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What is the Best Thing U Have Done for Spouse To Make Him or Her Happy

  1. Lgali profile image57
    Lgaliposted 8 years ago

    Last I bought A car To my spouse on Birthday

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    ralwusposted 8 years ago

    I put in a salt water pool for her

    1. Lgali profile image57
      Lgaliposted 8 years agoin reply to this

      good one to enjoy summer

  3. karpouzian profile image60
    karpouzianposted 8 years ago

    It is the little things for my wife.  Take out the trash, do the dishes, pluck her eyebrows.  She loves it.  She'd be happy all the time if we could just sit there, hold hands (with her hand on top) and just snuggle for hours a day.

    1. Lgali profile image57
      Lgaliposted 8 years agoin reply to this

      wow very different

  4. Ultimate Hubber profile image71
    Ultimate Hubberposted 8 years ago

    I'll tell you when I do one big_smile

  5. Ron Montgomery profile image60
    Ron Montgomeryposted 8 years ago

    I put the seat down after.  This is the extent of what I am willing to sacrifice.

    1. waynet profile image76
      waynetposted 8 years agoin reply to this

      Ha...that is a classic...I've done a lot for my mrs, but this is what I forget!!!

    2. Lgali profile image57
      Lgaliposted 8 years agoin reply to this

      wow LOL

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      dennisemattposted 8 years agoin reply to this

      PLUS that means you have to put the seat UP every single time you have to pee!!!!GASP!!! I know no other man willing to do this. No joke, I really dont. For me, my "sacrifice" I leave the seat up for him. Im really not kidding. I check before I sit, so I dont fall in, and I put the seat back up. Its actaully not that hard.  wink

      1. Lgali profile image57
        Lgaliposted 8 years agoin reply to this

        good one

  6. waynet profile image76
    waynetposted 8 years ago

    I took over everything...looking after the kids, shopping, cooking, cleaning...all round house husband nomination by myself after she had a breakdown....and she's getting better!

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    sandra rinckposted 8 years ago

    Support him and whatever bone headed idea he has. big_smile

    1. psychicdog.net profile image80
      psychicdog.netposted 8 years agoin reply to this

      that's great! but they don't always have to be bone headed do they ?... may actually turn out to be good ideas... half the time?!

      1. Lgali profile image57
        Lgaliposted 8 years agoin reply to this

        very nice

  8. Davinagirl3 profile image61
    Davinagirl3posted 8 years ago

    I had his baby.

    1. Lgali profile image57
      Lgaliposted 8 years agoin reply to this

      very nice best thing in the world

  9. HealthCare Basics profile image62
    HealthCare Basicsposted 8 years ago

    The little things one does not think about: picking up laundry, emptying the dishwasher, iron shirts for the week, having a cocktail ready coming though the door after work, and always meeting with a smile. Seven years together and not one argument yet....

    1. Ron Montgomery profile image60
      Ron Montgomeryposted 8 years agoin reply to this

      That's nice that your wife does all of these things for you.  What do you do for her?

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      sandra rinckposted 8 years agoin reply to this

      That's because your gay.  You guys always get the best ones. big_smile

      I tell ya, and they are usually the best looking too!

      1. Ron Montgomery profile image60
        Ron Montgomeryposted 8 years agoin reply to this

        He is?  Wow!  That makes my joke somewhat less hilarious.

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          sandra rinckposted 8 years agoin reply to this

          I believe so, if not then I just made a total ass of myself and would be owin' him a very sincere apology. 

          Still, the gays ones are always the best ones and I have not access to them. sad

  10. fierycj profile image76
    fierycjposted 8 years ago

    Besides marrying her?

    1. AsherKade profile image58
      AsherKadeposted 8 years agoin reply to this

      you're married? lol

      1. beautyrose profile image59
        beautyroseposted 8 years agoin reply to this

        lols still single. any recommendation? haha

  11. Greek One profile image74
    Greek Oneposted 8 years ago

    One time I !@##%@ when she was !@#%%@@%.  The feeling was @#%@@ and right after, just at the exact right time, I %@%@@^$@.

