Why is life so hard?
Why do we need to suffer so much? Why is life so cruel and hard for us? Did we deserve this?
It is the way you make it. If you do good you will get a good life. It is up to you to create your own future. You know they say "If you fall you will learn your lesson and do better".
Where there is good there is bad. It is like a balance in nature. Life is like a test. Again i will say it "It is the way you make it".
Sometimes there are bad periods in life. Remember this is a period not your whole life. Things will get better, hang in there
I ask this question sometimes and I think that the answer is that life wasn't supposed to be easy. We have challenges in life so we can learn. Sometimes life is hard and cruel but that's just life. We have to try to get through things and that makes us stronger.
Honestly, I think it's partially for the fact that if it was "easy"... we wouldn't appreciated anything. When I was a kid, I busted my arse for the POS cars I had to drive around, but they were mine, bought and paid for with money I earned, and I treated them like a Rolls or a Bently. Compared to the "rich" kids riding around in Mommy and Daddy's shiny new cars, and thrashing them relentlessly because they had no respect for what it took to pay for them.
On the other hand, I think life has become more complicated than it needs to be, and that's all of our fault collectively. It used to be Monday through Friday 9-5 was sufficient enough to earn the money to support yourself and your family, and still have enough time left over to actually enjoy your life and your family.
Now we're all so caught up in this idea that we have to have everything and we have to have it all right now that everyone... rich, poor, employer, employee... all races, colors, creeds, and religions... we've all lost sight of what's real and what's important.
I'm just as guilty as anyone else. It's all about more more more... which means more performance, more stress, more hours, more hassle, more demands... whatever happened to "stop and smell the roses"?
I ask myself this bloody question everyday. I think we have to suffer so we become stronger and learn from the suffering.
well,,interesting but true question, i think..there is too much responsibilities or not sincerity in life make life hard, there are another lot of reason like, lack of money, self confidence, and much big reason is diseases in life!
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