First Impressions

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   StormRyderposted 16 years ago

   What is the first thing you notice in the opposite sex?
   
   
   I notice a mans eyes and smile first most of the time.

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      figmentposted 16 years agoin reply to this

      his face (eyes and smile)

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      myownworldposted 16 years agoin reply to this

      'overall' impression he gives, rather than individual characteristics...

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      skyfireposted 16 years agoin reply to this

      Honest answer ?

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         StormRyderposted 16 years agoin reply to this

         Unless he is facing away from me...then I might notice his butt first

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            skyfireposted 16 years agoin reply to this

            There you go...

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      cosetteposted 16 years agoin reply to this

      
      
      hmm
      
      well, i notice a man's eyes right away, and how he carries himself, and if he is nicely groomed. i also notice a man's hands. i really like nice hands for some reason. and of course a nice smile!

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   Red_Dragonposted 16 years ago

   Hm....for a girl.............The eyes here as well. Especially the one that you look at, and somehow it can pierce you heart with just a look.....

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   Rafiniposted 16 years ago

   I always notice hair first...
   
   is it short or long
   curly or straight
   do they have any?
   black or brown
   red or blond
   clean or dirty
   combed/brushed or messy
   natural or styled
   
   How a man cares for his hair tells me a lot about him.

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   tobey100posted 16 years ago

   The smile.  The eyes would be second.  I have a terrible smile so I'm always on the look out for a great one.  My boys tell me I always look way too serious and it makes people nervous.

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      Justine76posted 16 years agoin reply to this

      people tell my husband that too...
      
      Things I notice first, posture, facial expressions, how the person talks to other peopele, body language I guess..plus eyes, chest and hands for what I notice first physically in a man..

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   tantrumposted 16 years ago

   Eyes & hands.
   for me, it tells everything.

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      tobey100posted 16 years agoin reply to this

      Hands?  I've never thought of hands.

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         myownworldposted 16 years agoin reply to this

         time for a manicure then!

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            tobey100posted 16 years agoin reply to this

            Are you after me again????  Not a bad idea though.  I've never had a manicure.  I've just never thought of hands being a feature to look for.

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               myownworldposted 16 years agoin reply to this

               good.. you've passed the test with flying colors! Men and manicures...nah...doesn't quite go!

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                  tobey100posted 16 years agoin reply to this

                  That's a relief.  I was afraid you were gonna be one of those that claims a real man wouldn't be afraid to get a manicure.  I like to think I at least look like a real man and the thought of a manicure gives me the willies!

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                     myownworldposted 16 years agoin reply to this

                     

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   efeguyposted 16 years ago

   her beauty,then i think of character

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   probafixposted 16 years ago

   I think her way of talking & with personality...First impression is last impression..

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   fiksy02posted 16 years ago

   when talking about the Physical. hum i'm crazy about dimple, nice nails, white teeth with a little gap in between, teddy, long eye lash. you know my kids need to look good incase we get to the baby making stage
   about personality his command of words have to be perfect and he must be easy to talk to on that first meeting

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   Ask Leanne?posted 16 years ago

   First Impressions stick with us, the smile, the eyes, the teeth even the way they walk into a room and can catch your eye, but there not always enough, to really get an impressio of someone you need to know them frist, know there likes and dislikes and look for compatability between you.

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    pooja0908posted 16 years ago

    I notice anyone if he or she interact with me.
    manner of talking
    smile
    frankness
    attitude
    nature
    
    and if does not interact
    
    then
    
    body language
    dressing
    personality

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    Glenn S.posted 16 years ago

    I think the very first thing I notice is a smile, the second is body language.

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    myweddingfavorsposted 16 years ago

    I notice teeth or smile!

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    lyricsingrayposted 16 years ago

    mannerisms, body language

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    Mamelodyposted 16 years ago

    the chest.. a broad chest tells me a lot about a guy as well as a flabby one.

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    blondepoetposted 16 years ago

    Always the eyes always, they are what I fall in love with first.

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    Ron Montgomeryposted 16 years ago

    

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       prettydarkhorseposted 16 years agoin reply to this

       LOL<  first their stance, they should be taller than me -- confident stance but not arrogant
       
       then later on humour and intelligence

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          motricioposted 16 years agoin reply to this

          What if I'm shorter than u?

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             prettydarkhorseposted 16 years agoin reply to this

             I am only 5 flat hehe, all guys are taller than me

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                motricioposted 16 years agoin reply to this

                No prob then, I'll make u laugh all the time

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                   prettydarkhorseposted 16 years agoin reply to this

                   ok begin now motricio

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    lyricsingrayposted 16 years ago

    cash flow and generosity

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       prettydarkhorseposted 16 years agoin reply to this

       hehe, morning lyrics

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          lyricsingrayposted 16 years agoin reply to this

          morning sweetpea

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       Mamelodyposted 16 years agoin reply to this

       

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    motricioposted 16 years ago

    We are going on our first date.
    But I warn you, that I'm a compulsive crazy guy that always speaks singing every word.

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    motricioposted 16 years ago

    ♫♪ Good evening Maitaa♫♪a♫♪a♫♪a !
    ♫♪ Que linda estaa♫♪a la señoritaa♫♪a♫♪a♫♪a!!!
    
    

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       prettydarkhorseposted 16 years agoin reply to this

       Senor motricio, gracias
       
       pero yo guapo mucho
       
       hmm, I dont think we are allowed to post foreign lang here, we are also hijacking the thread hehehe..sorry everyone,
       
       Motricio voy a la comer,
       
       buenas dias

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    myownworldposted 16 years ago

    ok. that was one successful match......! Let's see how many more to go....

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    Green Lotusposted 16 years ago

    His or her energy. It's hard to define, but somehow I sense it even before any words are exchanged.

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    Hokeyposted 16 years ago

    Body language

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       Green Lotusposted 16 years agoin reply to this

       Hokey are you following me? ...or is it my energy?

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          Hokeyposted 16 years agoin reply to this

          Both!!!!     

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       Mamelodyposted 16 years agoin reply to this

       with or without chloro-foam?

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          Hokeyposted 16 years agoin reply to this

          Definitly with!!   Duh!!! 

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             Mamelodyposted 16 years agoin reply to this

             <<<runs to the pharmacy and hijacks all chloro-foam products<<<<
             
             Vwala!

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    Ivorwenposted 16 years ago

    I tend to notice their hair and the set of their mouth.  Then their eyes and whether or not their nose looks like it has been broken.  I also tend to notice how I feel around them -- that intuition thing.

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       Green Lotusposted 16 years agoin reply to this

        

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    Flightkeeperposted 16 years ago

    I notice the general impression he makes, then I make sure to look at his butt.

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    Beth100posted 16 years ago

    Eyes.

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    PrettyPantherposted 16 years ago

    The first thing I notice is demeanor; in particular, level of confidence is conveyed by how a man carries himself.  Next, I look for intelligence and "presence" in the eyes, someone who is there in the moment.

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