    It shocked the other parishioners, but it was still fun!

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    Healeyposted 8 years ago

    I got my husband a clown, J.P. Patches for his 45th birthday party. 

    If you're from Seattle, you'll really get this one:  My husband grew up watching J.P. Patches.  J.P. Patches had a local, children's morning program, in fact one of the longest running in the country.  He's something of local hero here in the Pacific Northwest.  When I found out he was available for adult as well as children's parties, well, I knew I had to make that happen.

    It was like those Mastercard commercials:

    Birthday cake:  $40
    Clown rental:  $500
    Watching your 45 year old husband AND all his bad-ass, long-hair, rock-star buddies turn into little boys again...Priceless.

    1. Lgali profile image57
      Lgaliposted 8 years agoin reply to this

      best idea to make happy

  13. Pearldiver profile image81
    Pearldiverposted 8 years ago

    Don't read this in a negative context: but mine was signing the divorce papers. hmm

  14. Jane@CM profile image61
    Jane@CMposted 8 years ago

    Just yesterday, on a whim, I said yes to a quick over night get away.  I usually don't say yes, because of the kids.  We went away for 26 hours and we had a great time! smile  He is very happy. smile

    1. Pearldiver profile image81
      Pearldiverposted 8 years agoin reply to this

      I did not admit to that Jane... slow down!! big_smile

      1. Jane@CM profile image61
        Jane@CMposted 8 years agoin reply to this

        LOL big_smile

  15. frogdropping profile image86
    frogdroppingposted 8 years ago

    The best thing I did or do for my partner is love him. He appears to enjoy my love.

    He smiles a lot smile

    1. fierycj profile image76
      fierycjposted 8 years agoin reply to this

      So are you a girl then?

      1. frogdropping profile image86
        frogdroppingposted 8 years agoin reply to this

        Not necessarily wink

        Boys like boys sometimes tongue
























        lol female smile

        1. fierycj profile image76
          fierycjposted 8 years agoin reply to this

          notice the question tag. smile glad you clarified.

    2. Lgali profile image57
      Lgaliposted 8 years agoin reply to this

      very nice love is the biggest gift

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    \Brenda Scullyposted 8 years ago

    He was feeling ill last night so I got up at two in the morning and made him a drink.... how noble was that

    1. Lgali profile image57
      Lgaliposted 8 years agoin reply to this

      very nice

  17. frogdropping profile image86
    frogdroppingposted 8 years ago

    fiery, you're welcome smile

  18. elainevc profile image59
    elainevcposted 8 years ago

    I'm more of a romantic-thoughtful-gift kinda person so I don't usually give big gifts (other than the yearly Christmas vacations).

    The last gift I gave to my partner was a bunch of CDs. But not as simple as it sounds.. I selected 70 different love songs (all chosen carefully, reading each song lyric and making sure they all have something special to do with our relationship) and organised a sort of treasure hunt in the house. I personally designed 7 different CD covers and gave them 7 different names which all had to do with our relationship too. And I also designed 7 different cards (I called them hint cards), the size of a business card which contained the hints to find the next clue and gift. It was fun to watch my partner look around the house for the CDs smile Nothing too glamorous I know, but it too a LOT of thought and a lot of time to put it all together. It's what I'm all about.. I love romance and keeping things fun tongue

    1. Lgali profile image57
      Lgaliposted 8 years agoin reply to this

      very good idea for future

  19. Dottie1 profile image75
    Dottie1posted 8 years ago

    Supported his father in time of need so hubby didn't miss too much work smile

    1. Lgali profile image57
      Lgaliposted 8 years agoin reply to this

      very nice one

    2. Lgali profile image57
      Lgaliposted 8 years agoin reply to this

      best one

      1. jcales profile image63
        jcalesposted 8 years agoin reply to this

        Bought her a car, & then fixed the same car that was in an accident.
        alright I'll fess up it was a person who hit & run from behind

