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StormRyderposted 8 years ago
What is the first thing you notice in the opposite sex?

I notice a mans eyes and smile first most of the time.
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  figmentposted 8 years agoin reply to this
  his face (eyes and smile)
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  myownworldposted 8 years agoin reply to this
  'overall' impression he gives, rather than individual characteristics...
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  skyfireposted 8 years agoin reply to this
  Honest answer ?
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  StormRyderposted 8 years agoin reply to this
  Unless he is facing away from me...then I might notice his butt first
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  skyfireposted 8 years agoin reply to this
  There you go...
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  cosetteposted 8 years agoin reply to this
  
  hmm
  
  well, i notice a man's eyes right away, and how he carries himself, and if he is nicely groomed. i also notice a man's hands. i really like nice hands for some reason. and of course a nice smile!
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Red_Dragonposted 8 years ago
Hm....for a girl.............The eyes here as well. Especially the one that you look at, and somehow it can pierce you heart with just a look.....
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Rafiniposted 8 years ago
I always notice hair first...

is it short or long
curly or straight
do they have any?
black or brown
red or blond
clean or dirty
combed/brushed or messy
natural or styled

How a man cares for his hair tells me a lot about him.
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tobey100posted 8 years ago
The smile. The eyes would be second. I have a terrible smile so I'm always on the look out for a great one. My boys tell me I always look way too serious and it makes people nervous.
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  Justine76posted 8 years agoin reply to this
  people tell my husband that too...
  
  Things I notice first, posture, facial expressions, how the person talks to other peopele, body language I guess..plus eyes, chest and hands for what I notice first physically in a man..
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tantrumposted 8 years ago
Eyes & hands.
for me, it tells everything.
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  tobey100posted 8 years agoin reply to this
  Hands? I've never thought of hands.
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  myownworldposted 8 years agoin reply to this
  time for a manicure then!
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  tobey100posted 8 years agoin reply to this
  Are you after me again???? Not a bad idea though. I've never had a manicure. I've just never thought of hands being a feature to look for.
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  myownworldposted 8 years agoin reply to this
  good.. you've passed the test with flying colors! Men and manicures...nah...doesn't quite go!
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  tobey100posted 8 years agoin reply to this
  That's a relief. I was afraid you were gonna be one of those that claims a real man wouldn't be afraid to get a manicure. I like to think I at least look like a real man and the thought of a manicure gives me the willies!
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  myownworldposted 8 years agoin reply to this
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efeguyposted 8 years ago
her beauty,then i think of character
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probafixposted 8 years ago
I think her way of talking & with personality...First impression is last impression..
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fiksy02posted 8 years ago
when talking about the Physical. hum i'm crazy about dimple, nice nails, white teeth with a little gap in between, teddy, long eye lash. you know my kids need to look good incase we get to the baby making stage
about personality his command of words have to be perfect and he must be easy to talk to on that first meeting
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Ask Leanne?posted 8 years ago
First Impressions stick with us, the smile, the eyes, the teeth even the way they walk into a room and can catch your eye, but there not always enough, to really get an impressio of someone you need to know them frist, know there likes and dislikes and look for compatability between you.
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pooja0908posted 8 years ago
I notice anyone if he or she interact with me.
manner of talking
smile
frankness
attitude
nature

and if does not interact

then

body language
dressing
personality
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Glenn S.posted 8 years ago
I think the very first thing I notice is a smile, the second is body language.
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myweddingfavorsposted 8 years ago
I notice teeth or smile!
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lyricsingrayposted 8 years ago
mannerisms, body language
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Mamelodyposted 8 years ago
the chest.. a broad chest tells me a lot about a guy as well as a flabby one.
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blondepoetposted 8 years ago
Always the eyes always, they are what I fall in love with first.
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Ron Montgomeryposted 8 years ago
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  prettydarkhorseposted 8 years agoin reply to this
  LOL< first their stance, they should be taller than me -- confident stance but not arrogant
  
  then later on humour and intelligence
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  motricioposted 8 years agoin reply to this
  What if I'm shorter than u?
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  prettydarkhorseposted 8 years agoin reply to this
  I am only 5 flat hehe, all guys are taller than me
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  motricioposted 8 years agoin reply to this
  No prob then, I'll make u laugh all the time
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  prettydarkhorseposted 8 years agoin reply to this
  ok begin now motricio
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lyricsingrayposted 8 years ago
cash flow and generosity
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  prettydarkhorseposted 8 years agoin reply to this
  hehe, morning lyrics
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  lyricsingrayposted 8 years agoin reply to this
  morning sweetpea
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  Mamelodyposted 8 years agoin reply to this
  
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motricioposted 8 years ago
We are going on our first date.
But I warn you, that I'm a compulsive crazy guy that always speaks singing every word.
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motricioposted 8 years ago
♫♪ Good evening Maitaa♫♪a♫♪a♫♪a !
♫♪ Que linda estaa♫♪a la señoritaa♫♪a♫♪a♫♪a!!!

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  prettydarkhorseposted 8 years agoin reply to this
  Senor motricio, gracias
  
  pero yo guapo mucho
  
  hmm, I dont think we are allowed to post foreign lang here, we are also hijacking the thread hehehe..sorry everyone,
  
  Motricio voy a la comer,
  
  buenas dias
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myownworldposted 8 years ago
ok. that was one successful match......! Let's see how many more to go....
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Green Lotusposted 8 years ago
His or her energy. It's hard to define, but somehow I sense it even before any words are exchanged.
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Hokeyposted 8 years ago
Body language
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  Green Lotusposted 8 years agoin reply to this
  Hokey are you following me? ...or is it my energy?
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  Hokeyposted 8 years agoin reply to this
  Both!!!!
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  Mamelodyposted 8 years agoin reply to this
  with or without chloro-foam?
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  Hokeyposted 8 years agoin reply to this
  Definitly with!! Duh!!!
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  Mamelodyposted 8 years agoin reply to this
  <<<runs to the pharmacy and hijacks all chloro-foam products<<<<
  
  Vwala!
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Ivorwenposted 8 years ago
I tend to notice their hair and the set of their mouth. Then their eyes and whether or not their nose looks like it has been broken. I also tend to notice how I feel around them -- that intuition thing.
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  Green Lotusposted 8 years agoin reply to this
  
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Flightkeeperposted 8 years ago
I notice the general impression he makes, then I make sure to look at his butt.
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Beth100posted 8 years ago
Eyes.
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PrettyPantherposted 8 years ago
The first thing I notice is demeanor; in particular, level of confidence is conveyed by how a man carries himself. Next, I look for intelligence and "presence" in the eyes, someone who is there in the moment.
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