Why girls are the way they are
Another words ,not lazy ,that makes you desirable
females look for security and stability,its not about looks ,(thats a bonus) but reliablity and responsibility makes the female relax and when she is relaxed nice things happen
you don't have to understand them ! you just have to 'love' them,! Putting it in a gentlemanly way !
- Crazdwriterposted 14 years ago
0 - Crazdwriterposted 14 years ago0
Every girl is different, just like every guy is different. So it isn't so much understanding "girls" but understanding the particular one you're interested in
However there are some general things to keep in mind. But there is always an exception to the rule I wrote a Hub about some dating tips for guys.. but they're very general.I always like to be different, for some reason guys can never work me out.
- ralwusposted 14 years ago0
- ralwusposted 14 years ago0
What a sweet guy Arujain1989 !,so refreshing that you ask ,too many guys just assume to know, or mistake brawn for brains.
I think you have an open and teachable spirit, your insight will be your best teacher and friend. All the best for you and your girl- ralwusposted 14 years ago0
- ralwusposted 14 years ago0
- Crazdwriterposted 14 years ago0
we are made as opposites so we won't get bored and our kids can have diversity growing up.I will never understand my spouse either. I just know that love and patience are more than just virtues, they are survival instincts!
arunjain, I just finished my comment. I'll add the blog link (although it does go against my grain to post a link to my own thing.
). Thanks, by the way.Thank you very much, but I just went back and read the whole "Understanding How...." thing, and I now notice it's more a general approach and doesn't say anything about women's preferences or approaches when it comes to dealing with boyfriends and husbands. Actually, the last quarter of it may have some insight. Other than that, it's pretty much about general thinking.
(It's been a while since I looked at it. I tend to write and abandon stuff. ).
Again, thank you. That particularly "fluffy" blog is one I've never been sure about; but the world is so full of unpleasantness and sometimes ugliness when it comes to women, I guess I just wanted to send the message that a lot of the times being a woman is fun, light, and pretty pleasant.
(Besides, being writing dry articles for other people and stuff about serious issues so often, I just wanted something light.) (By the way, I completely agree with Colebabie's sensible remarks.)arunjain, your thread here inspired me to write a Hub about what most of the women I know do want in men. (I've been a little short on "inspiration" with the last week of 90-degree heat and humidity.
Between this thread and the fact that we're down to 60 degrees - voila, inspiration. )- hope it helps a little.
I can't speak for other women since we all are essentially individuals, but having two younger sisters so different from me, it intrigues me how eccentric us three women are.
I think getting to know anyone, gal or boy, as a person rather
a gender, will strengthen a bond.
Using me and my siblings as an example:
I am not the emotional, romantic type, nor do I like talking much in real life. I do that in my writing rather, hehe. I am quiet, insightful, yet moredominant.
I like smart, artsy men that talk more than me, yet are not these brawny, macho guys (I like me some long hair). I am rather picky.
My one sibling is bubbly, loud, blonde and lovely, yet smart while having the boys at her feet. She is no push over though which I think adds to her attraction.
My youngest sister is the insecure, emotional one, who at this point thinks she needs a manly man for security and affection. Nothing wrong with wanting a good MAN but she settles for anyone.
So, when you start treating and seeing a woman as an indivudal, and perceive her oddities or outbursts as part of her personality instead of categorizing her with all the other female stereotypes, you'll really appreciate that woman, person, better.
I know I had better relationships with men when I stopped classifying them so much into the typical male stereotypes I was brought up knowing.
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