        1. Lgali profile image57
          Lgaliposted 8 years agoin reply to this

          very nice

  20. Earthscribe profile image76
    Earthscribeposted 8 years ago

    When I was with her--

    Never saying no to giving a massage

    never leaving her 'hanging'

    writing her songs and poetry

    treating her as a living embodiment of the shakti that she was, with honour and respect (as best I could, considering I was a young and ignorant boy at the time)

    ...easy come, easy go lol

    1. Lgali profile image57
      Lgaliposted 8 years agoin reply to this

      so many nice things

  21. goodfriendiam profile image57
    goodfriendiamposted 8 years ago

    I left him. asked for a divorce now we are both happy

    1. beautyrose profile image59
      beautyroseposted 8 years agoin reply to this

      I'm sorry to hear that. Looks like I'm scared to get married if knowing in years to come I'll only be divorce. Sounds like not true love though.

      1. Lgali profile image57
        Lgaliposted 8 years agoin reply to this

        I'm sorry to hear that

      2. Lgali profile image57
        Lgaliposted 8 years agoin reply to this

        to find true love is hardest thing in life

        1. goodfriendiam profile image57
          goodfriendiamposted 8 years agoin reply to this

          I use to think so, but I learned something about true love, when we look for it, and strive to make it come true, we never find it or we miss it because we are so busy looking for it in all the wrong places, but when we stop and decide to trust, that it will come in time, then BAM its there....hope you will find if you haven't already...smile

          1. Lgali profile image57
            Lgaliposted 8 years agoin reply to this

            very nicely said

  22. AsherKade profile image58
    AsherKadeposted 8 years ago

    find the outer appearance still sexy and still want sex...

    1. Ron Montgomery profile image60
      Ron Montgomeryposted 8 years agoin reply to this

      You are truly selfless yikes

      1. AsherKade profile image58
        AsherKadeposted 8 years agoin reply to this

        yep,sure am.... many are cute in my profession....but my spouse is the only one for me...

        1. beautyrose profile image59
          beautyroseposted 8 years agoin reply to this

          sounds like your a committed lover. Great.

          1. AsherKade profile image58
            AsherKadeposted 8 years agoin reply to this

            better than divorce.. no one's fault they aren't gorgeous....
            I have stellar kids with my spouse....

  23. Tom Cornett profile image79
    Tom Cornettposted 8 years ago

    Got to know her.

    1. Lgali profile image57
      Lgaliposted 8 years agoin reply to this

      good

  24. dumbeth profile image68
    dumbethposted 8 years ago

    i bought him a very expensive shoe

    1. Lgali profile image57
      Lgaliposted 8 years agoin reply to this

      very good

  25. Davinagirl3 profile image61
    Davinagirl3posted 8 years ago

    I did it this morning! lol

    1. Lgali profile image57
      Lgaliposted 8 years agoin reply to this

      good one

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    ralwusposted 8 years ago

    Hi Lgali. A few years ago I got some diamond ear rings for my wife for Christmas. I wanted to really shock her and drilled shallow holes into two pieces of coal and put the studs in and put them wrapped them in a little box real nice. I had told her all she was going to get was a lump of coal. Well you can imagine what she said to that. Christmas day when she opened that little box and saw the coal she threw them at me! All is well now. LOL

    1. Lgali profile image57
      Lgaliposted 8 years agoin reply to this

      wow very nice story

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      dennisemattposted 8 years agoin reply to this

      really? HAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHHA!!!!!

