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What would you do if The person your in love

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    blatvaposted 7 years ago

    with is leaving you. Would you want them to tell you each pain staking reason of Why they don't love you?  Or would you want them to just.... Leave.

    Random, Sorry smile  Just been wondering about this...

  2. Mikel G Roberts profile image80
    Mikel G Robertsposted 7 years ago

    If truly I was in Love with them, I'd let them go.

    True Love is about caring about the other person's happiness...if leaving me was what made her happy, then so be it.

    And yes it would suck for me but grown-ups learn how to deal with emotional losses.

    1. Hokey profile image60
      Hokeyposted 7 years agoin reply to this

      That's exactly it. smile

  3. WriteAngled profile image86
    WriteAngledposted 7 years ago

    I'm sorry to hear this and know it hurts.

    Best to cut things off quickly, in my opinion.

    It happened to me long ago. I was devastated for about a year. Much later, I realised it was better that way. But that doesn't help at all at the time, I know.

    Keep in mind you are lovable and love yourself. Time passes, wounds heal and new doors open.

    1. skyfire profile image74
      skyfireposted 7 years agoin reply to this

      I agree with this.

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    sneakorocksolidposted 7 years ago

    I would be destroyed but I would want her happy most of all.

  5. rebekahELLE profile image89
    rebekahELLEposted 7 years ago

    as hard as it is, you would possibly feel worse if he told you , he may not really even know how to articulate his feelings.

    I don't believe love ever really ends, I wrote a poem about where does love go when you let it go if you want to read it. it's in my love poems hub.

  6. donotfear profile image89
    donotfearposted 7 years ago

    I think I would have to demand an answer. Though if the signs were present before he wanted to leave, then I wouldn't be so surprised. I wouldn't wanna hear what a dork I was, or how I repulse him or anything, but heck, at least give me an explanation. It makes sense that if someone wants to get out of a relationship there has to be some pre-existing factors involved than would alert the other partner. If it was sudden, you bet I would demand an answer why.

  7. Cagsil profile image60
    Cagsilposted 7 years ago

    I would tell them to pack their bags and leave immediately. Why prolong the pain?

    No explanation required. If that's what she thinks is going to be better for her, then by all means.

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    lyricsingrayposted 7 years ago

    Let them go hon, heal, then go for a round up like never before. big_smile

  9. AEvans profile image80
    AEvansposted 7 years ago

    Although I know it is not you that you are speaking of and it is just a question looking for a response, I would say......

    " If you Love something set it free, if it comes back it was yours, if it doesn't it never was." I love that quote. smile

  10. Ohma profile image75
    Ohmaposted 7 years ago

    No details required. If he doesn't want to be here I am better off without him.

    1. Cagsil profile image60
      Cagsilposted 7 years agoin reply to this

      Want to come here instead Ohma? lol lol lol

      But, I do agree. Much better off without the hassle. smile

      1. Ohma profile image75
        Ohmaposted 7 years agoin reply to this

        If "Here" does not have snow I am all for it! smile big_smile smile

        1. Cagsil profile image60
          Cagsilposted 7 years agoin reply to this

          Well, most of the snow I did have in my area is gone now. smile

          lol lol lol

          1. Ohma profile image75
            Ohmaposted 7 years agoin reply to this

            We are getting pounded again like we really Need it tongue

            1. Cagsil profile image60
              Cagsilposted 7 years agoin reply to this

              Oh well. lol lol

              Sounds like no fun at all. smile

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    blatvaposted 7 years ago

    O.O  No one has left me lol..  I just heard a song that inspired a story.. And it says "When you go, Will you have the courage to say I don't love you the way I loved you yesterday"

    It interested me. Honestly, I would just want them to be happy.

 
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