someone you enjoy being with and have fun. Loving them even when you can be so upset with them.

    1. sassychic profile image60
      sassychicposted 15 years agoin reply to this

      nice! btw, welcome to hub pages! enjoy!

  9. lbtrader profile image60
    lbtraderposted 15 years ago

    what do i find important in a soul mate?

    The part of your soul they left you with when they trashed you for a better religion.....!!!!!

  10. Murilion profile image60
    Murilionposted 15 years ago

    soulmate is someone we need the most ,we need them cause they need us more then she does,perhaps but I think

  11. cindyvine profile image68
    cindyvineposted 15 years ago

    I think that anybody you get a certain kind of connection with will be a soul mate.

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      CabinGirlposted 15 years agoin reply to this

      I want a soulmate. it gets so lonely at sea and I am bored painting my nails !

  12. profile image0
    nazishnasimposted 15 years ago

    Two souls  ... split in heaven ... if they find each other on earth ... they are soul mates ... I'd say its all a piece of CRAP!

  13. cindyvine profile image68
    cindyvineposted 15 years ago

    Yeah is your soulmate just someone you got used to who's become a bad habit

  14. Colebabie profile image61
    Colebabieposted 15 years ago

    I don't believe in soulmates. I think that some people are better suited to be together. However I don't think there is one person out there that you are meant to be with. A lot of factors come into play before you spend the rest of your life with someone.  If I was asked what qualities I look for in a significant other, I could answer that. smile

    1. sassychic profile image60
      sassychicposted 15 years agoin reply to this

      I like your answer!

  15. Davinagirl3 profile image60
    Davinagirl3posted 14 years ago

    I believe I have found my soulmate, but not because it was pre-destined.  I found a man with the ability to give love and to receive it.  We are a good match.  Everyday we are together, we are learning and becoming more understanding to one another.  Our souls are committing to each other more and more each moment.  A person can have more than one soul mate in their lifetime.  Love is a fluid thing.

  16. Lady_E profile image76
    Lady_Eposted 14 years ago

    You naturally click with the person on all levels.  smile

  17. cindyvine profile image68
    cindyvineposted 14 years ago

    Generous nature and a fat wallet

  18. kmackey32 profile image62
    kmackey32posted 14 years ago

    Im not a girl who cares about money in a man at all. Truthfulness and the ability to tell me anything is all I care about!!! My husband cant get that through his head. He likes to lie alot.

  19. puppascott profile image69
    puppascottposted 14 years ago

    The ability to love herself first. Anyone who cannot be happy in their own skin will never be happy with someone else.

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      Madame Xposted 14 years agoin reply to this

      Oh, how wonderfully put! One's primary relationship should be with oneself. I would add that to put the best interests of your mate before your own is at the top of the list.

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        sbeakrposted 14 years agoin reply to this

        i can't agree with this because 'happy' is highly relative to an individual, and is often used judgmentally by others to presume something potentially inaccurate about that individual's need and readiness to be in a loving relationship.

        life and love are about growth and change, not achieving a state of perpetual centripetal bliss.

        1. puppascott profile image69
          puppascottposted 14 years agoin reply to this

          I wasn't talking Zanex happy. I was referring to someone being content. Someone not looking to fill voids within their own souls with the characteristics they may find attractive in others.

        2. profile image0
          Madame Xposted 14 years agoin reply to this

          I think it's that you no longer need anyone else to approve of your feelings about yourself. You know what you need to be happy and if other people don't agree, well, so what. I've noticed that people who have reached this point in their lives make better friends too.

  20. profile image0
    sbeakrposted 14 years ago

    i believe in soul 'mates' to the nth degree...but i don't think there's only one match for each.  that said...


  21. Lisa HW profile image62
    Lisa HWposted 14 years ago

    I don't think the concept of feeling someone is a soulmate is something that involves "thinking x is important".  It's just something that it is.  Whether or not it's nothing more than a matter of x amount of things clicking or not, I don't know; but I do know there are people who have experienced it. 

    I think the reason so many people don't believe in it is that it is rare. Someone once said to me, "If we all waited to find a soulmate we'd all end up single forever and having no children."    smile  On the other hand, a lot of people pretty much call call any-old-body they're happy with a "soulmate" (until the relationship goes sour and they find another "soulmate"  smile  ).

  22. Bard of Ely profile image79
    Bard of Elyposted 14 years ago

    Well, as I have yet to find mine I cannot answer!


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