  27. Michelle18 profile image54
    Michelle18posted 8 years ago

    I don't complain about all the hours he is away from our family trying to grow his business...well, at least most of the time I don't complain:)

    1. Lgali profile image57
      Lgaliposted 8 years agoin reply to this

      that best thing to know. complains make things bed in relation

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    dennisemattposted 8 years ago

    I make him Pecan Pie for his birthday. I wake up early every morning to make him breakfast before he goes to work and pack him a lunch. Its not much, but I do it cuz I love him, and it makes him happy. Sometimes I put a little "love note" in his lucnh when hes not looking.  smile

    1. Lgali profile image57
      Lgaliposted 8 years agoin reply to this

      this is good idea love note" in his lucnh

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        dennisemattposted 8 years agoin reply to this

        ha ha. you can put that in the words typed wrong thread.  smile

    2. Lgali profile image57
      Lgaliposted 8 years agoin reply to this

      very nice of you

  29. indian cooking profile image68
    indian cookingposted 8 years ago

    Planned a Surprise Birthday for my husband.

  30. marshallengines profile image56
    marshallenginesposted 8 years ago

    Everything I do for him just to make him happy.......
         support him.......
         love him....
         always there for him...

    1. Lgali profile image57
      Lgaliposted 8 years agoin reply to this

      good one

    2. Lgali profile image57
      Lgaliposted 8 years agoin reply to this

      very nice

  31. tridentroofing profile image53
    tridentroofingposted 8 years ago

    To love him till death do us part.......

    1. Lgali profile image57
      Lgaliposted 8 years agoin reply to this

      so love is the best nothing material stuff

  32. Premiertimesol profile image53
    Premiertimesolposted 8 years ago

    To love him everyday of his life........

    1. Lgali profile image57
      Lgaliposted 8 years agoin reply to this

      very nice

  33. Greek One profile image74
    Greek Oneposted 8 years ago

    agreed to an uncontested divorce smile

    1. Lgali profile image57
      Lgaliposted 8 years agoin reply to this

      different one

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    L. Andrew Marrposted 8 years ago

    Divorce

    1. Lgali profile image57
      Lgaliposted 8 years agoin reply to this

      OK

    2. Lgali profile image57
      Lgaliposted 8 years agoin reply to this

      nice

    3. blondepoet profile image76
      blondepoetposted 8 years agoin reply to this

      Divorce Andrew?? When were you married LMAO?

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    L. Andrew Marrposted 8 years ago

    tongue

  36. blondepoet profile image76
    blondepoetposted 8 years ago

    Found his choppers floating in the pool LMAO

    http://blogs.abc.net.au/queensland/images/2009/02/18/false_teeth.jpg

    1. Lgali profile image57
      Lgaliposted 8 years agoin reply to this

      very funny

  37. Zsuzsy Bee profile image90
    Zsuzsy Beeposted 8 years ago

    Told him to bugger off in 1980...woops that was a nice thing I did for myself...

    1. Lgali profile image57
      Lgaliposted 8 years agoin reply to this

      good to know this

  38. Kmadhav profile image56
    Kmadhavposted 8 years ago

    Till date is I am SINGLE. And I am very happy.

    smile
    smile
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    smile
    smile

    1. Lgali profile image57
      Lgaliposted 8 years agoin reply to this

      that is good if you like that way

  39. Misha profile image77
    Mishaposted 8 years ago

    Good morning Deb smile

    1. blondepoet profile image76
      blondepoetposted 8 years agoin reply to this

      Bout blooming time ROFL. Morning darling. (hugs)

      1. Lgali profile image57
        Lgaliposted 8 years agoin reply to this

        good

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    Crazdwriterposted 8 years ago

    the best thing I do for my husband is take care of him when he isn't feeling good. I have bout hiim some things he has wanted like games, a scroll saw, sander, table saw to help get him back into wood working. I leave little notes in his pockets or get him Just because I love you cards.

    1. Lgali profile image57
      Lgaliposted 8 years agoin reply to this

      wow lot of nice ideas

  41. mommyfreelancer profile image82
    mommyfreelancerposted 8 years ago

    Bought DSLR and macro lens, as well as other camera gadgets...now I'm getting much of the benefits, as I use his pictures in my hubs smile

    1. Lgali profile image57
      Lgaliposted 8 years agoin reply to this

      both way benefit that is good

 
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