First Impressions

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    StormRyderposted 8 years ago

    What is the first thing you notice in the opposite sex?


    I notice a mans eyes and smile first most of the time.

    1. figment profile image79
      figmentposted 8 years agoin reply to this

      his face (eyes and smile)

    2. myownworld profile image76
      myownworldposted 8 years agoin reply to this

      'overall' impression he gives, rather than individual characteristics...

    3. skyfire profile image74
      skyfireposted 8 years agoin reply to this

      Honest answer ?

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        StormRyderposted 8 years agoin reply to this

        Unless he is facing away from me...then I might notice his butt first tongue

        1. skyfire profile image74
          skyfireposted 8 years agoin reply to this

          There you go... big_smile

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      cosetteposted 8 years agoin reply to this



      hmm

      well, i notice a man's eyes right away, and how he carries himself, and if he is nicely groomed. i also notice a man's hands. i really like nice hands for some reason. and of course a nice smile!

  2. Red_Dragon profile image54
    Red_Dragonposted 8 years ago

    Hm....for a girl.............The eyes here as well. Especially the one that you look at, and somehow it can pierce you heart with just a look.....

  3. Rafini profile image84
    Rafiniposted 8 years ago

    I always notice hair first...

    is it short or long
    curly or straight
    do they have any?
    black or brown
    red or blond
    clean or dirty
    combed/brushed or messy
    natural or styled

    How a man cares for his hair tells me a lot about him.

  4. tobey100 profile image60
    tobey100posted 8 years ago

    The smile.  The eyes would be second.  I have a terrible smile so I'm always on the look out for a great one.  My boys tell me I always look way too serious and it makes people nervous.

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      Justine76posted 8 years agoin reply to this

      people tell my husband that too...

      Things I notice first, posture, facial expressions, how the person talks to other peopele, body language I guess..plus eyes, chest and hands for what I notice first physically in a man..

  5. tantrum profile image60
    tantrumposted 8 years ago

    Eyes & hands.
    for me, it tells everything.

    1. tobey100 profile image60
      tobey100posted 8 years agoin reply to this

      Hands?  I've never thought of hands.

      1. myownworld profile image76
        myownworldposted 8 years agoin reply to this

        time for a manicure then! wink

        1. tobey100 profile image60
          tobey100posted 8 years agoin reply to this

          Are you after me again????  lol Not a bad idea though.  I've never had a manicure.  I've just never thought of hands being a feature to look for.

          1. myownworld profile image76
            myownworldposted 8 years agoin reply to this

            good.. you've passed the test with flying colors! Men and manicures...nah...doesn't quite go! big_smile

            1. tobey100 profile image60
              tobey100posted 8 years agoin reply to this

              That's a relief.  I was afraid you were gonna be one of those that claims a real man wouldn't be afraid to get a manicure.  I like to think I at least look like a real man and the thought of a manicure gives me the willies!

              1. myownworld profile image76
                myownworldposted 8 years agoin reply to this

                big_smile

  6. efeguy profile image44
    efeguyposted 8 years ago

    her beauty,then i think of character

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    probafixposted 8 years ago

    I think her way of talking & with personality...First impression is last impression..

  8. fiksy02 profile image71
    fiksy02posted 8 years ago

    when talking about the Physical. hum i'm crazy about dimple, nice nails, white teeth with a little gap in between, teddy, long eye lash. you know my kids need to look good incase we get to the baby making stage
    about personality his command of words have to be perfect and he must be easy to talk to on that first meeting

  9. Ask Leanne? profile image50
    Ask Leanne?posted 8 years ago

    First Impressions stick with us, the smile, the eyes, the teeth even the way they walk into a room and can catch your eye, but there not always enough, to really get an impressio of someone you need to know them frist, know there likes and dislikes and look for compatability between you.

  10. pooja0908 profile image64
    pooja0908posted 8 years ago

    I notice anyone if he or she interact with me.
    manner of talking
    smile
    frankness
    attitude
    nature

    and if does not interact

    then

    body language
    dressing
    personality

  11. Glenn S. profile image56
    Glenn S.posted 8 years ago

    I think the very first thing I notice is a smile, the second is body language.

