31. It was thirty when I hit thirty years old, so I figured I'd take a break. I've had one 'one night stand' in the last ten years - been focusing on raising my son instead of mating. Loved every single one of them (the ladies) intensely and with all of my heart except for four (matters of convenience and hormones). Congrats with staying with the same one: that works for some
Agreed! It might seem harmless and fun to endulge in the numbers but to conjure memories of when we have desecrated the sacred powers which we have been given is often best left unsaid. Especially when these powers were employed outside the bonds of marriage.
OK, hope no one thinks less of me but it's probably in the triple digits. It's definitely not less than that and I don't think it's more. To clarify, most of this happened between the ages of 19 and 21 and I wasn't very picky and wasn't gender specific and wasn't always doing the traditional one-on-one sort of thing. To further clarify, the memories are very vague and there was alot of frustration and substance abuse going on. Yes, I've been tested. And in the 15yrs since then, probably only adds up to about fifty or so.
When the nipple makes its first appearance? I disagree. One can be naked and not engaging in sex. The definition of sex varies for everyone. I assume the OP meant intercourse. But of course I could be wrong.
Fair enough, personally I cant see an issue with it, why is it any worse than threads about abortion, drug addiction, war? Sexual intercourse is an amazing thing, people have different attitudes to it.... yours clearly different to mine...
I am dissapointed with this comment coming from you, somebody with a hub full of Michael Jackson jokes and jokes about how much you would love to be a condom tester! So much so that I will swiftly remove myself from your fan club, shame as it was one of the very first that I joined, I left you fan mail once telling you to keep writing after your workmates bullied you.... now I realise that they bully you because your a whiney hypocritical old git....
Better than what? I don't understand the question. If you meant being a whore, then sure, I don't think anyone would aspire to be a whore. But the word "whore" is subjective anyways. I'm sure you and I would have different definitions. But if you meant aspire to have sex. Then I disagree with you, I think sex is a healthy part of a relationship, and I'm sure most people aspire to have sex at one point or another in their life.
But you don't make your point if no one can understand it. Its like your own little satisfaction that you say something, but no one gets it because it doesn't make any sense. And no I don't remember your Ipod.
Yes. I remember you telling me that. Do you remember me telling you that you shouldn't listen to what others say and pay attention to their judgement of you? That if music makes you happy that you should listen to it regardless of what others feel is "appropriate"? I do not aspire to be common. And I don't understand how having sex, talking about sex, or having self respect, makes me "common". And if your only argument is religion, I don't want to hear it. That is just more judgement. It is quite hypocritical for you to tell me to "be special" and "be a leader" and "help others" and "make a difference" and say that I am "very important and original" when you pass judgement on others, care too much about what others think, and don't live for yourself and who you want to be but based on what other people want you to be.
Listen to music. Live your life the way you want. Be happy. And f&%$ everyone else.
It's you who are being disrespectful, ever considered that?
No, of course not!
Your actions by being here passing out judgement, as you have, by claiming we are not respecting ourselves, because we choose to talk about something you find offensive.
Please- your attempt to get righteous, just got negated through your ignorant actions of being here. Therefore, it leaves one to conclude that YOU do not respect yourself, so you disrespect others. It's as obvious and clear as day now.
Respect yourself, find some HIGHER moral ground, because right now...you're not looking too good in front of everyone who you associate with.
sneakorocksolidposted 10 years agoin reply to this
I haven't judged anyone it's your conscious thats bothering you. You don't belong on religious threads spreading hate but you still go there, why? If I can make a difference in one life then it's worth climbing in the gutter to speak for virtue.
You see, there you go again, making judgement. You calling what I do 'hate' is ridiculous.
My conscious isn't bothering me. I've made my peace with life and know I need to know about LIFE in general. All I have to learn now is knowledge and have the faith in myself to grasp the understanding of the knowledge I learn.
What are you doing? Like I said- try and find a higher moral ground, the gutter you're standing in is filled your emotions and forced you to react- so much for listen to your religion.
haha I used to put myself to sleep at night counting them - instead of sheep but never got to the end of em, so I have completely lost track! Anyway I wouldn't tell you if I knew! What kinda question is that? But. made me laugh so
Gotcha. I'll answer pretty much anything. Except anything that'll possibly bring about a stalker (Ex. full name, address, workplace etc.) I'm doing well today. Had a genetics test that I think went well. Going to dinner with a friend and her new baby tonight.
Well, I hope you do get good results from your test. Plus, I hope you also enjoy your dinner with your friend her new baby. New babies have a tendency to be cute or even funny looking, but mostly adorable. It's weird how that works. And, I'm glad to hear you're also doing well.
Down boy down.....Hmmmm....I dont think I said anything about religion so lets leave it at that. I like to get on here from time to time to chat a little bit about what matters to me as for not writing a hub, I have children that keep me very busy, just because I havent written a hub does not mean I have nothing to say. Also I did not say you could NOT talk about it I simply said that it is SAD this is what you are talking about. Do not put words in my mouth and act like you know me. Okay. Have a super tremendous time talking about how many people you have slept with. Anyways Im sure I will see you again seeing as how you like to make a presence in the religous forums when it doesnt pertain to you as well. Oooops I said religion......I am so sorry.
I went back and read some of the posts on here. Totally sad that people think that this thread is in bad taste. Sleeping and having sex is a part of life. So what if ppl want to talk about it? You don't like it go somewhere else and stop commenting. Pure and simple!
sneakorocksolidposted 10 years agoin reply to this
Voicing disapproval of a position is what this exchange is all about. Otherwise, we wouldn't see atheists and liberals on a religious thread. Maybe if you took the same position on their assaults and insults it would be just that, pure and simple.
and the debate heats hub up, welldone guys, i can see and understand your arguments ijust believe that if one isn't comfortable with a particular thread or topic, they should just ignore or better still, paste in a very polite comment on thhe issue. You guys are wonderful.
Umm last time I checked sneak this was in the Hubber's Hangout. Has nothing to do with liberals or athiests or religion. Just a simple question that you can answer or not answer instead of trying to pick figths with everyone.
It's really funny that something so beautiful, enjoyable, and natural that brings people together in a way that nothing else does has so many negative connotations for some...ah well...I'll enjoy it while I can.
I have a question. What about people you have just had oral sex with? is it like baseball? If I get to first base with a girl four times is that one homerun? If i get to third base with a girl and decide not to see her again and then only kiss another girl can i add those together for one homerun? What if she wanted to to do her but I chose not to 'cause i am such a nice guy? What if I just go down on a girl? Does penetration count even if I didn't finish inside her? What are the rules?
I still need answers: I have a question. What about people you have just had oral sex with? is it like baseball? If I get to first base with a girl four times is that one homerun? If i get to third base with a girl and decide not to see her again and then only kiss another girl can i add those together for one homerun? What if she wanted to to do her but I chose not to 'cause i am such a nice guy? What if I just go down on a girl? Does penetration count even if I didn't finish inside her? What are the rules? here is another question: What about sex with someone of your own gender? Does that count? If so does oral by itself count or does it have to be intercourse?
Well, when I was doing Jager Bombs with my boss' cute, teenage daughter on her 17th birthday I learned that they don't consider ALL sexual activity as actual sex. So I think the original poster should clarify. Well, that and I was drinking with my boss when I wrote those earlier responses in the first place. I love you, too, Kim. just wish everyone loved me then I might stop getting flagged and not be "off the board"! Yes, well, as long as you and Mighty Mom love me I can survive!
What Amazing Beliefs and Judgements have come out of this thread Ryan. Clearly, some have absolutely no abilty to fully comprehend the balance and purpose in life intimacy provides.
Some Comments here Show a very poor level of personal understanding of How People (and All Other Beings) actually are designed (by God, if you must include in the equation) to follow the instructions within!
We each (I Hope) have a developed brain; which factually is designed to 'Drive' us in every aspect of life including: Eating, Sleeping, Gaining Knowledge, Writing and (heaven forbid!) Having Sex etc.
For the Factual Information of those that struggle to understand (for whatever reason): The Human Sex Drive Is The Strongest and Most Natural Function that our Brain is Programmed to Act Upon. It is a function of survival
The Second Strongest Natural Function is Sustainance: Eating, Drinking and (for those who can Multi-Task) the insertion of other things into the mouth! (For the purpose of one or more 'natural' drives!).
By Choice, Undevelopment (or by a lower drive; for whatever reason) many replace the 'Natural' Human Drives with other forms of stimulation almost religeously to compensate!
Others (perhaps those the OP is seeking) have a Natural understanding of their bodily and mental functions... And Bonk as much as they are able to!!
Good On You! Clearly you know the Importance of your Creation!!
Let's see, Beth, Debbie, Diane, Pat, Jan, Lisa, Fran, Ann, Mary, Laura, Jackie, Laura2, Dawn, Jan2. I'm missing somebody... hmm. Oh, yes. Jan3. I guess that makes 15. Some of the names have been changed to protect the guilty. Yet, how bad is it to sleep with a cartoon? I would think it doesn't really count.
The definition of sex depends on the individual. It isn't up to the original poster to clarify, its just up to you to have your own definition. It doesn't matter to anyone else (except partners obviously). No clarification necessary.
Having oral sex is illegal in 18 states anyways And having sex with a porcupine is illegal in Florida. In Virginia, it is illegal to have sex with the lights on. It is illegal for husbands in Willowdale, Oregon, to talk dirty during intercourse. Engaging in any sexual position other than missionary is illegal in Washington, DC. In Connorsville, Wisconsin, it is illegal for a man to shoot off a gun when his female partner is having an orgasm.
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