  12. myweddingfavors profile image60
    myweddingfavorsposted 8 years ago

    I notice teeth or smile! smile

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    lyricsingrayposted 8 years ago

    mannerisms, body language

  14. Mamelody profile image60
    Mamelodyposted 8 years ago

    the chest.. a broad chest tells me a lot about a guy as well as a flabby one.

  15. blondepoet profile image66
    blondepoetposted 8 years ago

    Always the eyes always, they are what I fall in love with first.

  16. Ron Montgomery profile image60
    Ron Montgomeryposted 8 years ago

    http://www.cartoonstock.com/newscartoons/cartoonists/jko/lowres/jkon493l.jpg

    1. prettydarkhorse profile image65
      prettydarkhorseposted 8 years agoin reply to this

      LOL<  first their stance, they should be taller than me -- confident stance but not arrogant

      then later on humour and intelligence

      1. motricio profile image70
        motricioposted 8 years agoin reply to this

        What if I'm shorter than u?

        1. prettydarkhorse profile image65
          prettydarkhorseposted 8 years agoin reply to this

          I am only 5 flat hehe, all guys are taller than me

          1. motricio profile image70
            motricioposted 8 years agoin reply to this

            No prob then, I'll make u laugh all the time wink

            1. prettydarkhorse profile image65
              prettydarkhorseposted 8 years agoin reply to this

              ok begin now motricio

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    lyricsingrayposted 8 years ago

    cash flow and generosity lol

    1. prettydarkhorse profile image65
      prettydarkhorseposted 8 years agoin reply to this

      hehe, morning lyrics

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        lyricsingrayposted 8 years agoin reply to this

        morning sweetpea big_smile

    2. Mamelody profile image60
      Mamelodyposted 8 years agoin reply to this

      lol lol lol

  18. motricio profile image70
    motricioposted 8 years ago

    We are going on our first date.
    But I warn you, that I'm a compulsive crazy guy that always speaks singing every word.

  19. motricio profile image70
    motricioposted 8 years ago

    ♫♪ Good evening Maitaa♫♪a♫♪a♫♪a !
    ♫♪ Que linda estaa♫♪a la señoritaa♫♪a♫♪a♫♪a!!!

    smile

    1. prettydarkhorse profile image65
      prettydarkhorseposted 8 years agoin reply to this

      Senor motricio, gracias

      pero yo guapo mucho

      hmm, I dont think we are allowed to post foreign lang here, we are also hijacking the thread hehehe..sorry everyone,

      Motricio voy a la comer,

      buenas dias

  20. myownworld profile image76
    myownworldposted 8 years ago

    ok. that was one successful match......! big_smile Let's see how many more to go....

  21. Green Lotus profile image61
    Green Lotusposted 8 years ago

    His or her energy. It's hard to define, but somehow I sense it even before any words are exchanged.

  22. Hokey profile image61
    Hokeyposted 8 years ago

    Body language

    1. Green Lotus profile image61
      Green Lotusposted 8 years agoin reply to this

      Hokey are you following me? big_smile...or is it my energy?

      1. Hokey profile image61
        Hokeyposted 8 years agoin reply to this

        Both!!!!     big_smile

    2. Mamelody profile image60
      Mamelodyposted 8 years agoin reply to this

      with or without chloro-foam?

      1. Hokey profile image61
        Hokeyposted 8 years agoin reply to this

        Definitly with!!   Duh!!!  lol

        1. Mamelody profile image60
          Mamelodyposted 8 years agoin reply to this

          <<<runs to the pharmacy and hijacks all chloro-foam products<<<<

          Vwala! lol lol

  23. Ivorwen profile image70
    Ivorwenposted 8 years ago

    I tend to notice their hair and the set of their mouth.  Then their eyes and whether or not their nose looks like it has been broken.  I also tend to notice how I feel around them -- that intuition thing.

    1. Green Lotus profile image61
      Green Lotusposted 8 years agoin reply to this

      smile big_smile big_smile  big_smile

  24. Flightkeeper profile image71
    Flightkeeperposted 8 years ago

    I notice the general impression he makes, then I make sure to look at his butt.

  25. Beth100 profile image71
    Beth100posted 8 years ago

    Eyes.

  26. PrettyPanther profile image84
    PrettyPantherposted 8 years ago

    The first thing I notice is demeanor; in particular, level of confidence is conveyed by how a man carries himself.  Next, I look for intelligence and "presence" in the eyes, someone who is there in the moment.

 
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